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The issue of being "high maintenance" (Page 3)
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Im a poor high maintenance like I love makeup and do have expensive tastes but I just can't get that stuff... yet so my best bet for now is to be ghetto fabulous 😅
My idea of a high maintenance girl would be one that requires constant attention, reassurance and basically expected to be the biggest princess of all time.
Thank you
you don't exactly look glam in that pic. i don't want to make a personal attack on someone, but i feel it's necessary here... are you under the impression that you are pretty?
I think she is pretty actually. In fact, everyone has the right to think they are pretty, so I don't know why you said it like that. It isn't a bad thing to think you're pretty, just as it isn't bad to think you are a talented dancer or artist. Personally when I saw her picture I thought she was gorgeous. Just the way she is dressing, her waves in her hair, and the look in her eye actually screams glamorous haha.
I actually do think I am pretty. Falling4UTC is right. Everyone has a right to think that they are pretty just like how you have the right to think you are handsome or have an opinion about others.
Seriously this girl is full of herself lmao.
Amazing take.
I'm glad someone finally said it. I too have a taste for luxury, and have been called high maintenance several times - what's the big deal if I'm the one paying for it?
Peoples immediate perception of me = gold digger
After learning that I am financially independent it then becomes bitter resentment.
I can't win.
Great take) not only give he a break but also a chance, as many girls are ignored because of their looks. its simple to call her stuck up or high maint. but some guys are scared to approach these pretty girls.
Thank you! !!
All that money guys spend on their cars or nights out comes from their own money unlike the girls its hitting the guys wallet if its a date or a night in
Ummmm... Are there actual women like this? I don't know about you but I have never asked a guy to pay for something of mine.
Because as a guy if I was broke for whatever reason very few girls would date me.
Well as long as you don't mooch money off of me and are trying hard to get back on your feet, then you shouldn't have a problem with me.
You would need to fork out money on the guy how else are you going to pay for the dates since he for sure can't
I am high maintenance, thats who I am, I love luxury. But I can be as much as I want high maintenance as long as I'm the one paying the bills. :)
Let's not forget that some of the guys on the site equate high maintenance to gold digger.
Even without getting all glammed up your hair is still amazing :P
But not the point, your takes are awesome :) it all comes down to how you act as a person.
Expensive stuff is awesome. If you are threaten by someone with expensive taste then WELP
🏆 Great take
You can usually spot a HM girl/women from a mile away. I know I can. I'll avoid them like the plague!
I just don't think I could handle one just because I'm so laid back.
Your not even good looking. You would not be worth the hassle.
I bet you are just such a stud mr cowardly anon fuck
I am because I got plastic surgery
Srs lol
This was a lot of someone really loving themselves... :I
Looking HM? I won't even ask you the time of the day. My supposed proletarian dirt should not soil your precious eyes and ears.
Why won't you ask me out?
Why would I?
Maybe because You would totally love me :P
I learned my lesson in HS. :D :D
So most females have the maintenance cost of a Ferrari? this isn't good :o
Can you summarize your point in a one-liner, other than "you just gotta give a sista a break", what is your point?
*Sigh* Here we go. What I meant was, you need to give a girl a chance. Talk to her before making assumptions.
Right, but that goes for both men and women and all the time. It's called having good manners and social skills.
Exactly, but this is mainly for girls who are called high maintenance. And had you bothered to read, I did say both men and women can be judgmental of said girls.
I did brother to read about 1/2 of it, but high maintenance in my world is based on behaviour not assumptions, so give a girl a chance before declaring her high maintenance is inevitably since it's her behaviour that classify her as being high maintenance.
So I don't agree with this definition:
"A person who has expensive taste (re. clothing, restaurants, etc.). This person is never comfortable because he/she is constantly concerned about his/her appearance. This person feels they are better than most people and usually judge others based on outward appearances."
I do however agree with this definition:
"Requiring a lot of attention. When describing a person, high-maintenance usually means that the individual is emotionally needy or prone to over-dramatizing a situation to gain attention."
That is a good point. However I need to address every angle of what high maintenance is.
What type of cake is that? #grub
this is a baklava cake :P
Some people just don't know to budget...
because vanity is a prized trait...
I think that there is a fine line between vanity and confidence, and I don't think she has crossed the line.
well i was being sarcastic...