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Snobbishness has more to do with perceived self-worth, I think. Some girls have been raised to believe they are of such elevated value and breeding that literally 99% of people are beneath them and of no real consequence. Given that they are of no consequence, they deserve no consideration or attention, which is perceived by others as snobbishness. So, in that sense, I think snobbery is pickiness, manifested as a girl ignoring most of the world that she's deemed unworthy of... anything.
Yeah I don't like snobby stuck up people. I prefer happy smiling people.
But, I'm actually quite shy. Kinda socially awkward you can say lol, I sometimes feel like I look stuck up to others (especially people I don't know well), just because I'm so shy to them.
I really want to be that happy smiling guy lol
I think girls use their looks to act snobby, whereas guys use their intellect and (possible) wealth to act snobby. Like you have the attractive lady who thinks she's worth it all because she's got the face and the body, and then you have the male besserwisser who's acting like he's above everyone else because he's getting straight A's, or because his daddy makes bank.
i agree that my own gender is incredibly stuck-up. but, for most, i think it's a protective thing, not necessarily malicious (though that is incredibly subjective).
You did NOT read this whole thing in the short time I posted it, lol. If you did you would see where I talked about how females try to justify snobbiness as defense.
I read the whole thing as well, but I agree that I think it's more of a protective thing
@FallOutBoy2001 According to an above user: "One time in the bathroom at a bar I told this girl her dress looked really pretty. She sucked her teeth at me".
What's "protective" about that? It's just bitchy and uncalled for.
Girls say uncalled for comments all the time that were not needed. There's nothing "protective" about being a bitch to someone.
To deal with stuck up bitchy snobby females give them the finger tell them to go fuck themselves their shit stinks like everyone else's and not to flatter themselves by thinking they can get you and walk away. And sometimes spitting at them and belittling these kinds of beasts of nature also helps too
I agree, women are significantltly more condescending and more snobby than men are.
There is another user with a racoon gif. Is that your alt account?
@BubbleBoy69
No
Narcissm is on the rise since the 70s. Especially among women it increased drastically. In addition to it men have always been the active while women have been the receiving. So when women are lacking humbleness - it gets even more obvious.
Entitlement leads to snobby men and woman... it's the way a person perceives themselves that creates that persona. Yes, I agree that woman are more inclined to be more snobby then men.
Snobby females are 5x more likely to ask to talk to your manager. Add the dyed/bleached hair and it increases another 10 fold.
Very true points.
And yet men spoil them and drool all over them and want one hanging off their arm. Want to get rid of snobby girls? Stop going after them.
You must not have read the whole thing either. I said this Take has nothing to do with a pursuit or relationship aspect of it, but how snobby females are in general even with OTHER WOMEN.
The same theory applies. People bow down to tgem and treat them like a higher class of people. As long as that behaviour exists these kinds of women will remain.
I did read it by the way, I just chose not to respond to every aspect.
@TuMeManques And that's probably why you're still off point. A woman will be a snob whether or not anybody bows down to her or goes after her. The only people who do are the ones who want their favor, and that's not most people. You responded to an aspect that was far from the main point of the Take.
If that's your perspective than I'd say you're incredibly jaded towards women.
@TuMeManques Oh the cliche.
Says the man who wrote an entire take based on a stereotype.
@TuMeManques Which doesn't turn out to be a stereotype since many women actually admit their gender IS snobbier.
What you're perceiving as "snobby" is often just "fed up with lame-ass guys with no game trying to fuck me".
If you know how to work through that, you'll find most of these women are much different than you think they are.
Point, but, this still makes us sound like bitches for no good reason. A lot of the time, it's not even "lame-ass guys with no game"... it's just sheer numbers.
If a woman is in good shape, at least reasonably good-looking, and... generally has her shit together -- like, knows how to dress herself, do her hair and makeup, etc -- I swear, guys have NO IDEA how many come-ons she gets in the average week, or even in the average *day*.
I mean.
I'm over 40, and married, and I don't even encounter new people that often (my work is 100% client-facing and word-of-mouth, and, at this point, most of my socializing is in venues where I already know almost everyone)... and these days I spend most of my weekend nights at home with my husband and kids... AND STILL, I get hit on at least twenty or thirty times in an average week.
When I was in my 20's, I would get hit on at least twenty or thirty times in an average DAY.
If we're not reasonably curt/short/"bitchy" when it comes to letting guys
know we're not interested -- even if we're *absolutely* classy and polite about it -- then, honestly, we're going to SPEND MOST OF THE DAY gently letting guys down. Whether they're "lame-asses" with "no game"... or not.
(pro tip: even if a guy has "game" in spades, MOST of his approaches with women are probably still going to be unsuccessful. I mean, even the most famous heart-throb celebrity would still be turned down by MOST women MOST of the time.)
This Take had extremely little to do with a woman being a snob because of some guy coming on to her, which is what I mentioned early on. It's curious to see how most of the females are reading this into the Take, kinda proves more ego to assume talking about snobby women has to do with how men are with them.
@redeyemindtricks Men don't understand this... because women are desired... men are NOT desired at all , men NEVER get " hit on " !! The female , having the much greater & riskier reproductive role , is the chooser. You are correct in your comment , even a " desirable " man that seems good on paper , can be totally single , dateless & celibate for many years.
@redeyemindtricks "I swear, guys have NO IDEA how many come-ons she gets in the average week, or even in the average *day*."
- It's not that we have no idea, it's that WE DON'T CARE. If I'm not the one hitting on her, I could care less how many times and how many other guys are into her.
"(pro tip: even if a guy has "game" in spades, MOST of his approaches with women are probably still going to be unsuccessful. I mean, even the most famous heart-throb celebrity would still be turned down by MOST women MOST of the time.)"
- Actually not true. Unattractive men are more likely to get a woman than unattractive women, and attractive men even more so. Hell, I don't think I'm special-looking and don't have star looks and I still get women thinking I'm all the shit. So I'm doing somethin' right.
No one expects you to care... that was simply an explanation of why most highly desirable women are, as a rule, "short" with guys who don't sufficiently pique their interest (= what those guys mistake for genuine bitchiness, 99.5% of the time).
@FatherJack We don't often "hit on" men... but that's mostly because
(1) we don't have to;
(2) most highly desirable guys are VERY suspicious of women who are TOO direct (think about groupies, and such);
AND
(3) the quality of "going after what he wants" is a HUGE component of what MAKES a man highly desirable. A guy can have model looks and a 9 figure net worth, and still, if he's too bashful about "getting what's his", he's NOT highly desirable! Period!
Believe me, if a guy "has it" enough, he'll be surrounded by women who make their desire and availability perfectly clear. They won't necessarily "hit on" him DIRECTLY, but they'll make themselves so obvious you'd have to be a blind idiot not to notice.
@redeyemindtricks And yet the irony is that often the most desirable women are the ones who aren't "short" with men. Bitches who look good and have a lot of guys tell them that are almost always the ones who can never keep a man. This is a fact of life you don't even need to be told, but apparently you're spinning this like a Cosmo column to make a point that isn't really lining up with reality.
Bitches who look good and get a lot of men hitting on them aren't truly desirable in nature. It's the women who are both plain and beautiful and get attention from men but don't have to be "short" with them to get them to leave them alone are the ones who are most desirable. Men can respect a woman who smiles, looks them in the eye, and says, "I'm flattered but I'm not really interested. Thanks anyway." She always gets way more favor than any bitch being "short." If bitchery is what you support and how you've lived your life, that's your business. But don't justify it for others.
Dude, there are a LOT of men out there who can't take a simple, polite no for an answer. If you aren't one of them, good on you.
Good luck keeping any sort of sexual heat in a long-term rl without at least SOME ongoing "fire" between the two of you.
Lovey dovey nicey nicey gets old FAST. That ain't what makes us wet.
@redeyemindtricks And there are still many others who do take no for an answer.
It depends on what you mean by fire. Gritty stuff definitely makes women wet like men. If you mean the violence that you and your husband are into, that's subjective.
"Believe me, if a guy "has it" enough, he'll be surrounded by women who make their desire and availability perfectly clear. They won't necessarily "hit on" him DIRECTLY, but they'll make themselves so obvious you'd have to be a blind idiot not to notice."
- What world are you living on? A guy doesn't have to "have it" and he'll still get surrounded by women! And I know many such men. Women will be fools for any man who touches their buttons in the right way, regardless of his looks and what he has. You seem to think the situation is a lot more complicated than that. Or would like to think women are really that conscientious.
Nice take. I have noticed there are many women here on this site like that as well!
Some women, and men, are just naturally rude and bitchy. But there is another dynamic in play here. Guys don't seem to realize that women tend to get hit on multiple times a day by Chads and dorks. When you approach ladies, they often expect that you are just another of the aforementioned and react accordingly. The solution is to avoid being just another Chad or dork.
I don't particularly care about polls or what have you. Snobs are snobs and they all suck and I choose not to associate with them.
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Interesting take - Yeah I think some of it has to do with self defence and insecurity.
How charmingly sexist. Let females mind their own business.
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~ Mrs Manson
Oh yeah, criticizing males is "woman power" but criticizing females is sexist? Pft...
@MrMansonsPocketPssy You can do whatever the hell you want, but life will take care of the rest.
@InTimoreDei exactly. Women will hardly admit they're full of themselves.
i've never really had to deal with snobby girls, maybe rude, but not snobby. i've had to deal with guys;how felt like they were too good to not be asked to not snatch paper out of your hand or treat you like shit, then laugh in your face afterward.
Yeah this whole article... you see it everywhere you go. Dr office, store etc. Women sitting there all quiet on their phones
How is that snobby? I mean at the doctor's office they are waiting. Before phones we had magazines. What do you expect them to do? Talk to you about their upcoming pap test?
Would it be better if she had a book? Seriously dude? WTF do ya all want? *Pulls out hair*
@Nyx_85 why not though, it would at least make make me feel better and help pass the time by, I would talk to you given the opportunity, you seem like you would be interesting to talk too
I generally talk to anyone that strikes up a conversation. Men, women. Doesn't matter. Unless they are being weird. If I see a guy that seems cool I'm shy as hell though.
I'm totally clueless sometimes too. Like the other day I'm going through self checkout at the grocery store and this kid walks up. "Hey you single?" Not thinking anything of it I say "Yes". Supposedly that means I just gave him the go ahead. So he proceeds to try to get me to go back to his place with him. I tell him I'm much older than him (he was 23). First he said he didn't believe me. Then he said he didn't care. Then I told him I was into girls (lie) and he said I needed the D... *sigh* Why can't I be more socially adapt?
Oh and he also stood there for a few minutes and just stared at me...
@Nyx_85 yeah that is weird... this guy seems to over eager I mean damn
I get what you are saying... I'm already a shy person and if the persons nice looking it just makes it ten fold. Id have a hard time probably even making eye contact with you
Snobbiness is a sign of stupidity. In my country the snobby girls usually pride themselves on their looks and are prevented by stupidity from realising that their looks fade with age and time.
I sent a friend request to my boss and she seems cold. Won't even talk or be friendly anymore. Accepts everybody else in the dept but me.
Ohhhhh wow. I know situations like that, yeah.
I'm thinking when I see her active and it goes unaccepted, like why? Not like I'm a complete stranger, she knows I'm real. Just Facebook. Some women act is though, you wanna date and get married for sending them one. I dont get it. Like a big no no. There must be something to this situation im aware or picking up on.