Is harmless flirting actually harmless?

Question

Recently, I've had men flirt with me who are in relationships. When I asked my guy friends about it, they said that its harmless and probably gives them a thrill. While Im here feeling like a sad idiot, because I get excited, thinking that maybe something might come of it.

P. S. This has happened 3 times in the last month.

And when I say flirt, I mean they play footsies with me, they stroke my arm and laugh at my jokes saying "you're funny", they compliment me saying "your pretty", you have nice eyes/butt"... like...

Why do I always get hit on by unavailable men? Its exhausting and infuriating.

Sodomite · Accepted Answer

These dudes out here playing with fire by flirting with a hottie like you while they're in committed relationships? Are they trying to start WWIII or something? Jesus Christ, no wonder you're feeling like a sad idiot - these dipshits are leading you on and then leaving you hanging like a pair of soggy gym shorts. But listen up, sister - don't let these dickbags ruin your day. Next time one of them tries to play footsies with you or rub their grubby paws all over your arm like it's some sort of ancient artifact, just give them a taste of their own medicine. Whip out your best seductive gaze, lean in close, and tell them exactly what you'd do to them if you weren't such a morally upright person who doesn't mess with taken dudes. Watch their faces turn beet red and their dicks twitch in excitement as you paint a vivid picture of the depraved acts you'd commit if only they were single. Then pat them on the head, call them adorable, and walk away with a knowing grin on your face. ﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠﾠ

Trust me, the satisfaction you'll get from watching these clowns squirm is far better than any fling with an unattainable dude.

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The two MHO thieves using chatgpt will fail miserably when I get picked by the asker for MHO.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If it's harmless, then yes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"Harm" is subjective.

wuhuchen · Answer

Zhang Feng and his girlfriend have known each other not long ago, and the relationship between the two is in the enlightenment stage. Many things cannot be said directly. Therefore, every time Zhang Zhangfeng wants his girlfriend, he always asks, "Do you want to go home or go for a late-night snack?" He would never say, are you going to have a late night snack or go home? Zhang Feng does understand the psychology of girls very well. If he says in his first sentence, do you want to go for a late-night snack? The girlfriend will be wary, and if she continues to talk, she still has to go home. If the woman remains silent, doesn’t that mean she has to go home? In fact, most girls are embarrassed to say that I am willing to go for late-night snacks. If they really want to go for late-night snacks, they are embarrassed to say it.
Do you hear that you are going home now? There is always a sense of security, but also a slight sense of loss. In his heart, he still hopes that his boyfriend can treat him to a late-night snack, but it is difficult to say it clearly, because girls have to remain reserved. When interacting with girls, you need to understand each other. Only by being able to think about what the other person is thinking can you have a better conversation. Look more at the other person's body language and facial expressions, and you will actually know what the other person is thinking. Gradually master the communication skills, and finally achieve passionate love. .

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Ugh that's lame as hell. Those guys hitting on you when they got girlfriends, that's wack.

I mean yeah maybe it gives them a little ego boost in the moment, but that's such a d*ck move leading you on. And super disrespectful to their girls too. Like, have some loyalty yo.

Your guy friends telling you it's harmless, psshh - tell them to cut the crap. Feelings always get involved when flirting, even if those dudes try saying it's casual. They just want attention from multiple girls.

As for why it's always taken dudes, probably cuz they know you're sweet so they think they can get away with it. Don't mean that's your fault though!

Don't let it get you down - these jabronis aren't worth your time. Next time someone tries that, call them out and bounce. You deserve way better than being some cheater's side piece. Keep your head up - the right single dude will come along who treats you with respect!

sparklycoconut · Answer

telling someone they have a nice butt is pretty inappropriate. but i think compliments like "you're pretty" is kind of pushing it. but i think the rest of it is harmless. i wouldn't care if my partner flirted. but telling someone else they have a nice butt is something i don't think i can tolerate. not because i'm jealous, but because that's sexual harassment. not flirting

Nirmroth · Answer

I think harmless flirting is teasing but as soon as it involves touching it stops beeing harmless. Are you letting them use you as a carpet to step on?

DizzyDesii · Answer

I hate when they call it harmless or say their girl doesn't care because we live so far apart/are online. I just cringe and block

WhitneySnow · Answer

I agree with you. That’s basically cheating (for them, you had no clue).

Anonymous · Answer

Most men are obsessed with female validation it's the only way they can boost their ego to be honest. 😆😅

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I wouldn't say so if you are in a relationship

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