When a girl playfully kicks a guy, isn't that a bit forward? what the hell is it? Flirting?

[Anonymous]

This is girl is always giving me crap and a hard time. She talks to me but sometimes she acts all aloof and like she is being all serious and stuff. She would NOT make contact of any kind, no handshakes or high fives or anything (with me).

So she is being a brat while I'm talking to her, acting all uninterested and like I'm bugging her, so I decide to stop paying attention to her. We are standing next to each other (im a couple of steps forward) and I can feel she is staring at me, kind of like "when are you gonna say something?" But I didn't. All of a sudden, she gives me a slight kick behind the knee and I almost lose balance and she wasn't enough to kick me with the top of the shoe, she used her sole and left an imprint in the back of my black pants (she kept being a brat the rest of the day)

My question is, how the HELL you catalogue that kind of contact? Lol

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Thanks for all the answer. I just wanted to mention something. With most guys she sees as friends, she has no issues with physical contact but she has an issue with me (when I want a handshake she just tells me "when have I ever shaken hands with you?" So I figured she was just repelled or something. So when this happens, it seemed weird because it wasn't just contact, it was an agressive (but playful) contact, not like a handshake or anything.

[tuxedocake]

I was THIS girl in high school. The only difference now is I'm now -or try to be- less physically aggressive, because I've come to realize that shii is immature and annoying. I don't know about her but it was just my personality, I wasn't being playful and I never hit anybody unless provoked. With all of that said, coming from someone whose very protective of her own personal bubble especially with regards to the opposite sex, it's safe to say that she's using this method to gain your attention, believe it or not she's flirting LOL. Though I can bet good money on it that she's probably in denial of her own intentions. Though I suggest you wait until she matures enough to stop her childish antics.

[Anonymous]

if you think that's too forward for you and you're uncomfortable, then I'm sorry to say you need to man up a bit more. she's just being playful, may be its just her personality. I know plenty of other guys who love girls like her, who always tease and pose a challenge to stimulate them, and they love to play along or fight back playfully. but if you really don't like her cause her personality is too much for you, then move on and stop talking to her so much, let her know you are not interested. you should find a girl that's more shy and quiet spoken.

[Asker]

No, I have no problem with that, I'm all for playfulness. My issue, so to call it, is that she is always going around posing TOO MUCH challenge. Sometimes she will ease up and not be overly critical of everything I do, or telling me how annoying I am, that crap gets old and that's why I stop talking to her. Also weird is the fact that she won't shake my hand or a little tiny poke on her shoulder makes her BACK OFF and make a face at me, so the fact that she kicked me makes me think what is up

[Anonymous]

That's not being forward , It's just playful flirting . You were standing in front of her and you didn't say anything to her , How rude lol . I would have kicked you off the steps . But she was just being playful , If she felt comfortable with kicking you that means she feels comfortable with you . Men I don't feel a attraction for , I don't touch them at all . I know that's what they want me to do , And don't want to give the wrong impression .

[Asker]

Thats what I thought but, did you read the update? I mean, she never touches me but its comfortable touching others (usually everybody since she gets along with every single person) so the fact that she went that far makes me wonder what is her deal. She even said "you are no fun" in a playful manner after she kicked me, which is something I knowe since she is always telling me I bug her a lot. Its just confusing

[Opinion Owner]

I noticed when I was a little touchy feely , It was only when the guy I kinda liked was around . I didn't realized I was doing that , Until I really thought about it . Because I'm not the type that will hug or touch like that , But when it came to the guy I liked I never really touched him . I would let him touch me , Like a hug or something . The reason she pushed you was because she wanted you to say something to her , Especially by you being that close .

[Asker]

So you were touchy feely with people except him? I have known her for months and sometimes when I make a joke or something I will push her lightly and she gets all "dont touch me" so I stopped doing it. I mean it takes a bit of effort to touch people (I don't really touch people a lot) but to do it like that and be playful about it stands out.

[lv4lv]

Sounds like harassment and if she was male she'd probably be in jail by now.

*Goes off to mumble something about double standards...*

[Gawesome]

that sounds like a sister that I never wanted... :P

[RosaliaVanderbilt]

She's definitely flirting, she just doesn't know the right way to get your attention. I was totally like that when I was a teenager.

[Asker]

Like I put on the update, she never want to "touch" me as in a handshake or something innocent like that, that's why its weird

[RosaliaVanderbilt]

She doesn't treat you normally because you are different. She likes you, so she's brutal to you because she's scared of liking you. This is a classic case.

[unighted]

when I was a little girl I punched and kicked all of my classmates especially the ones I liked but I got over it because growing up is a thing girls should do.

[lisa16]

could be a couple things. Might just be her personality, she could be a little immature, or she may have been flirting with ya! Good luck with her, she seems like a goof

[abbeyy]

When I act like that with a guy, I'm just so grossed out by him I want to kick him if he's near me. But that's just me. This girl probably just acts that way around guys she likes. Probably.

[Asker]

Nah, it was mostly a kick because I wasn't paying attention/talking to her. I knkw she is grossed out because she never wants to touch me, the fact she went that far to get attention is what made me wonder what drugs was she on.

[abbeyy]

Lol! That's strange; I thought only pre-teens acted like that.

[Asker]

Yeah, I'll admit that we both act like little kids when we are together lol.

[martyfellow]

She;'s flirting in a puppy love kind of way. Cute, isn't it? Why are you complaining? She wants you to flirt back, that's all!

[Anonymous]

She likes the attention you give her, hence when you stopped talking to her and stuff.. she hated that you don't give her that attention anymore so she started being a brat to gain your attention again LOL. It clearly shows that that is kind of her perosnality and how she shows her affection towards you, its a bit immature but in my opinion it counts as flirting. I think you should stop giving her too much attention, act normal.. maybe flirt a little. but don't play hard to get. GOODLUCK.

[lauramor]

she is trying to play hard to get

[dommage]

she is obviously trying to flirt with you.

[Anonymous]

She wants to beat you up