Lessons and Manners that Teen Girls Seem to have Forgotten

[Anonymous]

Sorry, I am not the best at writing but I feel I need to write this, and I'm going to try.
This may be one of those speeches that you're likely to hear from your parents but I'm going to try and explain in a different light just because I think it's important for people to know. I would do one for boys, but I don't have the energy and they're a lost cause in most cases. (sorry)
One way I'm going to explain is to bitch about a certain child I look after (who I will refer to as SHE or HER) just to give you an idea of what adults go through with your behavior.

Social Media

Yes, I know that you've probably heard this speech a million times, but here it goes again.
What is it with Snapchat and this compulsion to reply to everything that's sent to you? You do realise that you see these people every day yet when you get home and if you're anything like 'HER', you'd spend the entire time on your phone just having short 3-word conversations, with silly random face shots with people who most likely won't mean jack to you in future. I'm sorry but it's the harsh truth.
Sure you want to have fun but not at the expense of your family by ignoring everyone. It seems like every moment is spoilt by her phone.
Limited interaction and being addicted to sending useless messages 24/7 will inhibit your ability to speak to people in person. Not-to-mention how disrespectful it is to your family or the person you're next to. It's like saying to that person that I'm not interested in you I'd rather have a dumb conversation with someone who's not even here.

Make-Up

I understand that it’s just a fun thing to indulge yourself in, and how many time have I heard girls mention that it’s a thing they just do!... and that they're not unconfident about their self-image in any sense. Yet, this ‘fun little thing’ turns into an obsession. Here’s a hint: everybody is envious of the girl that walks into the room, with little effort made and who out of the girls still leaves a bigger impression. Everyone told HER that she is beautiful yet later on in her life, she cakes her face in ridiculous amounts of make-up just to be part of a group or in the hope that her friends will notice her and be in some sort of togetherness vibe with her friends.

Everyone can tell that your features aren't as sharp as you're making them out to be.
Truth is that friends don’t need validation, sure it’s cute to do this with your friends but what validation is worth ruining your skin over and diminishing your confidence over? Even boys do it as well. They'd style themselves in-order to fit in a certain crowd. Which brings me to my next rant!

Cliques and Youtube

Are people willing to lose their self-resect just so they can fit in with the same crowd. SHE is disappointed at the fact a certain friend of hers hasn't picked her as a best-friend but went with someone who's not gifted with the looks department, yet regardless of the amount of times this person has insulted her, she is more than willing to forgive and forget as long as she gets her. Whilst, anyone else: one mistake and they're out of there!

Are some of them really worth the effort for? Growing up, I've learned to respect the people I'm with and never judge. This was just common sense back in the day but now it has to be thought via internet viral vids. Nowadays, you morons are getting life lessons and advice from some of the most despicable role-models on the planet. These people are nothing more than 'money whores' whose main objective is to wither become famous or make money for free...so the way in which they do this, is by making any click bait vid just to reel the kiddies in. It doesn't necessarily have to be a half-naked pic reveal news of some celeb, but it can be a little more manipulating such as advice tips and tricks on society or social skills or how to live your life. These videos have been proven to be nothing but desperate attempts to trick kids into letting becoming invested in the channel or person giving such information. It's almost like paedophile level tactics just to lure kids; these people don't care about your problems. Why do you think these fools run the internet because they generate more ad revenue for YouTube and if you haven't noticed that all their channels are nothing but the same of what every hungry money whore is doing (whore can refer to man or woman)?

Sex

What is it with you guys trying to grow up so quickly? usually the one that teaches you these things in your group are always the individual that's either ugly, or wants attention so they set a standard for everyone to follow otherwise they're the do-gooder. That includes not just SEX talk but fashion and so forth. What you see on movies are not real.

Boys

Are they really worth ditching your entire family over. They just care about one thing at that age. It's a true fact, and I know a lot of girls do but love is bullshit at that age. Give it a few months and he won't be interested as much or another girl that peaks his interest. Even though they stick around they are only trying, inside they really aren't as dedicated as they make out to be.

Whether you want to believe it or not I only did this because I worry. For those that give in to this kind of peer pressure and conformity. It really can ruin people's lives. I'm sure I'll get the uncle Tom comments or the mind your own business comments, but my words are nothing more than questions and concerns...little bit of frustration as well.

Kardashians

Don’t follow these idiots! They are not the standards in beauty, in fact none of them are attractive. Not to me. That entire family needs to go under the river. Everything they do is selfish and dumb. If think about the truth. The rest of them are fame whores, and if you think about what’s happened. The truth is the whole family is making money off the fact that one of the older sisters, sucked a cock!
That’s their claim to fame. I remember one time where my relative said to me that, she doesn’t deserve to be famous. So is fame something to seek out? Just to have eyes on you is enough of a validation on life or is it the money?

Shows like X Factor or American Idol are really there to laugh at these fools that believe it’s the only true way to make music, and that’s by singing songs that’s not even theirs.

I think I’ll end it there, just typing in the name Kardashians is enough to make me want to go take a shit!

You can either take my advice, or just call me some old bitter man that doesn’t know better.