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When you’re getting over someone, do you take time to yourself or do you hookup with others to get over it faster? (Page 2)
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I take time to myself. I don't do sex without commitment. I don't think distraction works well for the healing process.
Yea i have to be in love and in a longterm relationship to have sex
I don't flirt or do anything casual with anyone, and it usually takes a very long time for some other girl I might like to find me by accident.
I understand
No because casual sex can lead into bad shit plus rebound is not always the way
I agreee
I seriously need to get over one to start with another one. I find dating or even flirting with a girl while thinking about another one very immoral
Damn thats deep. I understand the dating but its rare to hear that people dont even wanna flirt
I'm surprised it's not common for you but many of my friends are like that
If im single, i pretty much have to flirt in my passtime lol
I start looking but as it usually takes several years to find another match I do have some alone time too.
Years? Damn
Yes, it's usually in the scale of years before I find another match.
I struggle a lot actually when i am trying to get over someone... It takes long long time...
I only get rejected but if I would break up, I would take the tome for myself.
Its for the best
I've never tried to use other people to help me get over someone.
Its not using em if you actually want things to continue on in a stable way
i do a bit of both hookup a bit with someone and take time for myself and it goes away quick
Trueeee
Hooking up with someone to get over another person wouldn’t be real to me. I want something real and genuine know what I’m saying
I agree. Thats why i said i get where people are coming from but i need an everlasting interaction, not a temporary distraction
A hookup won't heal you. Time for yourself, for you to learn again, living free and having new adventures and new decisions are what makes free yourself from anyone
Yea thats why i dont hookup
Yup, hookin up will only hurt the people you hook up with and you won't gain any healing. i respect your answer!!!
I always take my time and don't hookup with others right away. But when I do moved on I hookup with lots of people then choose. Rinse and repeat. Once I'm emotionally attached, I know it will hurt me.
Damn
Depends how bad the break up is... if it's a few weeks then I'll jump right back in.. if it's been months.. I will take my time
A little bit of both. Hookups probably but only one time things.
Ahh okay
Nope. I find someone else quickly if even it's for a short time.
Lmao
Lol I hate being alone ðŸ˜
I like my alone time during the day but when night falls, i do enjoy a bit of company since im a night owl
I don't "hookup" with anyone ever!
But yes, I will get out and mingle more with women to make myself feel better.
Yea i dont either but love to mingle
Both sometimes it just working on yourself. Sometimes the hook is all you need to get over a bad one too
Hookups tbh. Rubbing and kissing over some pretty girls mutes the pain of a breakup.
I bet
It's always good to bounce back quickly. Spend time with great friends and have a good time about life. Hookups are not good because you can be too emotionally.
I dont hookup because i need emotional attachment to wana do em
Take time to myself but have a friend with benefits for my sex needs in the mean time