I find smiling at them helps
For the longest time, I did not think so because the movies said men flock around the good-looking women. But in life, men stare at the good looking women, they don't approach. I spend most of my life as an academic nerd and did not learn to do natural makeup until very late in my life, so it came as a surprise to me that men were attracted to my looks. I was always into the idea of a mind-mate, still am.
But as I took more interest in fashion as a way of expressing myself, keeping fit, and applying not-over-the-top makeup, I got called things like "gorgeous" and "stunning," but never "beautiful." The first two are appearance driver compliments by people who don't know or approach you. Beautiful has more to do with the personality and looks together and men don't approach so they don't know that I can be pleasant as a person. Apparently they think I will be haughty or something. I had had men gape at me open-mouthed, very high powered men stutter, fidget, and get very nervous around me. A lot of men I meet are at work, being in a male profession, so they do not really make a move. In social life, I get approached by little to no people. If they do approach, it's only the f-boys because they don't have qualms about getting rejected so much. So now I believe, yes, after a certain level of attractiveness, it is very difficult to find men who will make any effort with you. I tried the reverse and approached myself and that spooked the men off even though they were showing all the nervous signs.
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More than likely yes , when a girl is beautiful most guys will feel she is out of his league that she will want nothing to do with him , so a guy won’t attempt , cuz he doesn’t want to be denied , The same thing happens with girls that are attracted to a man she finds is out of her league , So the easiest way to get someone’s attention and to show interest in someone is to try to make eye contact with them and smile if you are to nervous to approach them , The funny thing is , it’s best to go out with an opposite sex friend , usually an opposite sex friend can tell you if someone is interested in you or not , Cuz half the time we are clueless if someone is trying to get our attention and showing interest , Most of my friend’s wives will be like Oh she likes you, And I will be like Huh? What makes you think that? She will tell me look how she gets all giggly when she comes walking by you or look how she is playing with her hair etc. So I would make conversation with her and flirt with her and and I was shocked, they were right lol Guy’s can help Girl’s as well when it comes to a guy checking her out. But all in all most people are shy and don’t want to get denied , I learned to just go for it , if I find a girl beautiful to my eyes , I just go for it cuz I figure I really have nothing to lose , it’s best to try them not try at all , We don’t walk around with signs flashing over our heads saying what we are into or what our relationship status is , so it’s best to just go for it , I rather have an answer then not have an answer at all
Some people can get intimidated or think you already have someone so they shouldn't approach or some people have had bad experience with some divas, so some people assume she might have a very bad attitude, it's best not to approach.
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Sometimes you don’t have to be sinfully beautiful for no one to approach you. Sometimes some people just give off that intimidating or arrogant vibe to not approach them. So that’s why nobody says hi 👋.
That is not possible, no way.
It can happen. Lol. Just approach them silly
No. But it's definitely possible for a woman to appear too high maintenance, which means guys will see her as an expensive hassle, and that will simply make them uninterested in her for anything other than casual sex. If you look expensive and designer, frankly most men aren't interested, and the ones who are tend to be men looking for a trophy wife - a woman he keeps around just for her looks, but doesn't take especially seriously beyond enhancing his own image. This kind of man also makes no pretense of being monogamous - they are, by definition, shallow and self-centered.
I recently heard a woman say "men wife up women who are 'plain Janes'", but that's not quite right. Men tend to wife up women who are NATURAL in appearance. Women who are what I call "plastic Barbies" - lots of makeup, designer clothes, and often plenty of cosmetic procedures - tend not to be taken seriously as relationship partners.
It's also very possible for men not to approach a woman because she doesn't show any signs of interest in the man. As you've noted, smiling at a man tells him there is some interest from you, and that's what most men are looking for. Why would a man approach you with no signs of interest from you, when that means rejection is nearly a certainty? Most men won't approach a woman until she shows some kind of interest in him.
This is tough. Very beautiful women have some extreme privileges and unique challenges. Depending on their upbringing and their innate personality they might use it or abuse it.
I’ve seen women on GAG and in real life have this “my shit doesn’t stink” attitude when a man who is “beneath them” approaches them. It wasn’t about how he approached them but it was “oh he is so creepy and pathetic he thought he had a chance with me” condescending and conceited attitude.
Sure this girl is a selfish bitch and the guy and other people can recognize that. But when a guy approaches he is putting himself in a vulnerable position. He is sticking his neck out. Never be rude to a man who tries (if he is polite about it). If you get a “bad feeling” check yourself and ask if you are being fair. If the guy is really a threat or not. 95% of the time he isn’t.
Then there are other scenarios where I’ve been surprised that women who I thought were out of my league actually liked me. I got my foot in the door with a solid 10 in college. But the absolute worst thing happened. I screwed it up and she made a unilateral decision to friendzone me. But I wasn’t friendzoned in the beginning. The fact I had a chance and I screwed it up made it torture on my end. But I was young and I didn’t know what I was doing.yes, the urban legent goes ha really good looking girls often spend modt of their time alone because most guys assume they are already taken or else if they made a move they would just get shot down.
When I was in high school there was a gkirl in my homeroom that was really pretty. I had a huge crush on her. She was not a cheerleader and she did not really hang out with the popular kids. I assumed she was going out with college guys. I tried to talk to her a few times but it never went anywhere. Years later I was talking to a kid that lived next door to her. He said that she always stayed home on Saturday night and never really dated anyone.About 10 years ago I was visiting some friends in Houston Texas. I can't remember if it was Friday or Saturday night. But, their 17-year-old daughter was sitting at home around 8 PM. She did not go out with her mother and her aunts. We guys were going to play poker and drink some beer. She came into the dining room where we were and sit down to watch us. I asked her why are you sitting at home. This was a girl that was her HS homecoming Queen runner-up. There was some kind of dance that night. Nobody asked her out. She was a bit sad about it. A lot of guys today simply WILL NOT approach a female they don't know. It's just a culture thing these days.
Not to me 🙂 i like beautiful women. Very beautiful women too. Even the ones, that look rich, glamorous or have designer pieces. I love them all.
I am not a Gigolo. I love girls. 💕❤️
Beauty is intimidating when you not feeling up to par with the realm of possibilities and where it leads.
For example, I feel more confident in approaching a woman if I'm physically fit, money in the bank, and crib is accommodating and presentable.
Realistically for me, I'm not going to approach if I feel that I'll be unsuccessful getting laid because the ducks aren't in a row.
I hate to say it but the level of preparation for a woman thats not intimidating is minimal, but for me personally I need all that before I decide to approachYes. It's actually common for really attractive people to have high levels of loneliness. The assumption usually is that the person already has a relationship, so most don't bother approaching. Really attractive people are also more intimidating, there's more subconscious social pressure.
No, that is not possible. Guys WILL approach. They might not be the ones you want, but they will approach. I've known guys who would not go after anyone less than a 9/10.
Are there SOME guys who are afraid to approach a beautiful woman? Yes. But they are probably afraid to approach any woman.
Yea, smiling might help. It might also scare them off. For some guys the only thing more scary than being rejected is being accepted. If you understand that, then maybe you get it.
There is a different between being beautiful and being high maintenance.
If the woman is very humble, kind, sweet and happens to look more beautiful than any woman I've met? I would regard her as beautiful and would consider approaching her.
If she is not... and wears a ton of expensive stuff... I would consider her too high maintenance and I would not pursue her.
So remember, be kind, sweet, humble, feminine and VERY approachable 👍🏾
You answered it yourself. Smiling helps. A beautiful woman who also seems approachable will attract men like a light in the dark attracts the moths.
Of course, this can be annoying, so a very beautiful woman may routinely appear cold and aloof to ward off the men. She needs to make sure sometimes to still open up a bit only for the men she chooses.I'm so ridiculously hot that women are too afraid to even look at me, let alone talk to me.
My manly, god-like presence is intimidating and quite frankly a little frightening. Which is the reason so many women avoid me. They're afraid and I can understand that.
(That's what I tell myself anyway. We all have to cope somehow)No that's not possible, there surely is a guy who is accomplished or confident enough to approach. Remember it's the vast majority of men who have little accomplishment that over value a woman's beauty. Those who have achieved something know how to rationalize it.
No.
Probably one of the biggest hinderances is for her to be approachable.
If you are in a pack of friends, hanging out with some guy friend, act like you are in a super rush a lot of guys will not see an opportunity to speak to you. If a woman really wants to be approached it helps to take on the available posture that allows someone that opportunity.
Of course some of the loud players will always approach no matter what her immediate crowd and environment is.
If she's not my type I can easily hang out with her or blow her off. If she's my type, or too pretty, then I won't make a move because I don't like rejection. I'll go to extreme lengths to avoid her unless I find out she's in a relationship then I can act normal and not be so skittish.
Happens all the time!! He thinks that you're SO pretty you MUST have several boyfriends, already, and a long line of others waiting for THEIR chance so, there's NO point in him even bothering!!
Maybe some guys might be like oh she is out of my league and think they got no shot. Some guys might also be to shy or have low confidence to not to even think to talk or even look at her. I noticed if I see a beautiful woman or girl and be confident and not cocky they actually find it attractive and brave to that I talk to them and I got lucky most of the time
getting her number and hooking up with herFrom a man's perspective yes very much. If you are drop dead gorgeous it's intimidating. I think this kind of woman really need to (unfortunately?) man up and make the first move is they find someone interesting enough to throw a smile at them.
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