Guys, if you flirt with someone, are you usually serious or just joking?

[Anonymous]

How about flirting with someone when you first meet them vs. flirting when you get comfortable with them?

[Battooot]

I won't say 'serious' because someone may say something like "when i first saw you i thought you were an Angel coming to take my soul to heaven... until you started talking to me normally" he ofcourse won't mean any of that nor is that scenario realistic but the intention and hope behind it is very real. Ofcourse the best case scenario answer he hopes to get as a reply is "omg take me to your place and do to me whatever you want" or if he is a genuine respectful guy with genuine intentions... just you falling for him getting into a relationship with him.

But yes... flirting is always always. ALWAYS. always. Accompanied with an intention, with a hope that something comes out of it. Even if we said it as casual as possible and jokingly... it always has this hope deep inside that something comes out of it. Whether they just met you or know you for a long time.

PS: I personally only give honest flirting/compliments by the way. I dont do that angel shit unless i really really mean it, which is super rare.

[t-8900]

Unless i REALLY know you my flirting is joking. I might throw some hints like yeah I'm attracted to you. But if you aren't reciprocating within a few minutes then I usually just take it as you aren't interested and then it's all jokes. I'm weird around girls. I've been hurt too many times to deal with mixed signals. You're either in or out with me.

[WhoRtheseGuys]

I don’t flirt unless he is hot and has a good personality. So seriously about at least one activity.

[Quigly]

Joking, If I first meet her I really don't know anything about Her background. She could be married with kids for all I know. I don't really consider that just because I am speaking or joking around that it's really flirting either. Any guy with experience knows that flirting is entirely open to interpretation depending on the girl you are around. So I just don't begin any relationship with the idea that there is anything more there. If I can't be friends first, I'm just not interested.

[Hassan_8]

Depends on the guy
we sometimes just flirt for fun
but if he did it multiple times then he is serious

[Shizunk]

I did flirt with women I already knew I wouldn't date. But 9/10 of cases I am really probing to find out if there is a chance of something serious.

[Jay3344]

When I first meet them it’s not serious, just fun. If you know them then it can be a little more serious if you have motive behind it. Like if you’re trying to have that flirting lead somewhere than it may have shades of ”seriousness” mixed with it.

[Wester1967]

I'm always serious. It's invariably her that's always joking as she checks her notifications for Tinder and Bumble messages.

[whosnumber1]

I would say flirting is just and innocent action to see if a girl is interested. if there is a positive response the guy will take the interaction more seriously.

[Andres77]

Joking... cuz I'm married and nothing is ever going to happen... so pack up your "giners" ladies and go home. I'm off the market...😉

[jamesgoldman]

I don't flirt but have been flirted with and was utterly oblivious to the fact for genuinely months

[DarkWinterNights]

Serious if she responds positively. Joking if she doesn’t.

[Battooot]

Lmao someone said it best

[237841663]

well normaly its not joking some times we do it if we like some one

[WinterWind]

I flirt with ones I don't like. I can't even talk to ones I like.

[AdithyaR]

Oh I never flirt.
I'm normally friendly with people and I run away from people I have a crush on.

[_no_one_]

I am mostly just kidding unless the person gives a positive response and matches the vibe.

[Crimson8]

Right now there's a woman whom I'm quite comfortable with and we have been flirting quite subtly. I'm serious but she has a boyfriend, so that is a bummer.

[Simply321]

All this depends on the guy. I’ve been told that I’m always flirting. No matter the situation or if I just met them. I don’t see it. I think I’m being nice but I might be wrong.

[Tabasco25]

Unless your wearing a sign that your flirting it usually goes over my head sadly 😅🥴 I think my flirt radar is broken.

[Anonymous]

Want to be serious but still joking otherwise would've proposed her

[Jaysonava]

Always serious. Rarely joking. I love to fuck.

[Rachel794]

Nice

[Luopio27]

I never flirt with those I dont like.

[Iron_Man]

When I’m single I’m serious in person