Shy ladies, how do you get your crush's attention?

Question

lets say your in class together and you sit right next to him how would you show him that you were interested, signs, hints, body language etc

you know those girls that are outgoing that become shy around their crush or just plain shy girls around your crush how exactly do you act around your crush or a guy you are interested in I would like to know from you guys point of view and please FEEL FREE TO GO IN LONG Paragraph Details on how you would handle things or past experiences , I will read them all

LizTheWeirdKid · Accepted Answer

I used to hide it to the best of my ability but I realized that doing that got me nowhere so I now try my best to show interest. I know it may not be obvious but I try my best. I gradually start to show more and more interest. I think I appear disinterested in the beginning but as time goes by I begin to show more and more interest. I will probably try to pass by him more often or stand by him if I can. I might look down at the floor if either of us walk by. After some time though, I will probably look up at him but will quickly look  down at the floor again. And after I get even more comfortable I might even throw in a smile but I will look down again. I don't stare too often though. I don't want to be creepy. I will glance at him once in a while, but usually when he's not looking. If I'm confident enough. I will probably even go up to him and ask something about class. I can ask anyone really, but I want to talk to him so I use school as an excuse to talk to him. Unfortunately, I don't do this too often but I do this if he talks to me that  day or something. Oh and if I see that he is staring at me, I will not look at him. If I can see from the corner of my eye that he is looking at me, I'll notice and it will make me nervous so I might start fidgeting or something.

voltage · Accepted Answer

Best Ways to Catch Your Crush's Attention

So, you've got your eye on someone special and you want to catch their attention.

Here are a few tips to help you make your move:

1. Be confident.

Nothing is more attractive than confidence. Take a deep breath, relax and approach your crush with a smile.

2. Make eye contact.

Once you've caught their eye, hold their gaze for a few seconds before breaking away. This will let them know you're interested and give them a chance to reciprocate.

3. Strike up a conversation.

This is your chance to shine. Be witty, charming, and interested in what they have to say.

4. Be yourself.

At the end of the day, your crush is going to like you for who you are, so don't try to be someone you're not.

5. Be patient.

Rome wasn't built in a day and neither are relationships. Don't rush things and let things develop at their own pace.

Following these tips should help you catch your crush's attention and get things started. Good luck!

maferotaku · Accepted Answer

I'm a super shy girl but I still have a crush. I try to call his attention with my eyes, first I look at him until he. Looks at me, and as soon as it happens I look away blushing ( that's something that comes naturally for me) I keep locking eyes with him for a few times so he knows I'm interested in him, I would also try to have "accidents" like touching his knee by accident or his hand or shoulder, things like that, and even tho I'm shy, if he talks to me I keep a smile in my face and instantly blush. ^_^

Cromartie · Accepted Answer

They don't. That's kind of the point. If they are doing anything it is completely subconscious.

MsAwkward · Answer

I flung my water bottle at the ground next to a guy that I liked in class obviously on purpose knowing he would pick it up and hand it to me one day. It got us to talk... Or I would always strike up a conversation with him on a topic that we both had a common interest in. I would tend to hide my face and blush a lot while talking to him also. I would linger at my friends locker which was right next to his and wait for him to say something to me which he usually did. There isn't much more I would do to give signs because I would try to avoid it because then I would feel super awkward with myself.

valval · Answer

A super good sign that a girl is interested is that she will ALWAYS wear her best New looking clothing.

I am extremely shy when it comes to speak with my crush. I would always try to sometimes look at him and try to act casual. If you notice that she changes position discretely and graciously that makes her body look good it is an undeniable sign of attraction

And as MsAwkward said below the "dropping something test " is a good way to get the guy's attention.

Also I would always manage to walk behind him when the class ends.

Hope I helped you! Good luck:-)

Moonrisekitten · Answer

I'm pretty outgoing. But I'll shy up around a cute guy. If I'm feeling pretty that day I will probably try to say something, but nothing too flirty unless I thought he liked me too. Then I can get bold. But when I'm feeling shy, I smile A LOT. And it's hard for me to make eye contact but I try to make sure I still do. My body langue will definitely say something. I'll be close to you when given the chance but not too close, I don't want to be obvious, just close, like it was an accident or something and maybe you'd talk to me. But if I were feeling really shy, and a guy I liked even kind of asked me out, study date or walk me to my next class, I would be super excited and I would try to show that minimally but (and maybe it's just me) my face usually says it all

Mollified92 · Answer

lol I do nothing to get a guy's attention but I think that's because I'm insecure, not because of my shyness

i guess it depends on the guy: if he seems outspoken and friendly I get quiet and even kind of... defensive? I don't know if that's the right word... anyway, it's awful I need to get over that

if the guy's shy or quiet then I'm more open and try my best to talk to him and be around him but it's difficult for me

Mmt5149 · Answer

For some strange reason I become stupid and I start saying sh*t I think he would into so he would talk to me... But that doesn't work so I kinda make sure he is behind me when I'm talking about him..

Anonymous · Answer

I use to make it obvious by laughing at everything and hiding my smiles with a notebook. After facing rejection I hid my feelings and so very well I turned guys down.

Now I don't know how to trust and be vulnerable

Anonymous · Answer

That's the thing about us shy girls...we don't. Unless some act of God makes us meet, we're doomed to admire from afar and be forever alone. :p

OnceUponADream143 · Answer

I don't.