Can you have a good personality without a sense of humor?

[Anonymous]

Assuming personality is something you can work on to make yourself more attractive, I think the only thing that only comes natural to people is humor and wit. It takes me a lot of time to quickly comeback or make a good joke (sometimes I can’t figure out a joke). My brain isn’t fast enough.

But I’ve never heard of a divorce because someone wasn’t funny. So, that would mean humor, just like good looks, has the role in attracting someone, but not necessarily keeping them.

[Diodoro]

Attractive traits women strongly respond to in men:
Assertive
Mental Toughness
Streetwise
Domineering (relentless/ruthless)
Adventurous

There are plenty of men out there that keep a woman that aren't really funny. They might make a joke here and there, but they're not humorous people.

They're at ease enough to make a joke and don't take themselves too seriously all the time. For example. The main character in the show House. He's kind of a piece of shit, arrogant asshole. Girls also love the guy. Sure he makes jokes but not really. He makes fun of people, situations, ideas. He is However playful

Being playful is more valuable than actually being funny. A guy that's always cracking jokes can actually be tiresome for a lot of girls. Plus, how many dads do you know out there who raised multiple kids with his wife that's actually a funny guy with a good sense of humor?

Lol I know far more boring dads or guys that Crack jokes but silly dad jokes most people shake their head at lol but he checks off other traits that are more valuable

[NewgodX]

Absolutely some people are silent intelligent type they don't crake jokes all the time or keep laughing loud on anything that sounds a bit funny
They have a strong serious personality and some people usually people who look for a mature personality might like it
So there is nothing wrong with that

[snowgirl123]

well, comedy was introduced in the world to make people childish and diminish their intelligence, to distract them, and most of all for people to think it is alright to disrespect others. i am not saying it is bad, just not necessary most times.

sometimes it is cute and distracting but too much of it can be exhausting, at least to me. it is cute when a man does something funny to make you laugh or to make you like him. you can be cute if you can't put up a joke, a little silly sometimes.

I believe that being serious is a good thing about you. specially if you're a man. take advantage of it and show how mature and wise you can be, that's sexy. are you a man?

well look, just be yourself. you are a beautiful person if you treat others kindly. not being able to make jokes is no problem for a girl. girls would much rather find you attractive if you're a gentleman, romantic, respectful, sensitive, loyal, and a friend.

never change yourself to be with a girl if you're not doing anything wrong

[dustybiker]

There are a lot of people who don’t understand or appreciate humor in any form. You either have it or don’t. It’s not a good or bad thing, just another thing that makes you a match with someone, or not. Just be you.

[pickedcrisps]

Nope.

I don't think I could see a future with her for very long if it was me dating such a woman myself that I'm describing.

Oh well. But for me I have to laugh and I have to have someone laugh at all my antics and clumsy antics 🤣

[Siren777]

Yes it's possible. Some introverts I've met have great personalities. They may not have been rambunctious but they were great people.

[Hallo626262]

"extroverts" aren't more likely to have a good humor.

[Phoenix98]

You can but in saying that I think having a good sense of humor really seals the deal for a lot of people.

[TrueConfection]

Yes. I know a few people that fit the description of good personality and a lack of sense of humor.

[JosyJosy]

Sure! And some people can be hilarious without them having a sense of humor.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes you can

humour varies between people, often dramatically.

let’s face it some nationalities would stop dating if humour was a requirement, some don’t even get sarcasm.

[CasstheLass]

I think you can for sure, humor’s like a topping on a pizza, sometimes it’s nice and adds something but it’s not for everyone either haha.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah. You'd be kind of boring though

[myabe123]

No but I’m hot

[JessieBellll]

Definitely

[Badgerpup93]

Yes i think so