Why did the girl I’m talking to start acting this way?

[Anonymous]

I really desperately need answers to this. I like this girl so I’m going to keep this short and simple, my brain is fried trying to figure this out. This girl I’m talking to that has claimed to of had a crush on me and even said she missed me when I had disappeared from all social media’s suddenly, I came back and we started talking again and she even seemed elated to talk to me. We would call, talk and flirt, compliment each other and even sometimes get sexual. Things were seemingly mutual. She said she was tired of being single at one point but then i told her that I want something with her in the long run, then it switched to “I’m not ready for a relationship” and that I don’t have to wait for her, when i compliment her she doesn’t return it, when I say I’d like to see her she goes around it, she knew I liked her before and when I say I like her now she doesn’t say much to it. She is short with her messages but she kinda was before, she offered to call recently, she’s sent me pictures of her recently and still says good morning but something just doesn’t seem right. I need any answers and advice I can get…I really like this woman and want something with her…please help, thank you

[jorfan3]

From what I heard, it sounds like she is afraid of commitment.

She might be nervous about getting serious with you. It was all fun and games, but now feelings are involved, and she might have just been looking for a good time, or attention.

Or she could just be afraid of something bad happening. Since she still sends you photos and acts friendly, it kind of throws me off. I honestly expected her to ghost you. You might want to ask her why she isn't ready for a relationship. If she had a bad break up with a friend or lost someone close to her after dating.

[bota_selena]

Sorry for saying it but sometimes girls just need attention. Even if they’re not truly interested in you they may act like into you. Cause just they don’t wanna feel lonely and want someone to care about them (want to take compliments, feel special) They sometimes don’t even understand what’s happening whether they’re playing games or no (it may lead to affection). So that’s maybe the answer.

[Iron_Man]

Are you talking about you switched that you don’t want a long-term relationship

[KaiidiraX]

Unfortunately she seems afraid of commitment but still wants your attention and care. So you have to decide whether you are okay with that or not.

[Anonymous]

“I’m not ready for a relationship”

There is your answer.