Women only play these games to good/normal men. Bad guys don't experience these games as much. The result is that the bad boys go into bed with women pretty quickly. And women wonder why there are no good men when they hit the wall? Good men are either married to women who were not that great with men as well. Or they are so sick of women that just don't care anymore
I agree with some; especially this one "Women can disrespect men’s relationships…" And I really hate it when they use the excuse of "Falling in love... it just happens."
4
0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)
+1 y
So once you recognize a game is being played on you, how do you deal with that? Cause if game-playing really indicates a manipulative and deceitful personality, I wouldn't want someone like that for an acquaintance, let alone a friend or partner.
Get this one a lot. Including random girls on the street. The difference when I put on sunglasses in the summer is huge. When they don't think I'm watching they check me out a 100 times more, while without sunglasses they act like they ignore me. Typical girl behavior.
Lots of girls play games one way or another at point of there lives or another for reasons unknown the same as guys and who's to say who does it more and who's right or wrong for it but to judge all males and females as the same as the ones playing them that kinda sucks cause were carving the road to this future why be ashamed for finding someone beautiful or good looking I see art and I stare I acknowledge that it's exquisite and maybe some part of me wants this desireable piece of work I find that to be human nature Keep playing games and that's all the future will know wait and see how meeting men and women are in the future... Game Over
All these things make interacting with the opposite sex kind of scary sometimes. Anything you do will lead to one consequence or another. Relationships are history.
easiest thing to do when a girl plays games is not awknowledge it. treat them as you would anyone else and they are playing games by themselves. this is why girls my age are super imtimidated by me.
I have a male co worker that flirts with me, he is married , I talk to him but I am careful not to cross boundaries. I have communicated that to him since he has expressed interest. He seems like a good person, makes me laugh, adds value to my life. We enjoy each other's company. Never would I make a move, it is only a harmless crush. I live by the don't do unto others what you wouldn't want done to you rule. Karma.. Females are moody sometimes too. Maybe it's not games but pms
Deception , is what I call it , because generally there's a victim who has been deceived. They're meant to deceive someone in order to gain advantage for only themselfs. Both girls , boys , men and women do this. Mature people don't engage in such stupid deceptions of others because they have dignity and respect for others. These people are Deceptionist... Evil , dishonest , immature , no dignity and worst of all... direspectfull to others.
I agree. The only part I disagree with is the "not all women are like that" part. I do think all women are like that. I think it's in a woman's nature.
@azzntittiz Lol okay. Even if you don't do these things that doesn't mean it isn't in your nature to do so. Some men like games, yes. I am not one of those men.
You are my new hero for this. I knew this was gonna be good bro! Spot on! You fellas know it too!
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)
+1 y
Women do NOT cheat for sex , as this is not that important , if at all , for most women. Cheating is for validation , ego boost and/ or more resources / services from another man. Most women will get a kick out of using / abusing men , at some point in their lives , to be fair , they are taught that men are worthless & expendable anyway & it is OK to do this !!
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
I've been guilt of playing games in the past , but I've grown up now. Good Take
woman is too intimate cause it includes "man" in it. they aren't worth it. girls is giving them the ability to use immaturity as an excuse. females creates a certain distance and a sense of objective third party observing. but honestly the true distinction is women and female humans. needless to say the later are very rare, almost as much as their male counterparts are.
yeah technique number 13. insanity shaming. along with gay shaming is one of the most potent censoring weapons of third wave feminism. nice try but it doesn't work on some of us. its a clear sign of the insane shaming others for their own condition. yeah projecting on me definitely doesn't count as expert medical advice. maybe you should listen to your own advie instead.
@FreeMenUnite Do you realize you sound just like a radical feminist? Talk about becoming what you hate. Yes gaslighting and shaming happens, but sometimes people are telling you you're nuts because you are nuts, plain and simple.
@fabulouspancakes Yes, it does. Why? Because the way you responded was not even an intelligent form of disagreement nor could you tell me how you disagreed. It was a cliche - oh you're bitter at women. I can't take that stuff seriously.
Right, I didn't even disagree. I'm talking about some of the other replies you seem to think are "mad." No, I was genuinely curious why bitter men (and yeah you're obviously bitter since pretty much everything you post is like this) always say "females." And "FreeMenUnite" answered my question, no matter how weird the reason may be. I have nothing to say about this take really, other than I think there's some truth to it sometimes but you're clearly biased and obsessed with making women look bad. Which is your prerogative, but take it from someone who used to be bitter against the opposite sex, life is much happier when you let that shit go and realize humans in general (including yourself) are fucked up. People WILL hurt you and yes it will happen again. All you can do is make yourself mentally stronger and be as smart as possible when it comes to relationships. I'm sure you won't listen cause I have a vagina and that makes me evil, but hopefully one day you'll realize it yourself.
@fabulouspancakes This is very coincidental, because some people here asked me to write a Take about what to do when women are telling guys they're bitter or hate women, and your ramble definitely fits what I wrote, but I won't be able to post it until the next couple days. Really busy this weekend.
In any case, writing THIS Take was not rooted in having any anger towards women, it was simply telling it like it is for guys, for them to learn from. I've been through the motions with lots of women throughout my life, and it is what it is. I just wanted to give inexperienced guys the 401 about it.
@ManOnFire Well if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck it's usually a duck. I don't care if you're bitter, it's ok to be bitter for a while if you need to. But better to own up to it and try to get past it than to try to deny it and vilify people for calling like they see it. Like I say though, your life, your choice.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
47Opinion
Women only play these games to good/normal men. Bad guys don't experience these games as much. The result is that the bad boys go into bed with women pretty quickly. And women wonder why there are no good men when they hit the wall? Good men are either married to women who were not that great with men as well. Or they are so sick of women that just don't care anymore
I agree with some;
especially this one "Women can disrespect men’s relationships…"
And I really hate it when they use the excuse of "Falling in love... it just happens."
So once you recognize a game is being played on you, how do you deal with that? Cause if game-playing really indicates a manipulative and deceitful personality, I wouldn't want someone like that for an acquaintance, let alone a friend or partner.
What you do is then cut that girl out. Let her know in your own way that you can read what she's doing, and walk away.
Why can't girls just play Zero Dawn Horizon or GTA V instead of playing games with our heads?
'Trying to pretend they’re not watching you'
Get this one a lot. Including random girls on the street. The difference when I put on sunglasses in the summer is huge. When they don't think I'm watching they check me out a 100 times more, while without sunglasses they act like they ignore me. Typical girl behavior.
Lots of girls play games one way or another at point of there lives or another for reasons unknown the same as guys and who's to say who does it more and who's right or wrong for it but to judge all males and females as the same as the ones playing them that kinda sucks cause were carving the road to this future why be ashamed for finding someone beautiful or good looking I see art and I stare I acknowledge that it's exquisite and maybe some part of me wants this desireable piece of work I find that to be human nature Keep playing games and that's all the future will know wait and see how meeting men and women are in the future... Game Over
Take is fire.
Love seeing all these triggered women.
Me too lol.
All these things make interacting with the opposite sex kind of scary sometimes. Anything you do will lead to one consequence or another. Relationships are history.
easiest thing to do when a girl plays games is not awknowledge it. treat them as you would anyone else and they are playing games by themselves. this is why girls my age are super imtimidated by me.
Nice take dude. 👍
15 up votes from guys (including me)
only one up vote from girls
LOL
Cuz chicks can't face the truth lol.
I have a male co worker that flirts with me, he is married , I talk to him but I am careful not to cross boundaries. I have communicated that to him since he has expressed interest. He seems like a good person, makes me laugh, adds value to my life. We enjoy each other's company. Never would I make a move, it is only a harmless crush. I live by the don't do unto others what you wouldn't want done to you rule. Karma.. Females are moody sometimes too. Maybe it's not games but pms
The only games i play are sims and mario party so trust me you don't have to worry about me do any of these things. lol
Deception , is what I call it , because generally there's a victim who has been deceived. They're meant to deceive someone in order to gain advantage for only themselfs. Both girls , boys , men and women do this. Mature people don't engage in such stupid deceptions of others because they have dignity and respect for others. These people are Deceptionist... Evil , dishonest , immature , no dignity and worst of all... direspectfull to others.
I agree. The only part I disagree with is the "not all women are like that" part. I do think all women are like that. I think it's in a woman's nature.
booooooo, I don't do any of those things and men like games.
@azzntittiz Lol okay. Even if you don't do these things that doesn't mean it isn't in your nature to do so. Some men like games, yes. I am not one of those men.
round of applause. I wish I could give you a super like man.
I've experienced every single situation, and it was painful as fuck.
You are my new hero for this. I knew this was gonna be good bro! Spot on! You fellas know it too!
Women do NOT cheat for sex , as this is not that important , if at all , for most women. Cheating is for validation , ego boost and/ or more resources / services from another man. Most women will get a kick out of using / abusing men , at some point in their lives , to be fair , they are taught that men are worthless & expendable anyway & it is OK to do this !!
I've been guilt of playing games in the past , but I've grown up now.
Good Take
All I wanna know is why bitter "males" always refer to women/girls as "females."
woman is too intimate cause it includes "man" in it. they aren't worth it. girls is giving them the ability to use immaturity as an excuse. females creates a certain distance and a sense of objective third party observing. but honestly the true distinction is women and female humans. needless to say the later are very rare, almost as much as their male counterparts are.
@FreeMenUnite lol Seriously? Wtf. I'm sorry you're this screwed up but you need therapy rather than to be posting on the internet.
yeah technique number 13. insanity shaming. along with gay shaming is one of the most potent censoring weapons of third wave feminism. nice try but it doesn't work on some of us. its a clear sign of the insane shaming others for their own condition. yeah projecting on me definitely doesn't count as expert medical advice. maybe you should listen to your own advie instead.
@fabulouspancakes I love seeing the chicks get so mad about this Take! Lol.
ManofFire wait and see my take then. its named "Why single men are hated by society. And how YOU are a part of the problem".
@FreeMenUnite Do you realize you sound just like a radical feminist? Talk about becoming what you hate.
Yes gaslighting and shaming happens, but sometimes people are telling you you're nuts because you are nuts, plain and simple.
@ManOnFire Every time someone disagrees with you doesn't mean they're mad, just sayin.
@fabulouspancakes Yes, it does. Why? Because the way you responded was not even an intelligent form of disagreement nor could you tell me how you disagreed. It was a cliche - oh you're bitter at women. I can't take that stuff seriously.
Right, I didn't even disagree. I'm talking about some of the other replies you seem to think are "mad."
No, I was genuinely curious why bitter men (and yeah you're obviously bitter since pretty much everything you post is like this) always say "females." And "FreeMenUnite" answered my question, no matter how weird the reason may be.
I have nothing to say about this take really, other than I think there's some truth to it sometimes but you're clearly biased and obsessed with making women look bad. Which is your prerogative, but take it from someone who used to be bitter against the opposite sex, life is much happier when you let that shit go and realize humans in general (including yourself) are fucked up. People WILL hurt you and yes it will happen again. All you can do is make yourself mentally stronger and be as smart as possible when it comes to relationships.
I'm sure you won't listen cause I have a vagina and that makes me evil, but hopefully one day you'll realize it yourself.
@fabulouspancakes This is very coincidental, because some people here asked me to write a Take about what to do when women are telling guys they're bitter or hate women, and your ramble definitely fits what I wrote, but I won't be able to post it until the next couple days. Really busy this weekend.
In any case, writing THIS Take was not rooted in having any anger towards women, it was simply telling it like it is for guys, for them to learn from. I've been through the motions with lots of women throughout my life, and it is what it is. I just wanted to give inexperienced guys the 401 about it.
@ManOnFire Well if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck it's usually a duck. I don't care if you're bitter, it's ok to be bitter for a while if you need to. But better to own up to it and try to get past it than to try to deny it and vilify people for calling like they see it. Like I say though, your life, your choice.
@fabulouspancakes LMFAO! Hey it's your world.
Yooooo this happened (Women who play with you and are in a relationship but don’t want you to know) to my cousin last semester!!