I just broke up last night.
What it came down to is that I am a 'cute' guy who lacks confidence. I think the confidence part comes from the fact that a) I have been down on my luck ever since I lost my job, b) she was the first girl I ever dated (lasted a month), and c) I never found her physically attractive. Don't get me wrong, I think she's close to the ideal girl in terms of personality and things in common with me; I don't think I'll ever be able to find a girl like her again.
"Cute" is never the same as handsome. Keep this in mind.
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Good question, I've had the same concern in the past. I think generally it's a good thing; obviously it's not that attractive to some girls, but these girls aren't the sort to comment on you being 'cute' in that case, as they'll find it boring. You're probably onto something there.
Yeah, sort of. It's not good for a guy to act cute in the same way a girl would act cute, because that's more annoying than anything else. And a forced "cute" is annoying no matter who does it.
But there are ways that guys can be naturally adorable, and that's good. And if a girl says you are, it's definitely not a bad thing.
I would say it's good, because if girls are saying that you are cute in the "puppy way", the kind that you want to hug but it's not really attractive, they wouldn't say it TO YOU, but behind your back. Take it as something they would want in their boyfriends :3
those are big compliments! It depends on the girl and how she sees a guy, to me some are cute and some are handsome. I would never say anyone was either cute or handsome unless I was interested in them. Some guys have a cute face and some guys are handsome.
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Yes it's a good thing! I'm not sure if these particular girls are flirting with you, but you should take it as a good thing! Guys I find attractive I often refer to as "cute" ... "adorable" not so much, but that's just a choice of words. Adorable and cute are pretty much the same thing.
I've had girls tell me that, I have yet to go on a date in my 26 years of life. so I have no idea what they are trying to get across. if they go so far as that why don't they really do something about it? the whole thing about girls if they like to play games to make themselves feel better. many are natural flirts and just say things that they want to say. a shy girl probably wouldn't do it, but the more confident ones might
There are different forms of cuteness between men and women I'd say. Acting the feminine version of cute wouldn't be attractive to me. I.e. giggling and acting all coy and innocent. But being honest and pure is attractive
From my experience yes it is, as long as your are being assertive in a masculine way with her at the same time.
oh ! cute boys with cute mannerisms and cute habits are my cup of tea ! when they innocently say and act in a certain way I'm just *m*
What's your secret?! What are you doing/saying that girls think is cute?! :-P
They are really flirting.
Definitely a good thing!
No it's not
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