Boyfriend with 'meet me'?

[Anonymous]

I love my boyfriend very very much... he and I have been going out for over a year now and have talked about maybe getting married someday... so he has been on the 'meetme' account since way before I knew him. I moved in with my boyfriend about 7 months ago and we have been doing great, until I noticed that he's been on the meet me account a lot... he always is talking to girls on it and he's listed as single and looking for dating... I thought it was just an ego boost at first so I didn't care, but after I while I asked him about it and he lied to me, he got mad at me for snooping through his stuff, which I admit was wrong, but he does it to me all the time... and he gets mad whenever I talk to any guy but he always has an excuse for his talking to girls... I talked to him about and he deleted his account, but I just recently found out he has another one and he talks to people on it even when he won't text me back... we're are fine in person, but I get upset about this online stuff and I don't know if I should ignore it or say something again about it? Sorry its long, but I don't know what to do

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Thank you for the advice... I tried to talk to him about it and it didn't do anything, we fought the whole day and he said he didn't want anything to do with me... he apologized for that but then is still denying that he's doing anything wrong... I know I want to be with him, but not like this, so I guess I'll let him choose between the websites and me... we'll see where this one goes... but I'm done playing games.. thanks again though :))

[Anonymous]

I had this situation where my ex partner was doing this kind of thing and he got really suspicious of me and it was because he was doing stuff behind my back for some reason as a result of this he got suspicious of me although he was the one in the wrong. It is an ego boost for guys as my partner did it for this and blamed me for it because I would go to sleep and when he should of been asleep also he was on a dating site. At the end of the day it's a tough call to make when you considering leaving the one you love,but you have to consider that you may just become unhappier with how he is acting and you should not be that unhappy in a relationship especially when you planned on marrying the guy. You need to figure out what you want,but if it was me I'd leave the guy. I did it to my ex partner because of how he was acting behind my back and although it was hard I'm managing to get by and my life is falling into a place where I'm much more happier. I'd been with the guys for 5 years, so imagine 5 years down the line with a guy you thought you'd marry,it's not easy to walk away. You have to chance to,you just have to be strong and surround yourself with people who can support you.

[Anonymous]

Girl honestly it's something shady. My boyfriend (almost fiancé ; he's proposing soon) met on meetme and I was scared of the same thing, yanno girls flirting with him and stuff. After about 3 months of talking we started dating and we both agreed to delete our meetme accounts. Meetme is more of a dating website than social media. There are a bunch of other ways to talk than meetme so the excuse "talking to his friends" won't cut it. Either explain your uncomfortableness and come to a compromise or move on because being in a relationship with someone who doesn't define the relationship means you'll never get that comfort of knowing he's completely committed. Don't settle for someone who doesn't try and see things your way and won't reassure you. There are a million boys out there who understand your feelings and will try to support your opinions.

[JannelleS]

If he's your boyfriend he shouldn't have a " meet me " account because he'd already made it clear that he's taken & I advise you not to move in with any guy your not married to only cause problems may start to occur pray to Jehovah god. Also if the guy is lying to you it's not worth saving the relationship shame on him for sinning, and you also say he had an excuse there should be no excuse for a guy paying more attention to another girl then his own. I honestly feel like you should stay somewhere else if you don't have anywhere else to go I strongly think you should hire a detective to see where he's going and then plan out to text your guy while the detective watches and sees what he dose. You confronted him already just leave him is the best thing you can do. I hope this helped :) stay strong and good luck!

[Racez]

The road ahead will be rough and harsh, too many couples that thread forward were never heard from again.

[CatholicVirginia]

He's disrespecting you and hiding something behind your back - you know this. That is a problem. There should be nothing in your relationship that you can't talk about. Relationships are about trust and honesty.

[3336PS]

this has to do with trust. also if it bothers you and he is ignoring your concern than he seem to have something to hide. time to think about if this is what you really want.

[Anonymous]

don't let him choose. you have to be the one to stand up and leave.