you know what they say about long distant relationships besides he already told you how he felt ehen he said qoute:"He said that had we been at the same schools he would have liked to have dated,"
being long distant he may feel that it wouldn't work out but if he was near you there could be a chance there. maybe his dating life now could be because he may be hoping that soon(maybe after college he could get with you and really doesn't want to get to involved with anyone now for fear of missing out on you.
also the "THE WHAT IF" factor comes to play with many young people as yourselves (i'm 64 so your young to me lol) if they've been with 1 person say since 6th grade on as friends then boyfriend/girlfriend they'll always wonder what if that guy/girl from 11th grade who seemed to like me would have been a good boyfriend / or girlfriend or not to have been with others how can I gage how I feel towards this other person if I have no other to gage them by. if your doing any dating and you really do like this guy friend of yours you need to let him know that your holding a special place for him and that none of the other guys you date will ever have or hold that spot . in other words hold the door open at least a crack so he knows that if he comes back to you you'd accept him .
ask yourself this can you see yourself with him at some future date?
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Well he probably like you but since you're such good friends maybe he is scared that the relationship won't work and he is worried he will lose you, and then you would think how does someone lose something they don't have well that's the way humans thinks. goodluck
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