Shy ladies, how do you get your crush's attention?

[huey12]

lets say your in class together and you sit right next to him how would you show him that you were interested, signs, hints, body language etc

you know those girls that are outgoing that become shy around their crush or just plain shy girls around your crush how exactly do you act around your crush or a guy you are interested in I would like to know from you guys point of view and please FEEL FREE TO GO IN LONG Paragraph Details on how you would handle things or past experiences , I will read them all

[LizTheWeirdKid]

I used to hide it to the best of my ability but I realized that doing that got me nowhere so I now try my best to show interest. I know it may not be obvious but I try my best. I gradually start to show more and more interest. I think I appear disinterested in the beginning but as time goes by I begin to show more and more interest. I will probably try to pass by him more often or stand by him if I can. I might look down at the floor if either of us walk by. After some time though, I will probably look up at him but will quickly look down at the floor again. And after I get even more comfortable I might even throw in a smile but I will look down again. I don't stare too often though. I don't want to be creepy. I will glance at him once in a while, but usually when he's not looking. If I'm confident enough. I will probably even go up to him and ask something about class. I can ask anyone really, but I want to talk to him so I use school as an excuse to talk to him. Unfortunately, I don't do this too often but I do this if he talks to me that day or something. Oh and if I see that he is staring at me, I will not look at him. If I can see from the corner of my eye that he is looking at me, I'll notice and it will make me nervous so I might start fidgeting or something.

[huey12]

That is very interesting that kind of like this girl in my college class I think she likes me but never talks only when I talk to her but she will laugh when I laugh or crack jokes we allways walk together after class and she talked to me once

[voltage]

Best Ways to Catch Your Crush's Attention

So, you've got your eye on someone special and you want to catch their attention.

Here are a few tips to help you make your move:

1. Be confident.

Nothing is more attractive than confidence. Take a deep breath, relax and approach your crush with a smile.

2. Make eye contact.

Once you've caught their eye, hold their gaze for a few seconds before breaking away. This will let them know you're interested and give them a chance to reciprocate.

3. Strike up a conversation.

This is your chance to shine. Be witty, charming, and interested in what they have to say.

4. Be yourself.

At the end of the day, your crush is going to like you for who you are, so don't try to be someone you're not.

5. Be patient.

Rome wasn't built in a day and neither are relationships. Don't rush things and let things develop at their own pace.

Following these tips should help you catch your crush's attention and get things started. Good luck!

[maferotaku]

I'm a super shy girl but I still have a crush. I try to call his attention with my eyes, first I look at him until he. Looks at me, and as soon as it happens I look away blushing ( that's something that comes naturally for me) I keep locking eyes with him for a few times so he knows I'm interested in him, I would also try to have "accidents" like touching his knee by accident or his hand or shoulder, things like that, and even tho I'm shy, if he talks to me I keep a smile in my face and instantly blush. ^_^

[huey12]

LOL you are exactly like this girl in my class who sits next to me who never talks to me unless I talk to her who stays on her phone I can always see her looking out the corner of my eyes caught her once

[maferotaku]

That is sweet. If I were her I probably have fallen for you. But nothing would change if you don't let her know, I mean If she is shy like me I wouldn't have the guts to say anything to you about me liking you. So maybe you can take the first step?

[huey12]

i trying lol I talk to her all the time in class I ask her how her day is/ weekened I've asked her if she has a boyfriend umm I'm complimented her on her looks but I just thought she thinks of me as a friend cause the girl never talks unless I do the only time she talked to me was when she said "Hey look at this message" & it was a text message from a random guy she didn't know trying to talk to her the only time she started a convo with me in class lol

[maferotaku]

Wait wait! Don't let that stop you! I probably had done the same thing. Sometimes when there is a boy and he talks to me I do the same, I only speak when he talks to me, because I'm way to shy to star a conversation with him, I'm scare of saying or doing something that might make me look stupid and maybe that's what's she doing. She already show a sign of interest right? She looks at you when she thinks you are not looking.

[maferotaku]

Most of the times boys and girls just give up and stop talking to me. Either way because they think they are making much effort on me and I don't even try to talk to them, ir because they think I dislike them and I don't want to talk to them and I end up alone, but that doesn't mean I don't want to be with people, is just that me being shy is the problem, and I predict is the same thing with this girl, hust please don't give up on her so easily I bet she likes you and if you just give it up

[huey12]

lol I'm not giving up and based on her body langauge and the way she acts that I've creeply studied since she sits rights next to me I assume she lieks me I thought she didn't like me cause of her not talking to me haaha I would ask her all the time how are day is going but I should prob start asking more personal question to get to know her better were friends thou hahaa I made her my womencrushwensday on instagram that was a stupid move

[maferotaku]

She is gonna end up as sad as you. If you really like her why don't start living hints about you liking her and if you are afraid of rejection instead of saying " I like you" better "do you like ne?".

There still chances of she saying no like I did once. My crush asked me if I liked him, I knew he liked me but I ended up saying that I didn't like him because I was too shy and stupid, that may be or not the case, I just wish the relation between you and her blooms, I would like to see that

[maferotaku]

sorry too much typing from my part :p

[huey12]

im not really scared of rejection I scared of not making my move ha ha I got over that fear in middle school its worse not to anything then go wondering what if, but I'm kinda of gooffy and joke around a lot so I've have been leaving hints to her but I think she might I've been joking around when I see her on campus tomorrow in class I'lll be more straight forward instead of being my normal goofy self

[maferotaku]

:D perfect, perfect! (Clapping) I think being more serious about it will also help her see that you do like her and not just messing around.

Please! Let me know how it goes! Um looking fordward to know!

[Cromartie]

They don't. That's kind of the point. If they are doing anything it is completely subconscious.

[huey12]

yea I kinda figured besides their body language you can't really tell

[MsAwkward]

I flung my water bottle at the ground next to a guy that I liked in class obviously on purpose knowing he would pick it up and hand it to me one day. It got us to talk... Or I would always strike up a conversation with him on a topic that we both had a common interest in. I would tend to hide my face and blush a lot while talking to him also. I would linger at my friends locker which was right next to his and wait for him to say something to me which he usually did. There isn't much more I would do to give signs because I would try to avoid it because then I would feel super awkward with myself.

[LizTheWeirdKid]

smart move. I will try that one day. :D

[huey12]

interesting this girl in my class who sits next to me who never talks to me unless I talk to her showed me a text message from a random number from a guy she didn't know trying to talk to her ahaha was she tryign to test me?

[MsAwkward]

I'm not sure about that one... Lol depends on what the text said, and how she was acting while talking about the text.

And yeah, try it out to see if it works. Haha

[huey12]

The Text said " Hey _____ (girls name) its _____(Guys name)Wassp its _____ friend (guys friend name who he got her number from) it was a weird text from a random guy trying to talk to her she gave me her phone & she didn't really act or talk other than "HEY LOOK AT THIS MESSAGE" she doesn't talk to me unless I talk to her anyway she kinda just watched me and I think I made myself sound kinda jealous ha ha my voice cracked when I told her the guy was going about it the wrong way hahaha

[MsAwkward]

Oh.. It sounds to me that you too are just mutual nothing more... At least for now.?

[huey12]

by mutual mean just friends?

[MsAwkward]

More like acquaintances? Unless you two hang out?

[huey12]

we haven't hang outsdie of school yet, we walk together after class and that's pretty much it I haven't really asked to hang out cause I thought she didn't like me cause she never talked to me hahaa

[MsAwkward]

Oh... Well for the next test or something with a class that you guys have together ask her if she wants to study together and get coffee or something.? Then you guys can get to know each other and it won't seem as awkward as asking her out to dinner or something right away when you two don't know each other very well. Just start out slow and most likely things will go well.

[valval]

A super good sign that a girl is interested is that she will ALWAYS wear her best New looking clothing.

I am extremely shy when it comes to speak with my crush. I would always try to sometimes look at him and try to act casual. If you notice that she changes position discretely and graciously that makes her body look good it is an undeniable sign of attraction

And as MsAwkward said below the "dropping something test " is a good way to get the guy's attention.

Also I would always manage to walk behind him when the class ends.

Hope I helped you! Good luck:-)

[huey12]

changes positions and looking at you yea I've noticed those signs crossed legs hands on neck halir flipping

[valval]

Then if she is doing what you are telling me, all you have to do is to talk to her:-)

[Moonrisekitten]

I'm pretty outgoing. But I'll shy up around a cute guy. If I'm feeling pretty that day I will probably try to say something, but nothing too flirty unless I thought he liked me too. Then I can get bold. But when I'm feeling shy, I smile A LOT. And it's hard for me to make eye contact but I try to make sure I still do. My body langue will definitely say something. I'll be close to you when given the chance but not too close, I don't want to be obvious, just close, like it was an accident or something and maybe you'd talk to me. But if I were feeling really shy, and a guy I liked even kind of asked me out, study date or walk me to my next class, I would be super excited and I would try to show that minimally but (and maybe it's just me) my face usually says it all

[Mollified92]

lol I do nothing to get a guy's attention but I think that's because I'm insecure, not because of my shyness

i guess it depends on the guy: if he seems outspoken and friendly I get quiet and even kind of... defensive? I don't know if that's the right word... anyway, it's awful I need to get over that

if the guy's shy or quiet then I'm more open and try my best to talk to him and be around him but it's difficult for me

[huey12]

hmm outspoken and friendly you say what about the Goofy Type hahaa I'm kind of a class clown

[Mmt5149]

For some strange reason I become stupid and I start saying sh*t I think he would into so he would talk to me... But that doesn't work so I kinda make sure he is behind me when I'm talking about him..

[Anonymous]

I use to make it obvious by laughing at everything and hiding my smiles with a notebook. After facing rejection I hid my feelings and so very well I turned guys down.

Now I don't know how to trust and be vulnerable

[Anonymous]

That's the thing about us shy girls...we don't. Unless some act of God makes us meet, we're doomed to admire from afar and be forever alone. :p

[MerXife]

That's what I always thought 😭

[OnceUponADream143]

I don't.