She could probably see from one look that I was the lowest human on the totem pole. I had never even had a friend before at that point. didn't have my first friend until I was an adult.
Even when I went to summer camp with new kids who didn't know me, without ever having an interaction with anyone I would always be immediately singled out for harassment, bullying, and ostracism.
People in general, but even kids that young can identify a social outcast and make sure that person stays that way. That's just the way things work when you live the life I did.
It's weird looking back. Cuz I was a cute kid. Nothing on the surface level of my appearance was what you would expect. It was just I was bullied since grade 1 because my mother did not clean us and I stank at school. Even later when I was able to be clean it didn't matter. The social damage was done. I was forever marked an outcast and was treated like that and bullied my entire life. Literally I was over 25 years old the last time I was harassed and attacked verbally by some strange person who could see that I am still affected by my childhood.
Obviously girls see this as well. They struggle with how damn tall and cute I am and the fact that they can see how damaged I am lmao.
Every time I flirt was the worst failing flirt ever. So the last time I attempted to flirt, was the worst. And the next time I flirt, that will then be the worst.
Don't know if it's considered flirting fail but people often say that I flirt with someone when I'm just trying to be nice. It always makes me feel awkward.
I don't think I've ever tried a flirt but I suppose getting the nerve up to approach then getting shot down by finding out about their boyfriend or kids could count towards that too 😅
Anouther time I told a guy I was above average $#@# percent of the time in a fraction layout. Later my friend did the math @gwenhwyfar and it ended up being 16% . So I told a guy I was above average 16% of the time👍
I do not flirt. I just get to the point, like "Pardon me, would you like to have anal sex with me?" or " Can i please borrow your used panties?" and see what she says!
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I was fifteen and looking for a good guy to talk to. I accidentally called him "babe" and he thought that was rather forward so he blocked me
Really? Someone blocked you over that?
Yes. (...) I might have came off strong
Usually many guys love such terms of endearment
Yes of course but not from a stranger
Well, I wouldn't be offended if a strange woman calls me such terms, unless I'm already very angry, but that too is mostly temporary
Good to hear
It's an invitation 😉
I think I was like 10 or 11 years old, in summer camp. I said hi to a girl and she screamed bloody murder and ran away from me.
Why did she scream?
She could probably see from one look that I was the lowest human on the totem pole. I had never even had a friend before at that point. didn't have my first friend until I was an adult.
Even when I went to summer camp with new kids who didn't know me, without ever having an interaction with anyone I would always be immediately singled out for harassment, bullying, and ostracism.
People in general, but even kids that young can identify a social outcast and make sure that person stays that way. That's just the way things work when you live the life I did.
It's weird looking back. Cuz I was a cute kid. Nothing on the surface level of my appearance was what you would expect. It was just I was bullied since grade 1 because my mother did not clean us and I stank at school. Even later when I was able to be clean it didn't matter. The social damage was done. I was forever marked an outcast and was treated like that and bullied my entire life. Literally I was over 25 years old the last time I was harassed and attacked verbally by some strange person who could see that I am still affected by my childhood.
Obviously girls see this as well. They struggle with how damn tall and cute I am and the fact that they can see how damaged I am lmao.
I'm sorry for what you went through as a child.
Every time I flirt was the worst failing flirt ever. So the last time I attempted to flirt, was the worst. And the next time I flirt, that will then be the worst.
Lolol
Playing spin the bottle... drubk... went in the closet she puked on me...
Oh eeeewwww🤢🤮
Don't know if it's considered flirting fail but people often say that I flirt with someone when I'm just trying to be nice. It always makes me feel awkward.
I hear you. I think people mistake me being friendly or jokey for flirting
I called a guy “dude” and thought it was flirting 🤦♀️
Lol 😂
🤣🤣 did it work tho? lolol
Nope he just looked at me with a blank face 🤣
I'll fight both of y'all!😂
I have you stick up for my fellow man 😂
Damn square up
@Bklynbadboy12 why you fighting me lolol
@Brainsbeforebeauty Cause it fun @babieg Make you move shorty
@Bklynbadboy12 But umm if it's two against one, you going down boy in 13🤣
You two are so little you'll need 12 of y'all to beat me lol
@Bklynbadboy12 Yeah I'm not so little😞
@Bklynbadboy12 take this 🖕
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@babieg Oooooo! You just did a bad thing. 😂
Tried my hand at a cute girl while camping. Didn't realize her boyfriend was right there.
Haha so I'm sure that was a no go then lol
Apologized to the dude as soon as I did, we became fast friends.
That's cool 😎☺️
I never flirt because I see that as cheap. Hence no such experiences.
I'm not a flirt either
@Brainsbeforebeauty
That's good
👍👍☺️
Me & flirting just don't go together. I suck at it.
Lol I'm not flirty myself
I would rather not relive that epic failure. It’s just a good thing that he has a sense of humor...
That's good he has sense of humor
@Brainsbeforebeauty with some of the stuff that I say and do... it definitely is!
Humor is great,👍👍
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I never really had the pleasure of flirting, except for some "double entendre" stuff with the ex before my wife.
👍 yeah I'm not much a flirt
I don't think I've ever tried a flirt but I suppose getting the nerve up to approach then getting shot down by finding out about their boyfriend or kids could count towards that too 😅
There is no such thing as a flirting fail.
If the person really likes you, they will excuse your "mistakes". If they are judging you, they are wrong for you anyway, so good riddance!
I hit on a bull dike at a bar who looked just like justin bieber on accident.
Anouther time I told a guy I was above average $#@# percent of the time in a fraction layout. Later my friend did the math @gwenhwyfar and it ended up being 16% . So I told a guy I was above average 16% of the time👍
There's a lot, lot more but I will stop there
You could of stopped at the bull dike🤣🤣
I got worse
Really? Lololol
Yes sadly
But you have someone now, so that's good... July fast approaching👍🙂
😳 I forgot for a minute.
Thanks man ,
It's going to be 100degrees in July here. Lord help me🙂
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Lol how could you forget😂
I do not flirt. I just get to the point, like "Pardon me, would you like to have anal sex with me?" or " Can i please borrow your used panties?" and see what she says!
Slap on my face is one of her top options that comes to her mind (whoever she is I'm dating at the time)
😂😂😂
What is this flirting thing that everybody keeps talking about? 🤔
Lol I don't know really myself cuz I'm really not a flirty person
I don't remember having a failed flirting experience
That's good! Me either but because I'm not much into flirting lol
I don't have "flirting fails" only experiences that I wouldn't try again. Everything in life isn't always a fail.🐼
That's good👍
I'm sure in my younger days there were quite a few fails, don't remember specifics. Now a days I don't try! :-) Just enjoy good conversations.
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It wasn't really flirting but I told a girl I worked with she reminded me of Charles Manson.
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