I want to put myself out there more, but I hate going to parties, bars where there are loud music and drunk people. However, I love going to cafes. I also like to go the the Ikea restaurant, where I can sit for hours alone, reading a book and drinking coffee. I've heard a guy say that a girl reading a book in a cafe is (mentally) hot. But I don't know... Would you guys approach me if you found me attractive, if I were sitting in a cafe with my nose in a book?
seriously? get out of your cave of narrowmindedness and self-pity and try to find a constructive solution.
Whining is in no was helpful or constructive or even f***ing useful. It's only annoying as a constipation, that's what it is. Whiny guys are like a constipation. Get it? So unless you can make yourself useful by dropping the whiny attitude, you're never ever gonna get a girlfriend!
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