Why are girls hot and cold around me if I’m considered “attractive”?

[Anonymous]

Like I go to the bar, and there would be girls staring at me, but as they start drinking more. I become invisible to them. Even less than some ghetto guys. Like no joke, the girl I tried talking too pick a ghetto guy to go home with. Meanwhile I have a great career, and I’m stable in my life. But she doesn’t know that because she was drunk, and doesn’t know the real me. Do girls once they get drunk, lose all morals? I mean I’m still the same guy drunk or not…. Oh, and some group of girls next to me, made a comment that “he’s too pretty” as they were talking about me. And left. I’m like wtf does that mean?

[boombastik]

I don't know but possibly you missed a cue. Maybe they are struggling with if they want to put you in the friend zone or not. I've had girls tell me they like me and then not want to go any further. Hell, i even had one tell me about her telling my neighbor she was gonna sleep with me and by the end of the night she insisted she didn't want to mess up our friendship when i had obviously made it apparent my attraction for her, even fighting for her and skinny dipping with her in the ocean. Luckily i didn't give up the rest but it just goes to show how wishy washy they can be.

[Asker]

How can I be in the friend zone, when I don’t even know them 😂

[ShadezMcgee]

Either you think you are more attractive than you are or you haven't opened your mouth to have a conversation with them.

Bet money the ghetto guy had charm and tried rather than sit on his ass and do nothing and wait for something.

[Akam93]

I don't lose morals when I'm drunk I get horny and crazy. Lol I wouldn't be able to pick up a pretty boy at the bar. Not really someone that would go for me. I'm nerdy.

[Agent71]

I love nerdy women. Don’t underestimate how amazing you are :0)

[blairbear99]

Your a pretty boy is what it means. Maybe they think your attractive but to neat. I would love to meet a handsome guy who's nice but no one ever looks at me.

[Agent71]

Why does no one ever look at you? That seems odd.

[strateguy632]

they had not considered you attractive