6 Reasons Why I Cannot Stand Innocent Girls

6 Reasons Why I Cannot Stand Innocent Girls

innocent girls, what do I think of them? Ugh, god they're just so damn annoying!

1) They're like children

People think they're child-like behaviour is cute and endearing. If I ever see one I wouldn't be in awe of them wanting to smush their cheeks. More like grow the hell up, you're not 10 years old anymore.

2) Way too emotional

Innocent girls I've met are so emotional, they'll see a kitten fall over and be like: "AWWW NOOO" and be on the verge of crying, drama queens. Fair enough some things are cute, but don't scream about it.

3) Most are physically weak

Some don't even try to get stronger, they just rely on others to carry what they can't and open what they can't. At least gain some strength, just in case they're in a dangerous situation and nobody else is around. It's silly to rely on others.

4) They don't understand dirty jokes

I could say a dirty joke, and there's always that one innocent girl who spoils it by saying "what does that mean?" or "I don't get it". Talk about a kill joy, when you have explain something to someone, it isn't a biology class.

5) Too naive

Honestly, you could tell them "I took you to the moon in your sleep" and they'd believe you. And then when some get taken advantage of they feel the need to cry about it. Grow a brain cell or two and figure things out for yourself, is my advice to them.

6) Society feels the need to protect them

"No she's too innocent"

"Don't let her see that, she's so innocent"

Innocence doesn't last forever. It's about time they grow up, how are they going to anything for the future, yet society seems to molly coddle them because they're so "precious". You stop being precious after you turn 12, that's when it's time to grow the hell up.


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  • the emotion makes the take pointed and immature. the stereotype screams ignorance jealousy and anger. and the annoyance at seemingly every thing they do says you have very low patience which is unhealthy and a very low amount of self control which is also unhealthy. also innocent and childlike are different. valiant effort with the take though. you have a rather cynical and jaded view of things that is slightly saddening. 12 is when you need to grow up? that is just dumb I am sorry but on what planet does that make sense. the brain isn't even close to developed at 12. 10 more years minimum for people to "grow up" as it were. also if you have to explain something to them so what learning is a good thing and any intelligent person strives to learn more.

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  • 1) Being innocent doesn't ALWAYS connect to age or not acting like an adult. Having a innocent face sometimes is natural. You can have the innocent face and still be an responsible adult.
    2) No offense but most girls are emotional regardless that they are innocent or not.
    3) If they can't strong because of medical reasons or something about their genetics, it can't be help then. i don't blame them even if they are not innocent. you can't force someone to do something that they can't do.
    4) I think thats all on the person individually. Anyone may understand dirty jokes, some may not. its all about preference on the person level of comedy, not about a girl being innocent.
    5) Similar reason to number 1, she can be innocent and smart. aside from this, if they are ignorant, there's nothing bad as learning something.
    6) when i see a puppy, i do tend the need to protect it. same as i see a innocent girl. i don't always follow the rule of "survival of the fittest" . Innocence can last forever. again, there's a difference between being innocent to being a child.

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  • You would 'hate' me then. I get approached by people in general because of my "friendly" vibe and sweet-innocent look. I firstly got bullied among my female peer workers in passive-egressive moves, yet now that i've become aware its their problem they can't stand (not tolerate) different ways of being, I've came to the conclusion I feel very sorry for them If they can't stand people who are "this particular way", they must live with themselves. Resentfulness is a very ugly feature and can hurt your health.
    Just accept them! :)

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  • What's wrong with being a little conservative regarding dirty jokes? I honestly don't like them myself, even if I understand them.

    I find sexual flirt to be quite a turn off to be honest. Not that is wrong to do it, it's just something that will repulse ME personally.

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  • 1. not at all, innocent doesn't mean they act like a child. Not even close. It means they are genuinely good people, they are not prone to the "carnal" etc. Completely different then acting child like.
    2. Also I don't think this is necessarily true but then its possible, though in my opinion most women are too emotional.
    3. Women are physically weak so I don't understand this.
    4. Not necessarily, I know a girl who I would classify as innocent/sweet and she find them amusing actually.
    5. Innocent doesn't mean stupid, again, I think your confusing the one with the other.
    6. That's literally every woman in the world. Women are always protected by men and society without exception (which is why women can get away with horrific things and still be viewed as victims).
    I feel like this is more about you being bitter rather then a genuine dislike as nothing you said was particularly common amongst "innocent" women. Now if you said they where less adventurous, yeah that's pretty true, they tend to be more religious and socially conservative, also true. If you said they tend to be way to girly, yeah that's true. If you said they tend to be too timid, also generally true. But again, nothing you said is actually something that is common among innocent women.

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  • You are combining WAAY too many stereotypes into one characterization. I've never met a single person who fits all 6 of these at once.
    Look, if there is a certain circle of girls you don't like, that's fine, but no need to rant about this.

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  • Sounds more like a personal opinion regarding a personal experience with such girls.. nevertheless stereo typing like that ain't the answer cause i've dated girls with such "symptoms" and yet they never were as horrible as you tend to describe them. Ease up and tell us what's really bothering you.. you're out in the open asking us to help shake that opinion so be straight to us when we are willing to give you an answer.

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  • Pfft. You hate em cuz you ain't one of em!

    They're pretty much the ideal woman, you just gotta watch out because for every 1 innocent girl there's 10 skanks pretending to be one.

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  • Literally everything you listed is precisely why we think they are cute...

    Men naturally love this. We are drawn to it as our instincts are to protect.

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  • Hey, innocent girls are human beings too.. You they have they ups and downs, they don't fit into certain stereotypes.. They are complex, fine human beings like you are.. Which is why you don't need to hate of them.. LOL..

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  • OP's a slaaaaaag and jealous of the non slaaaaaaag's

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  • Ever consider that some 'play' that role, because they are super smart, and don't want to get caught up in the social drama of most of the 'Normal' or 'Popular' types?
    So many see people so superficially, not realizing what they hide, for their own reasons!

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  • I'm not really getting why this bothers you so much?

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  • You can't really say anything, girls like you are generally the kind that never get boyfriends because of your attitude, and when you do, they're always only after your body because your personality is just that toxic.

    I think this post is just brimming with jealousy, and to be honest, it's quite pathetic.

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    • hope somewhere this girl isn't just posting this out of spite of a girl she knows, potentially taking it out on here because even on the internet she can't win

  • The sweet innocent grill > Cum dumpster that has a dirty mouth

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  • In other words, you're jealous that your bad girl act isn't reeling 'em in like you want.

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  • I'm just annoyed by people who aren't genuine. "Innocent" or not.

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  • I think that you're stereotyping or generalizing "a kind of girl" with some personality traits. By the way, I don't know if you know it, but a lot of men love a lot that "type" of girls.

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  • Oh Def! I prefer murderess's, bank robbers and extortionist prostitutes.

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  • If a girl (or anyone) is still innocent after 18 she is either acting or mentally challenged in some way. It is possible that they might have had really overprotective parents so I don't mind that much. But there are certain limits to what I can tolerate.

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  • I usually end up dating innocent girls and not other ones and when it gets down to it they're usually way more mature emotionally and in respect to decisions

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  • I think if I met a truly innocent girl it would be a refreshing change. Do they still exist?

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  • 1- Yeah I get your point
    2- I can deal with it, otherwise, I'd date a guy.
    3- Thats absolutely no issue. If I wanted physical and emotional strength... I'd date a guy.
    4- Yeah, it can be a little strange but its actually quite funny. I'd rather protect that innocence.
    5- I think its just a product of being a nice person. I like trust but its a trait that can be annoying.
    6- Yeah. I'm a man with an embedded desire to protect and provide.

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  • Lmfao! Well, I do agree with you in a lot of your basic concept, yeah. When I was a teen I thought innocent girls were so beautiful but now that just does not appeal to me. Don't get me wrong, I do like a woman with some good values and uprightness in character, but you don't have to be a complete waterlily. Jesus. Lol.

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  • That's a terribly rude opinion... let people live their own lives... if I begin stereotyping like you just did... I would say you must be a bitchy girl who thinks she is a feminist but doesn't actually know what to do with this tag

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  • Every girl was innocent at one time or other. Is this a self loathing thread because you were there once too sweetie. LOL

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  • So this is just one stereotype after another generalization then? Got it. I detect hints of jealousy and bitterness throughout this. Innocence and childlike behavior are different things. And innocent girls most times are sheltered so they do tend to be naive, but everybody has to make mistakes and learn from them. I'm sure you have. Careful not to cut yourself on that edge now.

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  • You sound pretty salty. The girl you are describing, I haven't seen much of. The only example I can think of in my personal life is a girl I went to high school with, she was very sheltered by her parents. Sometimes the naive-ness was annoying, but it wasn't her fault.

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  • I'll be honest here and say a lot of people think of me as this type of girl. I can be very empathic, sometimes conservative regarding sexual jokes, I always saw myself as naive, and I like childish things (Like getting excited about banana pj's and Disney.) I dress like a kid and look like one too. I'll show my style in a picture. However, that's just a side of me that comes out when I'm happy. It''s a part of me I'm now able to let loose because as a child I wasn't able to so it never quite matured out of my system. Abuse and having to be my own caretaker most of my life never gave me the option. So when it comes to important things I'm as "grown" and independent as it can get.

    My sex life is all BDSM based since I was little, never knew anything else for a long time. So for one, i'm closed off about dirty things because there is a lot i'm into that is extremely taboo. And I can have very serious talks, everyone comes to me for them. I push to be more intelligent and aware of things every day due to my fear of being too naive. I'm always self-reflecting. I'm fought a lot in my life from molestation, being suicidal since 6. Taking care of my three siblings, and being involved in gang violence.

    I've gone through a lot of shit so being able to be the "innocent" girl you hate has helped healed me from a lot of pain and guilt from the damaged person I used to be. So quite frankly, I don't give a fuck if some people get annoyed. Being sweet, kind, sensitive, and etc took a lot of growing for me. It's the tip of the iceberg to who I am and where I came from. I'm not changing it.

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    • How could you possibly be into BDSM and be innocent? Those words don't go together.

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    • @Allesana Funny, incest isn't my taboo but cute joke. Doesn't really help your original point but it was cute.

    • That's the only thing that came to mind that was taboo anymore.

  • Way to stereotype. I’d take an innocent girl any day over a bitch who can’t see past her own insecurities.

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  • I think you're confusing innocence with immaturity and childish behavior.
    A truly innocent and mature woman is one of the best things in this world because she chose not to become tainted and bitter.

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  • They are cute. I have an innocent close friend I love to coddle and nurture. We do all our softcore cutesy girlie stuff together.

    She likes to tag along for our crazy party stuff lol and holds our hands when we get more stuff tattoed and pierced 😄 how can you not love these sweet little cherry blossoms?

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  • As someone who is always called innocent by my friends I disagree with what you say.
    1. I do not act like a child. I may be “innocent” but that doesn’t mean I’m immature. I won’t throw a tantrum just because I don’t get my way.
    2. I’m emotional, yes. That’s just who I am - it has nothing to do with whether or not I’m innocent. It’s a part of me and though “innocent” people may be more emotional, there is NOTHING wrong with that. I won’t break down because I kitten fell over - I might worry that it’s hurt or be compassionate but I won’t break down.
    3. Just because people are called innocent does NOT mean that they are weak. They might not be super strong but that is biased. I actually prefer to think of mental strength because I am not a weak child. My friends say that I’m a strong person and though I am emotional and innocent, I won’t break down all the time.
    4. Yes, I don’t understand your jokes - generally I really don’t. If that’s a problem, tell them but don’t blame them. I might not understand the joke but if you don’t want me saying anything to ruin the joke, tell me and I won’t say anything.
    5. Just because I’m innocent doesn’t mean that I am dumb. People have something called common sense too you know. Innocence doesn’t mean knowledge of the world and my life. Sure I don’t understand dirty jokes but that doesn’t I don’t use my brain.
    6. I think my friends protect me from things because I’m innocent, yes. But also because I think that its something they want to protect and keep me that way for as long as possible. Just like a parents would protect their young from the dangers of the world, my friends protect my innocence.

    Me being innocent does not blind me from knowing that life is hard. It does not blind me from working hard at anything I do or to be a better person. You should get to know people first before judging them because I disagree with most of what you said.

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  • I agree with everything you said because I'm ashamed to say I've been that way myself and let me tell you the person who was most annoyed by it and hated myself most for it was me.

    I realized back then it's not normal or healthy wanting to stay a kid forever, it'd just get weirder and weirder and I should not stand in the way of maturity. If everyone around me behaves a certain way I shouldn't try to be an unnecessary burden by behaving in an immature way.

    I used to be super naive, whenever somebody told me something crazy I would always be like really? instead of just thinking for a moment. I wouldn't get dirty jokes, people tried to protect me, I relied on others, people always called me adorable and I got emotional way too easy. Also I had zero sense of fashion and no common sense and I was extremely extroverted and obnoxious and I talked way too much.

    I fought hard to escape that previous mindset and behavior of mine so that I won't ever be considered an innocent and annoying girl in that way again. It is rather my goal to reflect my inner growth by projecting a confident, mature, intelligent and well balanced person. Growing up was the best decision I ever made.

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  • I agree, they also feel superior if they haven't done anything sexual.

    I do act childish sometimes and my boyfriend finds it cute, but for the other shit no way dark humour all the wayyy lmao, live your life fuck being innocent, people who favour innocence are like favouring the innocence of a child.. kinda pedophillic if ya ask me :P

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  • There are a lot of blatant generalizations said with no factual basis in reality and possibly limited in your small bubble of reality.

    Untrue. I've known women like this and I've known innocent women who vastly different. Putting my personal experiences aside (since it is bias), some innocent women are as such and some aren't. To dislike the whole is illogical.

    Though this is/are your thought (s), I fervently disagree.

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  • Love the roses. Who cares if you like innocent girls? Doubt the girls care one bit. There is a great new group for Women only - free - on facebook - come and join in the latest topics - this week we are taking about would you stay with a cheat? Hear what the other women have to say and get their support of you need it. https://www.facebook.com/groups/279539472814109/

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  • Yaaas I feel the same way !! I can’t stand innocent girls ! They’re so judgmental and you always have to be so careful what you say around them. Awesome Take 👍🏻👍🏻

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  • It's easier to rebel and be bad, than it is to be good. Deep down you're still innocent too, but some guy probably messed with your head and emotions and now you feel way tougher than before. It's okay. "innocent girls" don't got anything you're not capable of having.

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  • The main thing is, most of them are feminine! I do NOT just mean female, either.

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  • All true but many don't necessarily possess all those traits at the same. Eventually, they grow up. Some do far stronger than expected.

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  • Being innocent doesn't mean you don't understand dirty jokes, don't get that confused with stupidity. To me innocence means that you can appear innocent. Everybody has that one side that is not so innocent Unless they're like 5

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  • Some girls wish they weren’t naive I guess it’s because some girls don’t surround themselves around enough people and don’t know how to read people well. I was one of those girls that was unaware of people’s intentions because I am naive when it comes to guys I have no idea what they have on their mind because of this I got hurt it’s not like we choose to be naive it’s just we lack knowledge in some areas it sucks.

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    • Maybe some people are like this at first but then they learn and therefore they change.

  • I mean, I have nothing against them but at the same time.
    Just don't bash what you hate, it's really shallow.

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