Some very sound observations there - Yeah its hard to know what is the best probably some of mix of friends gender wise - I would tend to say "Be Yourself" and be whatever way you want to be BUT be aware enough to know the pros and cons of being such a personality plus do you accept these especially the "cons".
It seems you’re trying to put everyone under the same umbrella based on just YOUR own experience. You can’t talk for those girls I’m afraid, it’s only what you yourself perceive them to be which is a working within your own mind. Some girls I know have grown up with only brothers and find it far more natural and easier to relate to guys. Nothing wrong with that. Some do also have female friends too which doesn’t fit your umbrella conclusion. See where this is going?
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I don't know. I've always been into videogames and anime, so I ended up with a bunch of male friends and only a few female ones who were into the same things I was into. When you're interests are things that mostly guys are into and you barely have any interests that girls are mostly into you're definitely going to have more male friends than female friends. I never felt like I was getting special treatment by them for being a girl. And when I started dating they still stayed my friends.
Also not trying to be rude but in your post it seems like you just wanted to brag about how you're better than all the other girls because you're an MMA fighter. For all we know you could be lying about everything you said about yourself.
I disagree with most but agree with the marriage thing. Even serious dating. You can have a guy friend, or two but that's about it. That makes sense because I would not want my man having so many girl friends either. Yes, it's projection - but - it's still reality to your partner.
i have several guy friends. but you are spot on! i have many girlfriends too!!! and any woman who complains that girls just dont like her and has no girlfriends is technically emotionally damaged. agreed. its cool to have both, in my opinion. but not every girl is evil. so if they ALL can't get along with a girl, it's likely the girl, not the reat od the world.
I am basically only friends with guys but I don't try to pretend like I am "one of the guys" I just like to hang out if I wanted to learn how to shoot hoop I would go figure it ou myself or mabey ask somebody but I have never said "i am one of the guys " because I am not I am the girl in the group and I would like to be treated as I a girl because guys get very rough sometimes and if they forgot I was a girl because "i am one of the guys" honestly I would probably end up getting physically hurt
This is very judgmental. Probably because you don't want to be seen as one of those girls since you possess similar qualities. Do you. But this got a little judgmental of girls that don't think like you sort of
“... but don't have many guy friends because, well, men aren't attracted to them.“
This is why guys try to be friends with women. If she’s not attractive, they typically won’t. Women are either in denial of this fact or are simply too naive to notice until the guy tries to make a move on them.
So you tell us all this about how good you are at competing with guys.. yet you agreed with that one chick about it being feminine for guys to compete with women..
Yeah... I guess the "punch in the throat" analogy I gave to you was more accurate than I originally anticipated.
shut up. my boyfriend likes that i have friends that are guys and not girls! Fuck your gender roles. girls are too fucking bossy and guys are fun to hang with and don't constantly gossip and spread rumors like your barbie ass.
The hate for tomboys among other girls always boils down to - "so you think you're better than me?". Just admit it. No, they don't think they're better than you. Maybe they really do just have more in common with guys.
You don't have to call them sluts, or insecure, or delusional. Not everyone with the same type of genitals are in fact, exactly like you.
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It could be a simple case of you thinking "being one of the guys" means one thing but then they don't mean it the way you're projecting them to mean it.
Just because it has different sentiment to you doesn't mean that they aren't exactly like you except they don't have a hang up about being "one of the guys" or not.
It’s just an expression. And not a degrading one or one worth being upset or bothered by. Usually it is said in humor when a girl happens to be in a situation with all guys or happens to have majority guy friends ~ or yes, when they are involved in an acitivity rhat is typically male dominated.
Literally just an innocent expression.
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I know a few of the type your talking about and your right in a lot of ways, I know a girl who considers herself one of the guys but then just complains when she is hanging out with the guys because she isn’t the centre of attention, it’s annoying like I have female friends too but I don’t hang around them the same I hang out with my drinking buddies
If a girl mostly hangs out with guys and doesn't have as many female friends, then I would start thinking she doesn't have a good relationship with girls and she could be the cause of drama with girls.
I think there may be some gals who are simply masculine in spirit, as well. They may well feel like “one of the guys” but aren’t like the chick you mention:
I disagree. I've known different girls that hangs out with guys, and they don't fit this. They may have great relationships with the girls in the class and so on.
Yeah... I'll avoid you because you sound like one of those annoying high horse chicks that expect a red carpet rolled out for them because of the stupid shit they can do
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Some very sound observations there - Yeah its hard to know what is the best probably some of mix of friends gender wise - I would tend to say "Be Yourself" and be whatever way you want to be BUT be aware enough to know the pros and cons of being such a personality plus do you accept these especially the "cons".
Well said
It seems you’re trying to put everyone under the same umbrella based on just YOUR own experience. You can’t talk for those girls I’m afraid, it’s only what you yourself perceive them to be which is a working within your own mind. Some girls I know have grown up with only brothers and find it far more natural and easier to relate to guys. Nothing wrong with that. Some do also have female friends too which doesn’t fit your umbrella conclusion. See where this is going?
I don't know. I've always been into videogames and anime, so I ended up with a bunch of male friends and only a few female ones who were into the same things I was into. When you're interests are things that mostly guys are into and you barely have any interests that girls are mostly into you're definitely going to have more male friends than female friends. I never felt like I was getting special treatment by them for being a girl. And when I started dating they still stayed my friends.
Also not trying to be rude but in your post it seems like you just wanted to brag about how you're better than all the other girls because you're an MMA fighter. For all we know you could be lying about everything you said about yourself.
I disagree with most but agree with the marriage thing. Even serious dating. You can have a guy friend, or two but that's about it. That makes sense because I would not want my man having so many girl friends either. Yes, it's projection - but - it's still reality to your partner.
i have several guy friends. but you are spot on! i have many girlfriends too!!! and any woman who complains that girls just dont like her and has no girlfriends is technically emotionally damaged. agreed. its cool to have both, in my opinion. but not every girl is evil. so if they ALL can't get along with a girl, it's likely the girl, not the reat od the world.
I am basically only friends with guys but I don't try to pretend like I am "one of the guys" I just like to hang out if I wanted to learn how to shoot hoop I would go figure it ou myself or mabey ask somebody but I have never said "i am one of the guys " because I am not I am the girl in the group and I would like to be treated as I a girl because guys get very rough sometimes and if they forgot I was a girl because "i am one of the guys" honestly I would probably end up getting physically hurt
This is very judgmental. Probably because you don't want to be seen as one of those girls since you possess similar qualities. Do you. But this got a little judgmental of girls that don't think like you sort of
“... but don't have many guy friends because, well, men aren't attracted to them.“
This is why guys try to be friends with women. If she’s not attractive, they typically won’t. Women are either in denial of this fact or are simply too naive to notice until the guy tries to make a move on them.
Good mytake, by the way.
So you tell us all this about how good you are at competing with guys.. yet you agreed with that one chick about it being feminine for guys to compete with women..
Yeah...
I guess the "punch in the throat" analogy I gave to you was more accurate than I originally anticipated.
shut up. my boyfriend likes that i have friends that are guys and not girls! Fuck your gender roles. girls are too fucking bossy and guys are fun to hang with and don't constantly gossip and spread rumors like your barbie ass.
and yes, i do have girly friends, but most of my friends are boys. don't call me sexist.
The hate for tomboys among other girls always boils down to - "so you think you're better than me?". Just admit it. No, they don't think they're better than you. Maybe they really do just have more in common with guys.
You don't have to call them sluts, or insecure, or delusional. Not everyone with the same type of genitals are in fact, exactly like you.
It could be a simple case of you thinking "being one of the guys" means one thing but then they don't mean it the way you're projecting them to mean it.
Just because it has different sentiment to you doesn't mean that they aren't exactly like you except they don't have a hang up about being "one of the guys" or not.
I'm seeing things just fine me and my psycholoy are fine
It’s just an expression. And not a degrading one or one worth being upset or bothered by.
Usually it is said in humor when a girl happens to be in a situation with all guys or happens to have majority guy friends ~ or yes, when they are involved in an acitivity rhat is typically male dominated.
Literally just an innocent expression.
I know a few of the type your talking about and your right in a lot of ways, I know a girl who considers herself one of the guys but then just complains when she is hanging out with the guys because she isn’t the centre of attention, it’s annoying like I have female friends too but I don’t hang around them the same I hang out with my drinking buddies
If a girl mostly hangs out with guys and doesn't have as many female friends, then I would start thinking she doesn't have a good relationship with girls and she could be the cause of drama with girls.
no, it's because they just don't wanna be around most girls. what if she's the only tomboy? I have girly friends but most of them are boys
I think there may be some gals who are simply masculine in spirit, as well. They may well feel like “one of the guys” but aren’t like the chick you mention:
I disagree. I've known different girls that hangs out with guys, and they don't fit this. They may have great relationships with the girls in the class and so on.
How did you actually get this far up your own ass? Just curious.
Ugh. I answered this question twice at considerable length, and each time it did not send.
I will try again later.
Bye 😊😊
Thanks u tried
Yeah... I'll avoid you because you sound like one of those annoying high horse chicks that expect a red carpet rolled out for them because of the stupid shit they can do