I really like him, should I double text him?

[Anonymous]

For context, a guy (37) gave me (24f) his number from tinder, the conversation is always flirty banter and fun. Although he's turned off his online status and read receipt, which I find abit sketchy.

There's been times I've caught him online without responding back to me, but I guess people are just busy.

The conversation on Friday night was fun and winding eachother up (in a joke way), he replied the next day with "I'm always nice 😊" so I said "good!" Now he hasn't replied.

I was thinking of messaging him tonight asking how his weekend has been or should I just leave it?

[LaNc3L0TT]

Tbh you ended conversation so It can't go on with same topic, he can't answer anything else on your "good". Either you wait for him to reach out with message or you should send text to him. For last one, I'm 50-50, like you can't lose much but you can see can your conversation go along. I think he is old enough to not think that you are desperate since you started with conversation. But think about it and good luck ofc. :D

[Asker]

So you think I should text him tonight asking how his weekend has been?

[LaNc3L0TT]

Sure, I don't see reason why not to. If you conv goes along nicely just go with it. After that you should know is there "anything" between you and not reach again wait for his move. Like I said he is old enough to know what he wants. :D

[Asker]

I've seen that he's been online but he hasn't text me, surely he would if he wanted to, so I'm going to wait it out.

[LaNc3L0TT]

Your call, good luck! :D

[Anonymous]

Why aren’t you shaming him for being an older man chasing after a younger woman? I mean the consensus around here seems to be that older men are creeps who only want one thing.

[Anonymous]

No, do not double text him, it will make you look desperate.

[Asker]

Should I just wait for him to text me?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, or just send one text.

[Asker]

The last time I text him was yesterday saying "Good!", I was thinking about texting him tonight. So it will have been over 24 hours

[Opinion Owner]

Just be patient.