If your partner was a server/bartender, would you allow them to flirt with customers if it means they get more tips? (Page 2)

[TonyMetal___86]

No thanks, she can be my bartender at home and flirt with me as much as possible 😂😂

[hammeronfire]

I’d be uncomfortable if I knew he/she/they were out there flirting with others.

[AlexisDiani]

“Allow them” ? How are you going to stop them?

[JustinTheGreat]

I mean you can’t. Just the way you can’t really “stop” someone from cheating on you.
But you can still set boundaries that you’re comfortable/not comfortable in within your relationship. So I’m asking if that would be a boundary that you would be okay with and “allow” your partner to participate in.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Little miss free spirit here doesn't understand boundaries in a relationship

[AlexisDiani]

@WanderingLoveWizard I am acutely aware of relationship boundaries. What I don’t understand is why you would use force or coercion to achieve them.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Fair enough

[JustinTheGreat]

Nobody said anything about force or coercion lol
Maybe “allow” isn’t the right word but you know what I mean

[mobiusforniner]

exactly. We are adults, not little kids. I don't "allow" my wife to do anything. What is she, some kind of dog?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Semantics

[Anonymous]

bib boobs and bending over the table is not flirting. That works well for tips.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I am not that insecure.

[BarryLiverstone]

For sure. Make that $

[TrillXHippy]

The anger inside me would never allow it

[LovrUFFAllls]

I think they all like me, cause they always flirt

[LazerBean]

Probably.

[gedake]

maybe