Found so many photos of a girl on my husband's phone. How can I know if he's flirting with a real person or he just has photos of an influencer etc?

[felicitias]

[Subarugirl]

He's having an online affair. I am willing to bet on it. If you ask he'll deny it, so it would be better to catch him in the act. Keep an eye open for apps like Kik, WhatsApp, wickr, and whisper or any other messenger apps. If he has an android you can look at the photo's meta data, it's harder to do with an iPhone, but it could give you some insight into where he is getting the photos.
People that do this kind of stuff are smart about keeping it hidden but it may be worth checking his phone records to see which numbers are being called and texted the most. Start paying attention to how much time he is spending on his phone, will he leave the room with out it or does he always keep it on him? Does he put it away as soon as you walk into the room? Has he seemed distant but in a better mood than usual?
What I would really recommend though is look through his app store and see which apps he has downloaded and which apps have been downloaded and the deleted.

[melanieeeB]

Uhm influencer pics are actually pretty obvious, alone by the quality, the editing, the poses etc
You can still Google search them but I guess we both know what you just found and I'm truly sorry🙏🏼

[ScottStevens]

Snap him out of it now! The photo's are not innocent, and yes they probably are of an on-line affair. I made that same mistake, I fell for an on-line fraud. Almost lost my wife over a photo of what I thought was much more of a person.

These people out there are very professional in what they are doing. They have no feelings for the person they are scamming. He got caught up in something he should be doing, and you two need to discuss it together.

You will need to be very supportive of his honestly, that is why you got married. He probably got started totally be accident, then got drawn in. Again, these scammers are very professional and know what they are doing.

[boggboss]

Sounds like he is cheating by your follow up comments to others u understand that he is to blame for this not her

[felicitias]

ı blame both of them

[boggboss]

U are blaming a women that u don't even know if she knows he is married?

[Ninaface]

She made no vows. Unless she's in a relationship herself, she has little obligation. And most likely she doesn't know

[boggboss]

Pretty much

[Aperionc]

Heeey sis I feel you.. Same thing happened between me and my ex couple of months ago. I found some girl's photos on his phone and when I tried to search photos and name wasn't matching so I use a reverse image search app which is called Dodo to search if she is real or not. Turns out she is catfishing him lol. He lost both me and that girl what a stupid man ugh gross. Try to use Dodo to search it is the best one out there.

[felicitias]

well, it is helpful. I want to know who she is, if she's a real person and trying to ruin my marriage I want to know. I believe thanks to Dodo I can find her.

[Nevahard]

Question? Honestly! How is your sex life?
Do you have as much sex now as you did before at 30.
Maybe he just found someone on the internet but he fantasizes with or he may be talking to her in real telling her what a terrible wife you have become and wishes he can find a relationship outside the house.

[Subarugirl]

you're not far off. I had men like this constantly trying to chat me up as a teenager

[PrettyPriya]

Best you ask him and be straightforward. Another question though... why were you going through his phone? Did he give you permission to do so?

[felicitias]

he's acting weird, having some suspicious phone calls. so I did and look what I found...
I found something I just need proof. I can't ask him because it may cause a discussion

[berryblues]

I sometimes do it too secretly... I guess I have trust issues, I go by his phone when he isn't in the room...

[felicitias]

@berryblues this is my first experience but I had to do

[PrettyPriya]

@felicitias Of course it will cause a discussion. He likely will have to explain why he has them and you will have to explain why you went through his phone.

[Aperionc]

It is easy to say go ask his permission when its happening for someone else rather than you. But believe me sis I experienced the same shit and it gives you a different mentality that hard to ignore.

[kharon_stitch]

ıf you're optimistic believe that these photos are belong to influencers but if you're pessimistic ask him directly!!! (or use some reverse search apps, look at the app stores there are lots of them 🤨)

[felicitias]

do you have any recommendations?

[berryblues]

I recently discovered one called Dodo🤷🏻‍♀️ works pretty well

[kharon_stitch]

yeah sure use yandex or in app store my lovely one dodo is the best (ı tried all of them 🙄) android no idea

[berryblues]

Oopsie.. Too bad :( I think you can either google or yandex reverse image search them... Like first send those photo to yourself, and then upload them on these websites. Hope that girl doesn't look like a child or so on :/

[felicitias]

I'll use them all, I can't sleep can you believe?
I can't stop thinking about it.
I will try all these apps and find the right one I believe.

[Kowalska1]

Tell him about it straight away , DONT hold it inside you because u only hurting yourself and sooner or later u will explode with anger.. not even knowing why.. dont hold your emotions

[Anonymous]

Don't bother. Hide what you see on your husband's phone as evidence and file a large lawsuit against your husband immediately. Come to him senses.

[OddBeMe]

1) do you trust him not to cheat?
2) would it bother you if he just collects pics of chicks on his phone?

[Anonymous]

If it’s over why drag it out? Be the one to confront him. Why support a cheater?

[Joshua0213]

Reverse image search it and you can see if it is on any public page on the internet.

[noohair]

Tell the truth, you were looking at his phone and saw photos.

[Anonymous]

Try using a reverse image search website. Not a hundred percent accurate but worth a tryyy….

[felicitias]

do u have any recommendations?

[Opinion Owner]

Tineye works but u could also try the google or bing one

[Anonymous]

Are u dumb? 45 and asking dumb shit like this. No wonder he cheating

[Flower7]

It’s still a bad situation either way.

[sheikalana]

You need to address this. Sit and talk to him.

[Ryfyle]

@felicitias Just kill him and get it over with.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

I wanna help

[Wise4myage]

Don’t be naive, something is going on.

[jahaims]

Reverse image search.

[LauraFalls83]

Search the pics with google images

[Buunry]

Kinda sus either way tbh.

[SecretGardenBlood65]

you can install spyware on his phone

[In_Trance]

Why are you looking through his phone?

[askjoebuddt]

He is like her more than uyou might think

[JohnHaley114]

Ask him directly.

[Anonymous]

Look at his texts

[felicitias]

all of them deleted, I just have these photos

[felicitias]

And I could not find her on his instagram

[Fuentes]

Ask him who that is

[Anonymous]

It's fishy. Ask him