My sister is flirting with my crush?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve liked this guy for 3 years and I haven’t seen him for a year cause he moved but now we go to the same college. So my friend and my sister and I hang out with him sometimes. And my sister and the guy both know I like him. My sister said she wouldn’t try to date him because she knows I like him but when I read their messages to each other it’s all flirting and sexual. She’s been doing this behind my back and she still thinks it’s a secret should I confront her or wait for her to tell me? And do I have a right to be upset?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, if both know it (specially the guy), and nothing has happened so far, then what? Is there any hope?

We can all discuss if your sister is out of line. Debate on it. Draw conclusions. But nothing is gonna fix the core problem.

The core problem, I think is that he does not like you like that. So, if i were you, I would focus on getting over the person. We are only human, so its natural and probably I also would have gotten mad at friends/sibling for stealing my crush. But I have no "rights" here. I can't demand that they dont. Because its my problem at the end. And I should try to get over the crush.

[Avicenna]

You do, and you should tell her to back off. That said, the underlying problem here is that you've waited so long to ask him out.

[Asker]

Well my sister would not listen to what I have to say about it because this is not the first time she’s done this and I did sorta ask him out and he said I’m cute but he doesn’t see me like that. That’s why I was thinking it’s been a year since I’ve seen him so I was gonna give it another shot.

[Avicenna]

Ask him out now then. The longer she does that with him, the more likely he'll forget about you

[Asker]

Yeah I could but I literally have no chance I’m all nice and shy and she’s busty and out going of course he chose her for a reason he knows I like him yet he’s gonna talk to my sister

[Avicenna]

Your chances are zero if you don't make a move. Guys will usually go for the girl that shows she definitely wants to date him.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right, thank you

[Avicenna]

No problem- and good luck!

[ThatQuietLass]

How are you sure he knows?
And did she say that a year ago? If so she's off the hook. Not your fault you didn't take the chance and if he said no, even more reason she can have a go.
Also, is it actually even flirty?

[_Just_A_girl_]

He hasn't claimed either of you.
Your sis should be honest if she knows you like him she should've helped show you off a bit

[Joe1956]

remember he owns a part in this... he is flirting her...