How do you seduce men? What's the easiest way to seduce and kiss men if I’m awkward and can’t flirt?

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What is easiest way to seduce and kiss men if I’m awkward and can’t flirt?

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

If the guy genuinely likes you, you don’t have to do much to be honest.

Here are some suggestions tho.

Dress well and practice good hygiene. Clothing-wise it doesn’t have to be anything crazy, just something that looks pretty and flatters you.
As for flirting maybe try touching his arm when you’re talking to each other. It’s harmless and gives you an idea how the other person reacts to you. For example you might see something interesting and want to show him. You would touch his arm, draw his attention to said thing and they take your hand back. Or just touching his arm in general to get his attention. It you’re feeling spicy maybe leave it there longer and he is reciprocating/not responding negatively
Keep your body language open. Face towards him (feet included), don’t cross your arms and maybe smile when you’re interacting with him.
Also show interest in anything he is passionate about. You don’t have to pretend to be knowledgeable or have the same level of interest he does
Throw him a random genuine compliment or two when you’re interacting with him. Maybe he smells good, you could tell him you like his cologne.

jazzy34 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, just be yourself with men. If a man is truly interested in you, you won't have to bend over backwards to get his attention. Start talking with him and let things flow naturally. If you still want specific tips, however, try the following.

Wear nice perfume. Personally, I love perfume and, when I'm interested in a man, I will wear a specific one when I know I'll see him. If you do that, he'll remember your scent and be intrigued. Men love a good smelling woman. :)
Make sure to use open body language and be approachable. If you come across as closed off or uninterested, men won't approach you. Instead, be friendly, smile and show them that you're easy to talk to.
Get to know his interests/hobbies. Personally, when I'm interested in a man, I listen to him very closely in order to gain an understanding of what his interests and hobbies are. If it feels right and if he and I have a good rapport, I'll buy him a little gift related to his interests or hobbies.

Ultimately, though, be yourself and let things flow naturally. :)

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

Haha , like a woman has to know how to flirt. Guys are so basic , trust me.

Don’t try to be anything other than you , it will just come across more clumsy and awkward.
Don’t be subtle , most guys don’t understand subtleties.

If your too under confident to be bold and physically make the first move make it beyond a doubt obvious … touch , get inside his space as often as you can.

And if he still doesn’t advance … he is stupid , bats for the other team or just simply not into you

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You don’t need to seduce us men. Just talk to us. Men aren’t that hard to please. These days the k it’s harder for men to talk to women cause you’re concerned about being accused of something or slammed on social media. Just say hi. Wry rarely do women approach men these days so you saying hi makes it a lot less harder for us.

AviatorTom · Answer

Give the guy your business card with a very obvious sexy message on the back, something like "I'm yours if you want me."

Finchie40 · Answer

Try not to be awkward , and treat him how you would like to be treated in return

AvaRay · Answer

If u ever feel like u have to lower your self worth just to get a man’s attention, it’s worth pausing n reflecting..

U don’t need to make yourself easily available for attention, physical pleasure, or validation seriously..

Men can see n they can differentiate who’s truly worth pursuing n who isn’t, trust me..

Giving yourself away too easily only lowers respect not just from them, but also from yourself.. is that really want u want?

Be a woman of real value means someone with integrity, character, n genuine self worth..

That’s the kind of allure no one can buy.. True charm comes from dignity, kindness, n strength not seduction or physical intimacy..

Sex can be found anywhere.. Love, loyalty, n respect are only given to women who are truly valued..

The easier u make yourself, the more likely you’ll be treated as an object, not a partner..

Focus on building your own worth, trust yourself, n let a man who genuinely respects u, value your worth earn your attention n love..

Your standards reflect your self respect. U are far too valuable to ever cheapen yourself for something that comes naturally when u honor your own worth.. 😊🙏🏻

just_a_potato · Answer

Well if you're specifically trying to  seduce  a man, I personally compliment little things about him, touch him real lightly and subtly, nothing too direct and in your face. Wear something tasteful to not give too much away, but have a little cleavage or collarbone showing. Give him the eyes!! (Tilt your chin down some and look up at him through your eyelashes, they love that one 😏) Just remember not every single man responds to those things by being 'seduced', just general tips

HighValue · Answer

If you are a good quality women (good morals, no tattoos, no nose ring, no unnaturally colored hair, etc.) all you have to do if you like a guy is just walk up to him and say, "Hi, my name is ______. I like you. I am only interested in something serious and exclusive. Want to date me?"

It is seriously that simple.

Miristheiss · Answer

Seduce huh?

So, for thousands of years, up until about 1960, women married men. Now women just take some birth control and they seduce them huh. You sounds like a high quality, virtuous woman.

But, women these days are good at being pumped and dumped. Go "seduce" somebody. That's what you get.

Enjoy your herpes.

msc545 · Answer

I once had a woman in an airport - waiting for a plane - sit next to me, and lean over an begin kissing me - deeply and passionately. I reciprocated, and we kissed llike that for about 10 minutes, and then finally began talking. She was very gentle aand sweet, and explained that she found me very attractive and had simply wanted to try kissing me to see what it was like. Apparently, she liked what it was like, given what followed afterward.

LiamS95 · Answer

Just pay him a little attention and as simply as possible provide him the opportunity to pay you some attention back, then subtely let him know you like his attention and encourage him to give you more attention and before you know it, you'll be in his arms receiving that kiss you want so badly. and maybe more.

thatgirl2000 · Answer

Men are pretty easy. The right guy will find your awkwardness adorable. If you're dating someone, most the time girls don't have to make the first move, guys usually do that. And just go with the flow.

Nikki1989 · Answer

For most men, you just need to look in their general direction.

snapkingmatt · Answer

Guys are simple. What you see as signs, he might not even pick up. Just look into his eyes, smile and when he comes up to you, tell him you want him. Of show some skin.

purplepoppy · Answer

Just look friendly and approachable. If you see a guy you're interested in try and spot something interesting about him to use as a conversation opener.

janemarie15 · Answer

HAHA I guess body language works lol. Leaning in slightly, mirroring his gestures, or holding eye contact longer than usual creates intimacy :) also, important thing, you have confidence and presence to do that!!

glennos89 · Answer

Just say hi, tell him your name and ask for his number. Then just walk away and contact him with your phone

Anonymous · Answer

Write down what you would like to do with the man if nervous. It helps break the ice. Even "I've been hoping you will ask me out." Can help.

Stevepro68 · Answer

Smile and wear tight pants or low cut shirt or both. Things will just happen front hat point on

MJVillarama · Answer

Keep it simple, smile, make eye contact, and be yourself. Sometimes confidence is just about showing you’re interested without overthinking it.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Awkward in what context? Can’t form a sentence long enough to hold out your hand and say, “Hi, I am ….”

Meatballs · Answer

I make myself unapproachable for defense mechanisms and I don't feel them that attractive or intriguing for anybody anyway so

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

It's really not difficult. Just start talking to a guy and ask him if he wants to go to your place.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk to them directly, especially it they also might be awkward or have similar issues.

Bloodparadise · Answer

You just grab his cheeks and give one on his mouth..🤩

Stefan04 · Answer

You don’t have to even seduce, try being direct.

qwerty2469 · Answer

Bring them food and laugh at their jokes. You do that and they will think you are a goddess

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Get your hands and boobs on them. 🤭👍

Agape93 · Answer

I'm very hands on.

David318578 · Answer

Show him your boobs always seems to work

fonduegirl · Answer

Cleavage.

Caughtulookin · Answer

Smile.

jahaims · Answer

Try a relationship

inside_the_demons_ · Answer

not caring

wkhan_87 · Answer

It is difficult

Allmenrsick · Answer

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