So I am in a musical with this girl and she has been nothing but nice to me. I'd like to say she's flirting but I'm a guy and we misread that so I always just assume a girl is being friendly. We added each other on Facebook and I'd like to get to know her, but she's younger than me by more than a couple years. Is it acceptable to message her and talk to her in a friendly non flirty way or would that still be creepy? I'm not good speaking to people directly until I've had a chance to get to know them a bit. Trying to speed up the process.
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If you usually take thinks slowly, then why would you change, and why would you need the approval of strangers? If it’s natural for you to move slow, then be yourself and take it slowly. The worst thing I see in guys (other than aggression) is when they try to pretend that they are something that they are not! Just be yourself, and act naturally around her.
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If it is friendly and non-flirty then it is highly unlikely to be creepy.
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