Ex sends pics of her abs knowing the other girls aren't on the same level as her. How do you respond to that?

[Anonymous]

She took it to a whole new level since break up and now has a rock hard six pack and wants me to know about it. (She knows I loved her abs) I’m not going to lie it’s super hot and it’s all I can think about. Example. “I can’t believe how ripped I am now my abs are so hard, I love touching them”

[TonyV]

Give her a false complement, something technically positive but really shows how you don't care. The shorter the reply the better, something like "good for you", maybe just a single word like "cool" or "neat"

Or maybe just shit on her ocplishment my telling her that it dosent matter how nice she is on the outside cause on the inside she's ugly.

Or maybe just ask "why?"

Whatever you do don't let her know you think she's hot, don't give her power over you. I don't no if she is trying to manipulate you or what but she's your ex, who cares what she looks like.

[t-8900]

well you already basically explained we're two very, very different people in regards to this. So you do as you please. But how I'd react? "Good for you. I'm glad your going where you want in life" and that's it. But... I don't do hook ups and if she's an ex and it's her opening up with her body/looks and not her heart and mind then I'm not really going to care one way or another. If its over emotionally for us and all's thats left if stuff like this I'm not really going to pay her much mind. I break up with girls either because they cheated on me or I felt used and or disrespected by them. So why would I give them much attention exactly? Unless there was a clear and mutual understanding of something more in a romantic sense, not interested.

[Киттйлинк]

I dislike people like that... they don’t want you but want to throw in your face like look I’m better than who you’re with type of attitude.. yuck! That in itself would make me overlook anything good about them.
there are plenty who are much better looking minus the shitty ass personality.

my advice: show zero interest don’t comment or look at her stuff.. otherwise you’ll always be the salivating dog that wants everything they can’t have and that alone makes you unwanted by anyone who sees that.

[AmandaYVR]

Wow she is really rubbing it in. She wants you to feel bad you are no longer together.

How should you respond? Depends how you feel about her, and what you want to happen. Are you going to admit to her how you feel, or not stroke her ego?

[Asker]

It’s just such a turn on. The cockiness.

[AmandaYVR]

That's not your ex girlfriend.
https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/558305685028401154/

This guy's looks real.
My wife has six pack abs that are better than mine should I try and catch up? Do you find gym girls hot? ↗

[Asker]

That was the example I used. Never said it was.

[Asker]

That guys gal is jacked

[FlowerPink]

Wow you made up a lying story and used someone's else girl pic wow you're completely pathetic.

[AmandaYVR]

Why not post a picture of her? If her face is out of the picture, isn't that fair? She's probably posting them to social media anyway right?

[Asker]

Not comfortable so shared something similar. She isn’t as ripped as the picture you shared but close.

[FlowerPink]

Pathetic

[AmandaYVR]

Ok, well I can respect that. It's better than you making up a whole story.
People are jaded and cynical. They've seen so much on the internet. They'd rather err on being cynical than feeling duped.

But you don't seem to have a real q here. You're basically just drooling and wondering how to stop yourself from going back to the trough, right?

[Asker]

Or if I should. Anything else doesn’t stack up

[AmandaYVR]

You're standing at the intersection of beauty/sexual desire and incompatibility.

You've said nothing about whether she wants back in. You both get a vote.
She's taunting you. That much we know.

[crazy8000]

If you really are into giving a reply you can do a couple of different approaches.

1. What did you have in mind I should do with those pictures?

2. If you want something in particular be straight forward otherwise never contact me again especially with that nonsense.

3. Do you need CBT?
You seem to need it.

4. I take this as sexual harassment.

5. How mature do you consider yourself?

6. Who are you?

7. There's a reason we aren't anymore.

8. Do you want a restraining order?

9. It's transparent what you try to do.

10. Smells like desperation.

11. And?

12. You look fat and sloppy.

13. It looks funny. Have you been at the doctor for that?


You can just block her instead.

[Fireguy17]

so if she is your ex why are you still communicating, or receiving pictures from her?
She is an ex, move on with your life. There is a/(are) reason (s) you are no longer together, and her going to the gym really won't change them.
It is time to move on.
They older she gets it will be harder and harder for her to maintain that shape.
Bodies change as we age, and there is nothing we can do about it.
Just block her and live your life.

[SnakeBoop]

Probably block her then and show some respect for other "relationships" you're in.
Sounds like a great toxic ex there

[ChrisMaster69]

I really would have words with her..

she’s fooling you

http://joyreactor.cc/post/2246418

[Asker]

Sounds like it was an example mate

[NetSapien]

Sounds like you did the dumping...

To be fair, if you do like those types of abs, could she not have worked on that while you were together?

For me, this would be more evidence that I did the right thing in curbing her.

[Asker]

To be fair she had a six pack while together and she knew I loved it. She just got better

[summiter]

Enjoy them... remember all of the great sex and look at them if u need something see when u jerk off.

[kenz000]

I guess it depends if you are interested, not just in her body but her as a person. Do you see yourself being happy again with her? I don't know about her intentions but it seems like she wants you to be jealous and I see that as a turn off.

[jshm2]

That looks like a fucking tin of biscuits, and has put me off my coffee.

Anyway, she's teasing you with your fetish is all. bit of a cunt move on her part, but she probably still has feelings hence the continued contact.

[Assi2k]

Lmaooo I thought this was a hot dude finally giving us a free show on GaG


She seems needy for validation. Don’t give it to her and watch her chase you. Trust me.

[Anonymous]

That's kind of hot that she's trying to make you jealous and intimidate the other girls

[Asker]

Very

[Mia_MadisonOF]

I’m glad I’m not on the same level as her. High muscle mass is something I attribute to men. I don’t want to look or feel manly. I love the fact that when my man touches my body I know it feels supple and feminine. 💁🏼‍♀️

[Subarugirl]

That's not high muscle mass that is toning and low body fat percentage.

[Mia_MadisonOF]

Here we go.. “toned” and a visible 6 pack are not the same thing...

[Mia_MadisonOF]

Excuse me, visible 4 pack and ridiculously defined serratus
muscles… 🙄

[Mia_MadisonOF]

Also, notice obliques and how vascular she is… This isn’t someone who just goes to the gym to “tone”.

[Asker]

To each their own

[Subarugirl]

You should have seen my abs when 17, there nothing not feminine about me lmao

[Mia_MadisonOF]

I’m good…

[Subarugirl]

The woman in the photo puts more work into her health and body that 99% of people out there. Someone who looks like that has awesome qualities like commitment, perseverance, self control, it's pretty damn impressive.

[Mia_MadisonOF]

To be completely honest, you have zero clue what other people put into their bodies and looking the way they do. Visible abs are not easily achieved or even a possibility for some women.. most of it is genetics. I’m not built like that, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have to put in hella work for my body to be the way it is. I’m not knocking her body type, composition or anything else. If you like your body, good for you. I was talking about mine and my preferences in my response. Thanks.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Subarugirl it’s also a 2015 athlete

[Subarugirl]

@ChrisMaster69 I guess that reinforces what I said about discipline, self control, and commitment lol

[ChrisMaster69]

@Subarugirl yep very much so

[Hallo626262]

I wonder if she still gets her period...

[Anonymous]

You are a good person for not posting her real pic due to privacy. So I dont understand why some people are upset at you for not posting her real pic. Whatever, it is your decision. I think she still loves you and wants you make you jealous. I dont know. Maybe she just wants you to regret the break up

[5points2gspot]

Block her n move on with your life. Hope her rock hard abs will keep her awesome company ! Go love your own abs. Stop drooling over an ex.

[Jaximus-Lion]

I would do the same, i have 6 pack too and tell her : get over your self, 16 year olds can get a 6 pack too. They real do

[Anonymous]

Ew every girl is on a higher level than her tranny ass

[DaveJord]

Ask her too cover over, duh?

If she says no then block her from everything... she's obviously messing with you.

[DaveJord]

Come over not cover over

[Anonymous]

Yeah…. I’m not into that stuff, so I can’t help you…. Are you sure you’re straight? Because I don’t see how any guy can be into that stuff. Like don’t you like actual real women with feminine bodies?

[wonderfulstation404]

Tell her she should come to your place so you can feel if it’s real or photoshopped…

[Notfabricated11]

I'd be like " I might miss those abs but I bet you miss that bump deep in your stomach to".

[AviatorTom]

No response. That's what she's looking for and I'm not going to give here that pleasure.

[RationalMale]

Damn! Impressive. That takes real dedication and discipline.

[Asker]

That’s the turn on

[cookiecrusher]

Send her a picture of a heart and a brain in return and say "with you i had the body, but not these"

[Anonymous]

I'd reply with this.

[Anonymous]

You should send back some pics of a girl with spectacular boobs and say "playing with these now."

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dunno, I don't find ripped bodies attractive, and I don't talk to exes.

[Not_Average]

Good for her but she’s obviously trying to get you back

[Babygirl_S]

Some women feel very good after gaining a lot of muscle definition. She wants to make you feel bad about dumping her.

[jasco]

Good that you have abs and your point is what? That you think that having abs is gonna make you more attractive to me? Nah

[Massageman]

10 hits on Tin-eye, as far back as 2013. SO, I:m guessing this is not your girlfriend.

[Dchrls78104]

Maybe it's her way of saying, "This is what you've lost, buster".

[SmokinAces2000]

I’m pretty sure majority of girls don’t want to be on that level 😂

[noohair]

Block the ex and move on. You can't grow living in the past.

[TallAnon]

Depends what you want with her, "Who asked?" is a good way to end this.

[Anonymous]

Hmm well the main question is why she's not blocked?

[Anonymous]

I think it looks nasty. A bit of abs are nice, but it looks kinda masculine and you don’t go showing off to people like that.

[douride2]

You could always simply block her.

[Cassie_1992]

Just block her go no contact.

[goaded]

Complement her, and move on.

[genericname85]

who broke up? you or her?

[OddBeMe]

Men value asses and tits more. Need fat for those.

[Asker]

What if she has a great ass?

[OddBeMe]

Subjective but if she’s athletic, there’s no ass.

[Jfranco12]

That’s not true, plenty of athletic females with nice asses

[Notfabricated11]

@Jfranco12 wow so serena Williams has no ass. Lol its just genetics bro.

[Jfranco12]

@Notfabricated11 I think you replied to the wrong person

[OddBeMe]

@Notfabricated11 guess it depends on what we call great asses. I like mine like memory foam. Not guns of steel,

[Neko_Nya]

Meh, abs don't really do anything for me

[Peenshake]

Well. . I respond well

[najekim]

Another slave to their body.

[Fuentes]

They're over a million people so many can compare.

[Reijen]

Uh, why did you guys break up.

[Texas_guy]

You don’t. It’s an ex. There’s no reason to

[sawno]

You don't respond.

[Beekeeper2]

Yeah that Brie Larson is hot. Lmao loser.

[Julious0202]

obviously she is wanting to tease you

[dragoblack]

That is super sexy

[Wester1967]

I don't date men

[Wise4myage]

Block and delete.

[zagor]

Delete. Ignore.

[anylolone]

Not care.