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A master or mistress getting romantically involved with a slave: such a relationship cannot be healthy; the potential for abuse and objectification there is rich.
The independent man or woman: sorry, no person is an island; or the phenomenon known as Loneliness would not exist.
The key is to find balance between the two extremes and to be sensible and use good judgement if considering or entering a relationship, or else not to be hypocritical about it if choosing to avoid relationships altogether.
I don’t get why some people have to feel “needed” by their partner, like someone has to be dependent on them or else they feel unappreciated. I don’t need a man and no man needs me and that’s fine. Wanting each other for companionship, support, intimacy, etc is enough. I would feel more confident in a relationship where my partner doesn’t “need” me because I would know he’s not there for basic necessities he could get from someone else- he’s there because he cares about me in particular.
You ve never even attempted a relationship. You haven't even held hands and you think you have space here to comment. Your brain fed- lack of real experience is exactly the bs he is referring to. Every single female alive anywhere need men. Men are vital. Men were created by God. God didn't populate the Earth with 9 billion people twice on fuckin #metoo power ffs. Stop the tacit hate and the buffoonery. Create a life, forge a legacy and calibrate your goals to intertwine with the God who made all things and called them good. You get back the love or the hate or the bland indifference you give. Reap what you sow.
For me because I want a girl to be with is because I dont want to fuck a girl and just move on. That’s cheap and sleazy, isn’t that what you girls and women complain about? Fuck boys? It’s about a connection and being best friends With her that’s the point at least that’s what I go by.
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Guys where it's the dislike button?
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I expect the police will find your manifesto above will help explain why you ended up killing helpless women and then yourself after a rampage. Your incel anger, resentment and paranoia reek out all over its words, You need some serious help and probably institutionalization. It is predictable that you are a "Conservative" giving your ramblings about "socialist leftists" and probably the rhethroic by President Bozo helped set you off and that he was going to lead to the "Rise of the Incels" where women were forced to have sex with patehtic losers like yourself. Seriously-get thyself to an asylum where they can medicate you and get you help
Having someone doesn't mean it's gonna be forever, it's the moment that we spend together, that's gonna count if you want that person in your life. Like how can a girl say, anyman will make her Happy? It's impossible to say that without spending time together or even having conversation
if you want to kick women out of your life there is a group called MWGTOW.. Men who go their own way.. people who have been burnt by society and divorce courts.. and decide best not to play the game than get burned by it. tehre are even women who support MWGTOW.
Dude, I’m way too busy to worry about how women treat you so terribly. The only way to get over your discomfort with women is to not take everything so person. That’s what I had to do in order to stop hating men.
SO TRUE!
Simple
Men are a waste of time. They are either one of these things:
1. Shallow.
2. Boring
3. Not funny
4. Have nothing to offer except his salary. Not looking for a charity , I’m looking for boyfriend
5. Go to bars thinking they are looking for love when they are really looking for lust
6. Have absolutely no courage to approach or even smile at girls. Men today are so effeminate And have no balls
7. They do not get to know any women nor do they have any female friends.
8. Men who tend to generalize about what all women want. When different women all want different things
9. Do not know how to flirt. Other than to smile
10. Men who do not want a relationship but just sex
And what exactly are you offering in return sweetheart?
@Oram52 I actually have a lot to offer. I’m a very high quality woman. Might sound like I’m bluffing but it’s true
High quality women don't bemoan men. High quality have their pick.
@Oram52 hmmm sometimes high quality women can’t find love cus nobody can fit into her standards
@Oram52 when you’re high quality , you can afford to have standards.
High quality women have no problem with suitors. High quality women can afford to have standards but they also have high quality men vying for their attention. High quality women marry earlier than average women.
@Oram52 high quality is subjective. A man with money or good looks is not enough for me. I need a real funny comedic guy, which 99 percent of all men are not nowadays
@Oram52 I’ve been out with successful incredibly intelligent men with money, but none have succeeded in ever catching my heart.
You're just repeating and reinforcing exactly what I said about you women earlier, in the MyTake- you're not looking for a human being, you're merely window-shopping for a fashion item to "catch my eye and make me fall in love with it- until you get bored of it and toss it away for something more "exciting!", "trendy!", and "in- vogue".
Most likely, as soon as you hear that one of your "GFFs"- who make out that you're each other's "best friends ever" when you all hate each other's guts with every fiber of your beings and spend every waking moment subtly sniping away at each others' egos to make yourselves feel superior (translation: alleviate your masked inferiority complexes just a tiny bit by making other girls feel worse than you do), who you're always competing with for the title of "Queen Bitch"- asserts that "Oh, I SUPPOSE he's nice ENOUGH, I GUESS, If you're INTO that sort of thing- I mean, I SUPPOSE not EVERYONE can be as HIGH QUALITY and have as HIGH STANDARDS as ME, right? Heeheehee..."
At which point, you'll instantly succumb to peer pressure, and dump him for anyone else. Because you're shallow, boring, unamusing, have nothing to offer except what'd between your legs, have no real friends of any gender, don't know anything about casual social interaction other than being fake, and have absolutely no courage to decide for yourself what, or WHO, suits YOU as an individual. All you want is "oh, whatever she has, but better, so I can look better than her!" It's truly pathetic.
LOL I'm sure you're kicking yourself for not being born a lesbian on account of all the woman out there who check off all these boxes
@mytakeOwner, I am not Gonna settle for a low quality man. A high quality man is a decent guy with a good head on his shoulders , no mental issues (extremely important) , Mature, has a decent job , decent education, AND IS FUNNY,, has social skills, looks a certain build so that I can be physically attracted.
I won’t settle for a man who don’t fit into all of these minimum requirements. I need humor to be attracted to a guys. 99% of guys Nowadays aren’t funny nor do they have any social skills
And you're offering- what's that? Oh right, nothing. Besides shit-testing, shit-testing and more shit-testing, along with being flakier than a raging blizzard in mid-winter in deepest, darkest Siberia, and having about the same degree of warmth, attractiveness and amiability as one to boot. "High Quality"? You? HA! Funniest thing I've heard since Planned Parenthood's declaration to "end all organisations with racist histories", given that they were founded by a White Supremacist nutjob with the explicit goal of "wiping out racial mongrels". Course, you wouldn't know about that, what with her having been female and all...
@mytakeowner, I have a lot to offer. I am an educated woman with high ambitions , I have a decent job. I am extremely kind hearted , humorous , extroverted , down to earth , same, loves children, caring , extroverted.
All my friends including guy friends say that I am a wonderful human being who wouldn’t hesitate to help out others
I’ve had all different kinds of men fall for me on the first date. But what is the point of that? If I can’t ever be attracted to any of them? I have gone out on so many dates , all for a waste of energy and gas money
Suuure. You sound exactly like this guy...
![Since Women "Don't Need No Man", here's my plan for getting over it...]()
Seriously- replace "woman" with "man", and "men" with "women", and try reading it in Donald Trump's voice. That's how much credibility you have right now, when you make all of these claims about yourself.
@mytakeowner, I am also humble. I forgot to add that quality. But you asked the question of what do I have to offer. I just stated what I have to offer. Sorry if you were offended by my answer
If you expect perfection get a man made out of silicone.
@nelly83 I thought you don't need a man?
@nelly83. Let's assume all you say is true about men. Why do you think that is? Let's start with legions of men who were raised by toxic single mothers and who were told they are awful as boys just because they were born male.
@nelly83. I am glad to hear you are high quality, can you tell us what your best qualities are?
@KrakenAttackin if I was dating in GirlsAskGuys as my only world , I’d rather stay single than ever date anyone.
@nelly83 None have caught your heart... well, I take that to mean none are "dangerous" or "bad" enough excite you. At 24 you are likely riding the carousel and clubbing every weekend.
@KrakenAttackin just graduated from college not too long ago. Back in school, I didn’t have time to go clubbing every weekend. It was either school , studying or part time job.
Now that I’m in the professional world. I have a bit more free time in weekends. The dating game is still bleak for many reasons still. People are losing their social skills and charisma. Online dating has made single folks less likely to meet women in real life. Finding the right guy is like searching for a needle in the hay stack. I’d rather go for a matchmaker
@KrakenAttackin if you think “dangerous “ or “bad” is what excites a grown woman, you have no real experience with women
Are your list of requirements in a man realistic? For every requirement you have of a man you should be able to offer a man the same. So if your list is 25 items long, you need to offer 25 things.
@KrakenAttackin I do have a lot to offer. don’t get nasty and spiteful , just cuz you don’t have much to offer. The first step you need to take in the right direction is: let go of all that nastiness Ans bitterness inside of you
What a bunch of female bullshit.
@nelly83. So what kind of mileage does your positive have?
@nelly83. Delusional.
You need to marry a circus clown **honk honk**
@KrakenAttackin what makes you think I take anything you say seriously? Harrass me all you want , doesn’t mean a thing to me
@nelly83. Your "standards are so high" that you will end up alone. Your story is pathetically common. The super arrogant woman who has "high standards of men", so no one passes all her shit tests. The result? You will be 35, alone, screaming "where have all the good men gone". Answer? You were surrounded by good men for years but they "weren't good enough for you".
From a guys perspective this is hilarious to watch. ,🙈🙉🙊
@KrakenAttackin i have high standards because I’m not afraid of being alone. Staying with someone I don’t love just for the sake of settling is what a loser would do
@nelly83 I respect that you are not afraid of being alone, but know this: At 24 you are at the peak of your Sexual Market Value, meaning you are now in the best position to find the highest quality man you can, based on your SMV. Each year after you hit 25 your SMV will decline, with a huge drop off at 30. Just ask yourself, why are there so many single, lonely, childless, angry, 35 year old women? Answer is they thought they had all the time in the world to find a Chad, but in reality their highest SMV says passed them by like a warm summer breeze.
@KrakenAttackin I wouldn’t settle even if I was 40 years old. Because I know for a fact that there have been women 40 years old or older who have found the love of their lives. Being married to someone you’re not in love with is a miserable Life. I Have men falling all over me, and no it’s not because of my sexual peak or baby machine value. It’s not hard for me to settle at all. Men love me for who I am. One of the guys I went out with had an ex girlfriend who was 38. He was 29.
And If I truly wanted a child, I can have one. And there is no shortage of unmarried single Guys in their 30s desperate for wives and kids. I’m actually friends with many of them.
@KrakenAttackin and let me tell you something: I would never date a guy who ranks women’s worth purely based on her “sexual peak”. It shows you have absolutely no respect for a woman’s worth. And I know for a fact you hate women along with many of the other woman haters on here
Your “sexual peak” is gone too. I would never go for a 40 yr old over a 26 yr old any day.
You rant on and on about how amazing you are ( a red flag by itself) but you still can't find a man?
Maybe you are not as amazing as you think you are.
@KrakenAttackin I think you’re just jealous of me. Who is the bitter one on here?
Damn I wish I could have your confidence for just one day! lmao
There's just too much risk to stay in a committed relationship especially when it comes to marriage. If you truly want a loyal companion, get a dog.
Don’t worry, there’s still some good ones out there. My dream is to be a wife, mother and a housewife. My sister is a house-girlfriend and my Mum and other sister are fairly traditional. There’ll be someone.
this makes the take no better
Grace is a living proof that there are still real lovely ladies in the world.
They are few and far between... if told you all the horror stories I've been through with women it would probably make you all give up on women happiness and hope , so I won't..
@Josephx760 don't worry bro i had my share and squashed her but that doesn't mean that my life didn't became miserable, the difference i didn't pay the price alone, i made her pay the price too and she lost everything.
Lol and you don't think it's the same way the other way around? Most likely, you are pursuing a woman who is out of your league. She does want commitment, just not with you
Same thing happens to us when we pursue a man who is that of our league. he can get any girl he wants, so he decides to just fuk all of them and not commit himself to anybody.
in the hypothetical fat girl with tattoos and the shave head that you speak about? She can't get men either unless they are lower tier like her
Excellent mytake bruh
Women don't know how to respond to this and they kinda agree with what you have to say but they don't wanna agree publicly.
So they are either attacking you saying you can't get a girl OR this is some incel shit.
I am a feminist. Do I need a man? No. Do I want a man? Yeah. I already have one.
Feminists unite! ✊
Being a feminist has nothing to do with it everybody needs somebody you don't think so but it's companionship it's intimacy with someone that we trust and care for to lose our inhibitions with and that's not something you can get my going out to a bar and meeting someone for the first time taking them home and then setting them on their way she said you don't need a man oh man doesn't need a woman it's not true we need to show it to populate the world but that's neither here nor there as an individual we all need someone someone that knows us better than anyone else does cuz even your best friend doesn't know you in the respect that a partner would. Even the best friend doesn't know you as intimately as your partner I don't mean sleeping with your best friends will there be male or female once or twice that's not the same thing this person who knows your deepest darkest and keeps it secret. Sowhen I say we all need someone I don't need someone to support us as far as financially it's put a roof over our heads I'm talking about to be there emotionally physically spiritually and mentally so yes we all need somebody I don't ever deny the fact that you do cuz we all want that deep down you know you do who here isn't looking for their soulmate or true love deep down true love happily ever after true love? And this goes for everyone male and female.
@meeso13 Ok. Thank you for the obvious speech.
Do you need a smartphone? No. But ladies like you'll still spend all your time playing around with them and on them, and you'll literally lose your mind, lash out at everything and everyone, and become a total shizo in no time at all, if you're deprived of access to your smartphone for even an hour or two. Do you want a smartphone? Of course you do- that goes without saying. And of course, you already have one- there isn't a girl like you who won't have at least one, along with every social media app she can. But does that mean that you want the specific smartphone which you currently have- do you even currently give a fuck about it?
Even if you only managed to get your hands on it after obsessing about it for months and snapped one up the instant they released it as a new model- do you have any loyalty to your smartphone, any commitment to keeping it, or even any fond memories or gratitude related to it, after all the things you done on it and with it which you wouldn't have been able to otherwise? Or is it just about YOU, and the things themselves? Along with the latest, newest, shiniest, more expensive model of smartphone that's supposed to come out soon, that you're currently swooning over and which you're already reserving your order for as soon as it gets released? We all know how is it. Face it- you only want a man, and only have a man, because you see us in exactly the same way that you see your smartphone- as extremely useful tools, for the primary purpose of facilitating communication and social networking, but which also double as the most desirable and commonly flaunted fashion items and status symbols which you can acquire, in order to "show off" in front of your "friends".
That's how it works, when you turn absolutely everything into "marketing", and implement wholesale human market capitalism as the cornerstone of all social policies. That's what your brand of "feminism" is all about nowadays. And that's why you're the most miserable, bitter, resentful and unhappy women in all of human history. Because happiness simply isn't profitable- but duping the most gullible, emotion-governed people around (i. e, women) with the lie that "oh, you're unhappy, but it's all because of whoever you're envious of, it's all because of their '____ Privilege'! Just vote for me/buy all of my products, and you WILL buy happiness! We'll make you FEEL better! And THEY'll have to pay, we'll make them pay- pinkie promise! (until you get/got us into POWER, at which point, we'll ALWAYS do the exact opposite! Because if you WERE happy, then you'd stop voting for/purchasing from us- the only way to make more of you vote for us, and keep purchasing more from us, is by making you feel even WORSE, eliminating all sources of happiness in this world! Because then, we'll OWN you, because you'll NEED us for every element of your survival, because you'll all have no-one else, nothing else, to turn to- except for US!) MWAHAHAHA- oh wait, did I make that maniacal cackle out loud? Sorry, hehe, it was... just, laughing at how incompetent and EVIL all of these RACIST FASCISTS, anyone who still opposes us seizing total control over everyone's lives, are! Yeah, that's it..."
I’m not even going to read all that. I can’t believe you spent your time writing all that. I have a man simply because I like him. I like him, he likes me. That’s pretty much all there is to it.
Ooh, sounds like I struck a nerve. You're "not even going to read all of that"- not because you can't, but because you got a few sentences into it, then elected to stop there because you didn't have any actual ripostes to offer, as well as because you felt threatened by how shockingly easy it was for me to get a read on you, and insulted by my exposition of your true motives and character. You and I both know you have a man "simply because I like him, he likes me. That’s pretty much all there is to it." And we also both know that you'd fuck around and cheat on him with any other man in the blink of an eye, for exactly the same reason- "simply because I like him, he likes me. That’s pretty much all there is to it."
If I wanted to cheat on him wouldn’t I have done it already? Why would I be faithful for three years if I didn’t actually care about him? I didn’t read all of your essay because it was long as hell, kind of boring, and extremely inaccurate.
And we're supposed to just take your word for it, that you have been faithful for three years, and haven't cheated on him? I'm not your BF- I'm not swayed by any emotional biases regarding you. And that tetchy, defensive response indicates that you're definitely not telling the whole truth. If you wanted to cheat on him, wouldn't you have done it already? Sure you would've, if there were some guy you crossed paths with who you liked in that three-year period. And of course, swinging technically isn't cheating. Who knows- maybe you like your boyfriend because he gets turned on by you sleeping with whoever you want? There's all sorts of people in this world, after all- who be we to judge?
Well believe it or not, I’ve been faithful.
I'll take that assertion with a pinch of salt, thanks.
The logic you use here is erroneous from the context of Juggernaut Law. What is meant by you not needing a man is you have so many to choose from and they are all easily replaceable. You don't want a man because you already have a man and it's like eating a cake and saying you want cake at the same time.
@Plooky007 That’s not what I’m saying at all. I said that I do not need a man, meaning that I could live without male attention. I have a boyfriend because I like him. He brings me joy. But if he decided to leave me I would continue to live my life and manage to be happy.
You are woman hear you roar but no matter how many bras you burn at the end of the day I can still beat you at arm wrestling.
@meeso13 ok...
@meeso13 cool story bro 👌
Maybe you’re warped and misogynistic way of thinking is the actual reason you can’t get a woman..
The whole point of the MyTake was that I don't want to get you any more.
That’s good
Well good. Be your own self. We don't want you either. Being the kind of man you are, it's no wonder nobody wants you. Just stop trying because you're gonna make yourself madder and madder. You're hurting nobody but yourself by trashing women. If you stop focusing on getting a woman to put up with your bitterness and anger, and instead find a way to live a happy life, maybe you'd attract a girl who loves you for you and you won't be able to get rid of her.
@RydiaMagnifique Wow, why are you sexually harassing me by spamming literally everyone's else's replies? You're disgusting- get a life already, you perverted stalker. Or better yet, how about a pet cat? I hear they're very popular with the ladies these days...
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@RydiaMagnifique why are you adding fuel to fire by spamming this guy you also have to show some maturity on your end as well. You know how many stories I’ve read about girls who complained about guys yearrrrrrrrrrrs. I would usually try to care about the other persons feelings or ask them what triggered them and their experience? Because I could easily tell those girls back then, “well maybe it’s you in a very rude way” but when I talked to girls in the past about their problems it was about listening and offering perspective, not calling her a ho and saying “you won’t ever find a guy”
SAVAGE!
If someone doesn't want me I just move on to someone who does lol this a whole book, when's the next one coming out? 😂😂😭
~shrugs~
What'd you prefer?
How do you mean prefer?
You basically just repeatedly exactly what I said- when someone decides she doesn't want me any more (which she will, because girls're just like that with all guys now), I'll just move onto someone else who does. And then the next, and the next after that, and the next after that, and so on. As for "how do I mean"- what d'you want the next "lol this a whole book" to be about? What d'you want the topic to be? And when d'you want it to come out?
Damn I hit a nerve lol
Eh? I'm just asking for an idea/challenge for the next MyTake, that's all. If you don't have any, then fair enough.
I don't think you got the joke...
Dude, she's saying you wrote a lot in the text, and she's making fun of you because you wrote a ton of garbage that obviously stupid rhetoric.
don't waste your time most of these women do not understand how much they need men
https://www.youtube.com/embed/CKqdr6eyvDUGOD designed it that way for a reason
You shouldn't need a person, you should want. A person shouldn't be a need, a huge necessity to your life. Saying you want someone helps detach the you and the person so there won't be any unhealthy attachments. - in my opinion
In addition this is very easy to say if you have a person or even multiple persons on the side eh?
@Plooky007 wdym
@Plooky007 the person should not be so dependent on the other to the point they NEED them.
Damn! Depends on the woman. They’re different to each other, a lot are a waste of time th. Just be happy you’re in charge of your life and your achievements. Just remember we hear more about the ‘bad’ women than the good. You think we need women? Far from it Lol! Women can give us enjoyment, family etc... they can’t be that bad. Just find that 1%, when she falls in love with you she’ll lowkey need you. A lot of women like to ‘big’ themselves up, ultimately who cares? 😅😅
You gotta understand many women are VERY SCARED OF GUYS !!!
give it a rest. Damn
Why are you people scared?
True! He is too sensitive!