A coworker who spanked me now avoids me, any advice as to why and what I can do?

[Anonymous]

I had posted a couple questions about this coworker that used his spanked me at work, then a week later apologized about doing it, even though everything was cool and I hadn't said anything about it.

Now he sort of avoids me, it makes me feel real bad because I really like the guy, he flirts with me all the time but now that this happened he is distant.

guys do you have any idea why and what can I do about it?

[Anonymous]

He probably thinks he went too far somehow, maybe afraid he'll lose his job, maybe somebody else witnessed it, maybe he has a girlfriend. Could be a ton of reasons. My advice is smile and be friendly around him and try starting casual conversations with him to break the ice. After you start a few conversations with him it should calm him down.

[jurgenmeister]

Spanking at work is completely in appropriate, so he may have thought he could get into trouble, and now he might just be embarrassed and maybe a little worried about his job...so if you're feeling adventurous and are willing to take a risk, whenever you have the opportunity spank him!

[Asker]

yes, I was hoping someone might offer the embarrassment explanation, he always real talkative and flirty, its just weird that he apologized to me, we've known each other for years through work and thts not the first time he's been bold like that. so thanks for the great advice. :) I hope it is just embarrasment because he was fine before this.

[armyguy176]

to be completely honest...spank him. he'll know that you don't care that you did it or even like it.

[Asker]

I agree, that's what everyone said to do on here, but of course now he's sort of avoiding me. but thanks I will if I get the chance.

[LoveIsChaos]

Maybe they were taken in for a sexual harassment seminar lol They obviously got in trouble. Talk to them outside of work about something.

[Anonymous]

i say spank him back as stupid as it sounds it will probably work lol

[Anonymous]

It's call work place sexual harassment.