If a girl sent you a selfie of her with her cleavage showing, would you automatically think she likes you?

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talover · Accepted Answer

It depends on the photo's subject. In the photo shown above, the subject of the photo is a Flat Tummy Tea envelope. Assuming that is the purpose of the taken photo, the pretty girl would be a secondary subject and her cleavage showing in the photo wouldn't communicate anything to the viewer. If, however, the subject of the photo is the pretty girl with a secondary emphasis on boob cleavage, I'd read more into the purpose for sending the photo, by said girl.

Furthermore, if the subject is clearly focused on boob cleavage only, like the image below, then it might be safe to conclude she's trying to communicate something erotic. Or she's a very holy, righteous, pure and innocent woman trying to show you Jesus on the cross (crucifix necklace). I don't know about you, but she ain't fooling anybody with this photo 😉

Whether or not she likes you, is a whole other discussion.

Pyrofox · Accepted Answer

Any guy saying no to this is probably a desperate man trying to get into as many girls pants as they can. You know and I know that if a girl is willing to take everything off but her bra it most definitely means she probably likes us.

The only girls who don't strip barely naked and don't automatically mean romance are those who are pro pole dancers and or pro barely clothed like contemporary dancers. belly dancers, and the very rare authentic like ribbon dancers/curtain dancers. >.> Which the later is like a dying art.

Its pretty much clothing coded into how society thinks XD. Its like if you dress like you belong in a red light district thats probably the prerogative/code of the image. Especially if the girl is holding a CONDOM in the pic. Its like how much more literal does a person have to get to mean something like friends with benefits's does a man or woman get.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If I ever send a picture to a guy of me showing a significant amount of cleavage it's because I'm trying to sexually turn him on. There is literally no other reason why I would do that.

stupidgirlllll123 · Accepted Answer

If it was on accident, probably not. But, if she was doing it on purpose while making a certain face or pose, then yeah.

Notstr8 · Answer

Derpends some special girls have thinking of a man and that is a funny one as they then just like admiration and this means look at me then in your face as it happens i am and can relate. But am a similar but male mind and body so I can just walk nude iif you did this well I would be not wlaking staring... peace sister.

Oh i am good today we could team up i nude and walk it drags attention and then ypou get nude and fuck every one else I even think we could do that too after we had gotten aquanted and built the team spirit you know there is a me in team a;sp Meat and tea so teams are never lonely!

PurSeduction · Answer

Haha jesus what laugh.. nowerdays males in the internet get blasted with "females" texting them first, sending pictures (from casual to nsfw).

99% of the time its all internet scam leading to having to register somewhere or whatever.

So my point is, if guys today acctually judge by being send pictures... I feel sorry.

I any case I prefer real life situations, eye contact, talking and so on.

Plumizz · Answer

Yes. Girls pay very very big attention to details. Naturally, you'd think they also make sure even the small details in them is the way they want it to. If a woman sends me a selfie and it will depend on the cleavage size here but if it's obvious no way this woman just wasn't paying attention.

DumBear · Answer

No not at all. I might think she is showing herself off though. It also depends more on the context of the convo and why she was sending selfies to me.

Pj1981 · Answer

If she sent the picture posted I may think she likes me or I may just hope so. I understand she is wearing work out clothes and holding what looks like it might be a supplement to keep you active but she obviously knows she is sending an extremely cute picture of not just the supplement but her looking amazing. If she doesn't like me then she likes messing with me

Anonymous · Answer

Wouldn't think anything of it, honestly. Just that she's a show off.

Girls are literally walking around with everything hanging out these days. Stomachs out, butt cheeks peeking out of tiny shorts, tits out, every little thing hanging out for everyone to see. As well, they take full on selfies of themselves in bikinis, which is basically underwear, for the whole world to see on their instagram. So, a picture with cleavage is nothing new.

Made4sex · Answer

Lol! Well not necessarily it depends on the cleavage. Like are we talking about a bra pic or underwear pic. Yeah probably. If we were talking about a regular amount of cleavage from a regular low cut top… then it is still possible. But not necessarily.

Jayplays900 · Answer

I'd just be glad that someone was talking to me, especially a woman!

Then I'd think maybe it was a bot, or that she accidentally sent it to the wrong guy or sent the wrong photo. Then I'd have a mental breakdown before turning off my phone and going to sleep.

There's your real answer.

anylolone · Answer

If it's front in focus, I assume she's trying to get some sexual attention, and that usually means they are attracted to you. Same as pecs/bulge/abs pics, by the way.

And they works more effectively than dick pics and nudes, though those work as well.

TodsShadow · Answer

In my experience in life women sent me selfies for sexual reasons. If I got a pic with a lot of cleavage, I’d assume it was something to turn me on during the day. If we are friends it could go 2 ways. If we already agreed it was platonic then I’d make a joke and call that a day. If we haven’t spoken about furthering the relationship I’d may think it was a hint that we have some sex to talk about. But ima straight forward kinda dude.

Jake99999 · Answer

If she didn’t like you - would she even send you any kind of picture?

TheorionMage · Answer

I'd take the hint that she wants ME to consider her as MORE THAN just a gender-neutral platonic friend.

If she's deploying her 'girls' playing 'peek-a-boo' it would seem she wants YOU to CONSIDER them in the equation~ ;)

ZackBan · Answer

Depending on the context. If the picture just came out of nowhere and serves only to show me the clevage then yeah.
If it happened to show in a picture where she wanted to me to focus on something else then not necessarily

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Not an immediate indicator, no. Depends on the woman. Some do it for ego boost and attention, some do it because they genuinely like you or want to hook up.

Anonymous · Answer

No. It’s problematic to assume*anything*. I don’t indulge women in their expectation that I read their minds. If you think your flirting is obvious enough that I should “just know” then you should have no problem speaking your interest directly and unequivocally.

t-8900 · Answer

what it should mean: She's into you what it actually means: PLEASE VALIDATE ME WITH YOUR ATTENTION!  smdh, stop ladies, just stop.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes because of why would she show cleavage otherwise. May sound naive but I come from a rather conservative backround where women often times don´t show much cleavage.

Bubbelz · Answer

If there's no further context, assumptions are easily made. It's logical to assume that they do like you, but that doesn't necessarily mean you can assume they have a crush on you.

Wester1967 · Answer

No. I automatically assume all women would rather have a taller, richer, better looking guy than me. Unless she grabs me by the shirt and drags me in the back room, and even then I might think she’s just trying to get in my wallet

NobleFlight · Answer

"if a guy sent you his dick pic would you automatically think he likes you" This is not really any different. I'd block you.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Yes because she's sexualizing herself for my visual pleasure. She's looking for a big reward 🍆

Lonzarelli · Answer

Girls use cleavage for personal gain, rather than as gestures of selfless offering. A girl teasing me with her looks wants me to invest in her, which doesn't mean she likes me for me... it means she likes me for what she thinks she can get from me

MCheetah · Answer

Not necessarily. Girls like to dress like that all the time, nowadays.

Kaneki05 · Answer

No. Since there are many women that are just openly like that, and don't feel uncomfortable with showing skin.  I would appreciate it tho for sure.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No, I would not automatically think that. Not at all. That picture is about her, not about me.

TremorJay · Answer

When I was younger I might have thought so, and I might have been right. Now though, it's 1000x more likely that she wants my money.

ohshee · Answer

No but it would be a good time to find out LOL before I sent you a picture of my cleavage showing LOL

humpbackjack · Answer

No because cleavage isn’t a big deal now a days but if theirs other clues to go with the cleavage photo then you should be able to figure out her intentions

jackster95 · Answer

Context is everything, but generally I assume women aren't going out of their way to show they like me

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. With my faith in humans, my wife could come and strip herself naked and dance sexily in front of me and I still wouldn't have sex with her or touch her because I still wouldn't assume that she wanted sex with me.

Mr_Potatoman · Answer

It really depends on the picture, like does it seem she wanted you to look at that or does the cleavage just happen to be visible

Interstate · Answer

I would think she is a thoughtless tramp who has no morals or respect for me.

wankiam · Answer

not really as girls here dress like that all the time anyway

MrOracle · Answer

I'm not sure that's enough for a "full green light", but it's certainly a positive sign.

worldscolide · Answer

Probably not, it depends on the Pic.. Like if she was blatantly showing it, calling attention to it, trying to look sexy.. I might think she was interested, if it's like the image above, probably not.

ElvenMr · Answer

In some way yes? Depends on the photo in my opinion, and how personal it is.. So unless she starts posting that same picture on her instagram or elsewhere, then i guess it it can be a sign she likes you.

sawno · Answer

Typically girls don't send me selfies. So if its one like the example pic then yes.

GoldenAxer · Answer

I mostly think a girl likes me until she shows me a reason that she doesn't.

VDrago14 · Answer

It varies, but depending on the amount of cleavage it could indicate if she's showing interest or not

TwistedSukuna · Answer

Depends on the context, but if it's out of nowhere one may assume she's interested

wonderfulstation404 · Answer

the question is if she doesn't why the hell sends it. a girl that. send's me that i 1000% sure if i say we're boyfriend&boyfriend now she'll be crazy about it

nickaboy · Answer

Like in the pic above no, only if she really zooms ij on the cleavage But I fall in love as soon as a girl talks to me cause Girls don't talk to me

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

No, I don’t receive any texts from women lol. No one texts me but family. If I did get one, I’d just assume it was a wrong number or a scam.

LostInDespair · Answer

Nowadays, I assume that random woman sending sexy pics is a part of a scam where it's not even the women being the senders themselves.

Laggy · Answer

I would be turned off and think she either just wants attention or wants to get me in bed. I want more than sex.

ODC2112 · Answer

If she send me a pic in lingerie/or bikini, yes. If she send me a foto with show her clevage only, no.

NightHawk99 · Answer

I will treat this girl the same way girls treat guys who send unwanted dick pics.

monkeynutts · Answer

It’s never happened before, but it’s not something I’m interested in anyway.

Andres77 · Answer

It's a good indicator if she's sending me any pictures.

VikingWarLord · Answer

If she shows her cleavage she's hoping more than one dude will like her

Ironic_Method · Answer

Not necessarily like me, but definitely wanted to show cleavage for one reason or another.

chriscdi · Answer

No I'd just think she is just wearing comfy clothing if I even notice it in any way

kingykringy · Answer

I’ve been sent a booty dancing video and she didn’t think it was anything sexual somehow

innerman · Answer

No Still confused about second image... what are we activating

InferiorElegy · Answer

Yea right, I'm more likely to think that she's a bot or scammer. 100% of all the times it's happened it always turns out to be either one.

vxltrxn · Answer

this is like a culture by culture thing some parts around the world cleavage is very okay, other parts not so much, not to mention the girl herself and how she deals with skin and cleavage

FreeOhSeven · Answer

That assumption could very easily lead to sexual assault

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, maybe. Or perhaps she was just in the mood, and it sent it randomly.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Do you think a guy likes you who sends you dick pics you didn't ask for?

noohair · Answer

In todays world, I see no meaning. Have you been outside lately during the warm months?

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