Why would he ignore my apology text?

[oceanlover29]

Its been 4 days since our fight that led to us ending it. I sent him a text today asking if he could hear me out and I was sorry but he hasn't responded. Why do guys just ignore you like this. Is he still angry with me.

[BloodTearsAndGold]

You can either give him time and space or move away from him.

The guy has every right to be angry, he said he could see things in the long term for you and him (Something most women want to hear from the guy they're going out with) and you end the relationship !

The guys is going hate you maybe not literally hate you but you get the point. Now you can either send a big text explaining everything to him, this is assuming if you ring him he won't answer so phone conversations and face to face is out of the question, and after this text give him some time to decide for himself or you can walk away from the mess you've made leave the rest unspoken.

He's not just going to come around and have a hug and forgive you, you've likely shattered his trust in you and his hopes of having something meaningful with you, it was immature to end things with him I mean I could understand saying that you weren't sure of things but to end it ?

Anyway I'm starting to forget my actual point, basically explain yourself with whatever way you can: face to face, phone convo,text or Facebook inbox (preferably in that order) and then leave him to decide what he wants.

You burned the bridge down now your standing at the edge crying because you can't cross the river, its upto him whether to rebuild it and let you cross or not.

[monkey]

Why would he ignore my apology text?

It's a question we've all asked ourselves at one point or another. You send a heartfelt apology text, only to be met with silence. Why would he ignore my apology text?

There could be a myriad of reasons.

Maybe he didn't see it. Maybe he saw it and just wasn't ready to respond. Maybe he's not the type of person to respond to texts right away.

But more often than not, the reason why he's ignoring your apology text is because he's not interested in getting back together. And that's a hard pill to swallow.

When you're in the moment, it's hard to see the signs that he's not interested. But when you take a step back, it's often quite clear. Maybe he's been dating other people. Maybe he's been acting distant. Maybe he's just not that into you anymore.

Whatever the case may be, it's important to respect his decision and move on. There's someone out there who will appreciate your apology - and who will be interested in getting back together.

[jaison]

well let me put it this way. I may not be your boyfriend but me and my girlfriend have had some problems. we argued and broke up. got back together. then broke up again blah blah. she wanted me back but was with a guy. told me she wasn't with him and she lied to me, so I dropped her. 3 weeks of not talking to her later she came back, said sorry, how much she misses me, and wants me and nobody else. I ignored her for a while. a good 2 days. but I couldn't ignore her sincere plea for help. I eventually gave in and said ill see her in person, I asked her what she wanted and he said me... I couldn't hold myself back and rushed to her kissed her and hugged her. forgave her.

moral of this story is. most men can't stay mad long at someone they love. they either give in or make the hard decision to move on. I can't stay mad at her for more than a day

[jaison]

just explian all of what is going on. tell the truth, and hope for the best.

[oceanlover29]

I don't think he loves me after a month though

[jaison]

:/ sorry I didn't read everything. he was with you for a month? I'de hate to be the bearer of bad news but... he may not be coming back. as "bloodtearsandgold" said, the bridge is burned. he may have just moved on, and realized the relationship is trouble if that happens in the first month

[Anonymous]

He may be hurt enough that he doesn't want to respond. Or he may be angry enough not to, or he may just plain ole, not want to. Guys don't see the need to hash things out and know the reasons why and get all emotional and shyte. It's over so let it be over, is probably what is running through his head. He gains nothing accept a headache by responding to your message and stewing up all those feelings again.

[Opinion Owner]

Plus he's feeling abandoned, let down, and he knows he doesn't owe you anything.

[Maxen92]

This reminds me sort of how my ex sent me an apology message for being a liar about her emotions towards me when she was breaking up with me.

No well written text or speech in person would be able gain my trust back in her, it's gone, out of the window.

If she hadn't been a liar in the first place, then I might even had been a friend with her today.

But I have turned emotionally independent, pretty much, I don't expect anyone to have feelings let alone be interested in me. It doesn't matter as it isn't my loss, it's theirs, always theirs.

Might seem narcissistic at glance, but it's one way to keep your mind intact.

[GatewayRealm]

He doesn’t care and isn’t Interested in Talking to you at the moment.
I hate that shit. A friend of mine does the exact same thing.
Like I’ll tell my friend About My day or something bad that happened.
And he won’t even Take 3 seconds to Type out a Response.
And His Reason for not Taking 3 seconds to Send a reply text is.
I’ve been Busy every second of the day for 4 days straight.


Your friend is lying that’s what he’s doing. Don’t believe any of that Bullshit of I didn’t reply because I was Busy every single second of the day and night for 4 days of a week straight. Or The excuse of I didn’t Know you texted I didn’t know you called.
All bunch of lies I suggest getting yourself a new friend.

[RuthlessAggression]

I think he thinks you're trying to get back together with an ex. Which is an act of desperation. It's typical with ex's. Part of the "grieving process", is to "try and get them back". The trick is to not fall in to it though, like I said. It's just an act of desperation.

[Dragonblood21]

You broke up with him over text because he said he saw the relationship going somewhere serious, when you guys were dating for a little over a month? Am I getting that right?

[oceanlover29]

Yes I am a f***ing idiot I know

[Dragonblood21]

I would ignore the text if I were him too then, lol.

I would ignore you because I wouldn't know what else to do. I was honest, and that didn't get me anywhere, and now I'm stuck with an apology text that doesn't fix anything. It wouldn't matter if I responded or not, and since I'd definitely (no doubt about it), would still be mad at this, I would just choose to ignore it and continue to move on.

[oceanlover29]

how long would you be mad about it. people do stupid sh*t sometimes.

[Dragonblood21]

Using myself in replacement of this guy, even if I wasn't mad anymore, nothing really changes. I still wouldn't know why I just got dumped the way I did, I still would feel like that was a wrong move on your part, and that would kind of be it. I would want an explanation if you planned on getting back together, if not, then I'd want you to just carry on with your life.

[oceanlover29]

He knows the reason I dumped him was because he was still accessing online dating sites every day. Alls he had to do was say ill go off or it's not what you think. Instead he said I was dramatic like his ex and he couldn't deal, flipped it and dumped me. Anyways it escalated and I deleted him from fb and he blocked me. He did say he was very sorry (but not for

What) it's been a week since this happened and four days since the apology

[TommyMountainFigure]

He's probably ignoring you, yes because he's still angry with you.

[jshm2]

If you really cared, you would meet in person, or talk to his friends.

[GatewayRealm]

Oh yah Cause that Will go over smoothly.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like he is still quite ticked, may take awhile to hear back from him.

[JohnK123]

He’s probably still mad or doesn’t want to talk to you
sorry bout that

[Anonymous]

He's still angry at you, for sure.

[genericname85]

well apollogies don't matter, if you moved on.

[Alex8736]

How long have you been together?

[canofwhoopass]

CAUSE ITS COWARDLY.

[oceanlover29]

my text? He doesn't like the phone or I call him

[canofwhoopass]

Do you see him everyday?

re-reading your question, it really wasn't that cowardly to text him your sorry. I read the question as if you were breaking up with him via text. Just wait and see if he responds. Guys, don't stay mad at girls they care about, unless it is a way to get out of a relationship. only time will tell, have faith and stay positive, so when you speak to him again, you won't look like he completly tore you apart inside. Guys like strong girls

[oceanlover29]

I did break up with him over text. It was an impulsive decision out of anger and a mistake. I know I'm wrong and I told him that but I dunno. is it possible to just stop caring about someone instantly. we did only date for a little over a month but he was starting to say he saw it going somewhere serious

[canofwhoopass]

People don't get over each other quickly. Even when I broke up with my ex'es, I still had that alone, crap feeling in my heart. I tell you, it almost a couple of times made me want to reconsider, but I had to move on. It is not possible for someone to stop caring for someone instantly, unless your dead lol. Patient and faith are your best allies when it comes to difficult situations, isn't it time to give it a try?