Stuck between an amazing new guy and an old crush...

[charlotte10594]

Okay so I have liked this guy, who I'm not going to name, for like a year and a half. And now I have an amazing boyfriend who would do anything for me and loves me. Yet I can't seem to get this old crush out of my head. I thought I saw him the other day and it brought everything back. As far as I know, he doesn't like me, but I can't get over it. I keep fantasizing about giving him head too. I want him so bad, but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend. What should I do? I don't want to hear to just choose the amazing guy either because I know that's probably what's right, but what about PASSION !

[missstacey14356]

YA THis isn't what you wanna here ...So you'v like this guy for a year and a half but he doesn't like you back...look it's not worth chasing someone who won't chase you back trust me! I been there before and it didn't go the way I wanted it to go ...i wanted that PASSION ...i couldn't get him out of my head and he knew it because I told him about my crush on him about ehh I'd say a year while I was with my boyfriend of like a year! ha =[ and of course my crush used it to his advantage and didn't care just led me on and I keept chasing of course I broke up with my boyfriend after I told my crush about how I felt but I just set myself up for nothing I left someone that cared for me for someone who didn't care at all...so ya I'm going to say it lol don't leave your boyfriend and forget about this crush if it was meant for you guys to hook up it would of happend a long time ago!

[SLL2019]

Passion isn't everything and obviously if you are thinking about this guy when you have someone incredible then you are missing something from your relationship that you badly need. I would break up with the boyfriend and focus on you and what you need in a relationship for a while. And maybe you should call that crush up and see what happens with him more than likely he is not going to be everything you thought he was... that's how they normally turn out... then you can decide from there what you think you need and want in a guy.

[jadiee25]

You need to take time out and think what you really want to do. That is the only way you will figure it out. Take some time alone away from your boyfriend and truley think what you want before you end up hurting your boyfriend and your self.

I know it's hard to say but if you don't feel strongly towards your boyfriend and have you feelings for some one else, you should let him go other wise you will hurt him.

Only you can figure this out!

[Anonymous]

Your playing with fire... stop pouring gasoline on the fire that is going on in your heart. Decide for yourself what you really want... if you've already dreamed about being with him... then you've already cheated on your current boyfriend with him in your mind. Here is what you could do... keep playing in your mind, or decide whom is right for yourself... well in the end... you can lose everything. I'll let you decide for yourself what is right and wrong. Good luck, and God Bless. =)