A guy gives mixed feelings and talks to everybode?

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So there is this boy in my school (primar class in gymnasium) . He is taller than me, muscular, kind, easy going and flirty. I have never really liked him because he is noisy and kind of a womanizer because as I can see he flirtes talks and looks at every girl. But recently I started to like him because of his other positive traits. We flirt and look at each other a lot but I don’t know if she really likes because it seems that she is like that with every girl. I also have big trust issues, get easily jeaulos and fast attached to somebody.

I was also thinking is it just better to go with the flow and don’t push things?

So my questions are:

1. Should i ask him is he serious and want a relationship or is it too soon?

2. do you think he likes me or am i too delusional?

3. what is your point of view on this situation?

Bethany22 · Accepted Answer

I have the exact same pattern of behavior as you. At first I'm not attracted to a guy, then he reveals some traits that I think might hold him back from having a deep and meaningful relationship with anyone else but me, and so I incorrectly start feeling safe having strong and intense feelings for him that in turn lead to extreme jealousy issues when I seem him continue to flirt with other women when he should have stopped and realized that he found the one with me. There's likely no chance that he will see you as more special than other girls, as he always sees more women at every corner. Your loyalty may grow on him, but it won't get you many rewards for all the time you invest in it.

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

You are quite young to have big trust issues. What happened that gave you those? As far as the boy goes, there is a big red flag I see in your description. You use the term womanizer. If he is really like that at such a young age, I would steer clear of him because it is only going to get worse. The fact that you label him that and he, I assume, close to you in age is not a good thing.

boobliker · Accepted Answer

ask him, yes he will like you and go for it, you only live once!

Kuz20 · Answer

1. nooo, never. If he really wants to date with u, he must talk about your relationship.

2. He doesn't like u, cuz he looks at every girl. He isn't interested in u i guess.

3. Additionally, i saw so shy and adequate girl and filrting with every girl boy.

In_Trance · Answer

1) yes you should 2) yes he might 3) talk to him

ZXCwWRQWz · Answer

1. no 2. maybe 3. dangerous

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