Is it possible to be attracted to someone but still get the friend vibe and not a romantic one?

[Anonymous]

[Abbycado]

Yeah, of course. There are attractive people everywhere. Doesn’t mean I’ll date them.

[Asker]

Have you ever had someone like a friend or family ask you something like “oh well if you find that guy cute, why not date him?” But literallyyy you’re just interested in the guy romantically! I don’t get why some people don’t understand to be honest.

[Asker]

Not interested *

[Abbycado]

Do you mean NOT interested romantically?

[Abbycado]

Gotcha. Yes.

[Asker]

Yes not interested! My bad with the type, but I’m currently dealing with this situation and have only one friend that understands lol

[Abbycado]

I get you. Totally.

[NathanDavis]

yes... feeling attracted to attractive people is the most natural thing ever

whether their looks, their personality, their character, their vibes... their skills, you can feel drawn to that and be into them to a point

and then, there's a next "step" or "stage" in which these dynamics get a bit more complex and you either feel like you could be friends with them, or have a romance with them... or other things as well

this is very very common

[DryGermanGuy]

Unless it's colliding with the laws of nature, absolutely everything, however rare, is possible.

[Anonymous]

It's extremely normal. I find plenty of women attractive, but my desire to date them is significantly lower than others ( especially one).

[Anonymous]

It never happened to me. I distinct romantic and friendly vibe when it comes to attraction.

[serious]

Yes that is possible

[jahaims]

Duh.