When will bitter men to get over the fact that we are no longer wanted or needed by women?

[Boogie_01]

I see so many bitter men that sit and complain online all day. The fact of the matter is that men need to understand that women have higher rates of education and do not get as lonely today with the internet.

They can log online and get all of the approval that they want, they can make their own money (sometimes more than men), and they can log onto tinder if they want sex. What use is a relationship for them in todays day and age?

Men as a whole need to get over this. Coming online and complaining will not solve anything guys! Just live life!

P.S. please no bitter comments

[Browneye57]

The truth is they all yearn for a REAL man. Not one that whines and complains, is needy and desperate. Women LOATHE weak men. And we've raised a whole crop of girlie-men, and that's why the women are going their own way as well.

And most of them still want a man of their own, a partner. So you're right on one hand but completely wrong on the other.

Knowing about and understanding what makes women tick goes a long way to a successful outcome with one.

You really need to up your game if you're going to compete today. But you're right, there has never been any benefit in putting any woman on a pedestal. EVER.

If you're good looking, have some bucks to spend, and have irrational confidence, you'll have pick of the best of what's out there. I guarantee it.

[Haha456]

when a woman has a decent paying career, she no longer needs men. You will need more than just a decent paying job if you want to impress her.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Haha456 Why is it always the man who has to impress the skank?

[Friendlybro79]

@haha456 what is impressive to you out of curiosity? I would hope any man or woman would be looking for more than just a decent paying career in someone else? We all have certain needs and redeeming qualities that we'd like met in a partner.

[Haha456]

@KrakenAttackin
The Rise of Lonely, Single Men
Men need to address their deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations.

www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-rise-lonely-single-men

Dating opportunities for heterosexual men are diminishing as relationship standards rise.
Men represent approximately 62% of dating app users, lowering their chances for matches.
Men need to address skills deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations.

[Haha456]

@Friendlybro79

because historically women weren't encouraged to pursue a college education and didn't hold careers. women were historically all stay home wives. so many of them married as a way to survive or eat their next meal. nowadays, vast majority of women have careers. they no longer need to marry to eat.

[Browneye57]

@Haha456 - They still do. If you don't find a suitable man by the time you're thirty, your chances dwindle. By forty it's nearly impossible, for a LOT of reasons.

No, the most desperate people in the dating pool today are women over forty. They're all looking for SOMETHING, and usually it's a payday of some sort. They call it 'provisioning'.

Unfortunately, women like you end up alone and lonely, at least the guys have friends. Women have their cat (s). And if they're rich they might have a horse.

Having a man is not the same as having a pet. I know, it's hard to wrap your head around that.

[Haha456]

@Browneye57

I think you need to be realistic because when you're losing hair, getting fat, saggy, growing wrinkles, you're gonna have to settle for a woman in her 40s. You're not gonna be able to get a woman in her 20s. I'm 26 and I have no desire to date or marry a guy over 40. Thats just the truth.

[Haha456]

@Browneye57

[Unfortunately, women like you end up alone and lonely, at least the guys have friends. Women have their cat (s). And if they're rich they might have a horse.]

Single men are the ones who end up with kids. Single women can have kids from a trip to the sperm bank. By the time I am 35 , if I am still single, I will just have kids from the sperm bank. I can have a family only own. You sound like you need a huge wake up call.

[Browneye57]

@Haha456 - You're a deplorable person. Just figure you're not compatible for any dating, let alone parenting. So much fail here. YOU are in for THE wake up call my dear.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Haha456 So you will sperm bank kids who end up being deficient in all the ways kids without father's are... another incredibly selfish female.

[Haha456]

@Browneye57 @KrakenAttackin

does it offend you that only single men die alone with cats while single women die with children?

[Haha456]

@KrakenAttackin

there's nobody more selfish than a woman hater like you.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Haha456 You really are capable of convincing yourself of anything.

[jennyPuss]

it's not going to happen. why don't you tell the mechanic to not be bitter because we have robots to work on cars?

the truth is that women will always need men. and if men can't get sex next door, they will go down the street. and if they can't get sex down the street, they will go across the county. and if they can't get sex across the county, they'll cross the state. and if that doesn't work, they'll get on a plane and go where it's legal to pay for it.

there's going to be a LOT of American women who wake up at 40 years of age and realize that while they were out having "fun" and "not needing men"- that men left them behind.

i predict a significant increase in fiance visa applications in the near future.

[Haha456]

women no longer need men like we used to because historically women had no way to make a living or survive on her own. 40 years ago, women weren't encouraged to pursue an education or career. So, women married men in order to eat their next meal. Nowadays, vast majority of women no longer see men as a necessary item to life. We have college degrees, decent paying jobs. We don't need men to feed us. This explains why larger percentage of women are preferring to stay single unless they really find a man who fits what she truly wants.

Women are no longer seeing men as ATM machines. Women require more than a man with a job.

[U4ea0]

It doesn't matter if women need men or not. If to many men can't get women, they will engage in destructive behavior such as rape, murder, etc on such a massive scale our society will collapse. This has happened in the ancient past. It is already starting today. So, women will have to decide if they want to do this the easy way (marriage), or the easier way (rape).

It would be wise to understand that women only have rights and freedom because men allow it. Never forget that.

[Haha456]

@U4ea0

sorry but you're just not very smart.

do you realize casual hookups are very easy to come by nowadays?

and nobody cares if you rape or kill , nobody is gonna marry someone they're not attracted to. you will just go to prison. With our modern advanced technology, its very hard to get away with crime nowadays.

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 You need to not comment on anyone else's intelligence any more. Apparently you didn't understand what I wrote.

The US can only incarcerate 1 million people if you include all of the county jails, state, and federal prisons. What do you think would happen if there is suddenly 10 million rapists? Even if you caught them (not bloody likely), you would have no place to hold them. It would be a disaster. There is no way we can deal with so many violent criminals. This country would collapse. Guess who loses all of their rights? That's right, women. Just like what happened when Rome collapsed. I'm sure those Roman women protested to those barbarians that they had a right to choose who they had sex with.

Civilization requires the traditional nuclear family. Without it, it collapses. When too many people engage in behavior that undermines that institution, we either impose restrictions on said behavior and possibly restrict the rights of people engaging in it or our society collapses. It is far easier to restrict 50% of the population rather than lose everything.

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 As a side note, actually it is very easy to get away with murder. Do you really think most murders get caught? There are about 20,000 murders per year in the USA. How many get solved? Less then 50%. That means over half of the murders don't get caught.

[Friendlybro79]

@U4ea0 Dude are you ok? This is ridiculous to say to anyone.

[U4ea0]

@Friendlybro79 I was simply telling this little girl the truth. At least half of murderers get away with it.

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 You only have college degrees because of AA and women being held to far lower standards then men. To prevent so many women from failing out, you have grade inflation that benefits women only. Most of the girls I went to medical school with should not have been there.

Women can't truly survive on their own. The independent women you speak of really isn't so independent. She depends on government subsidies which are paid for by male taxpayers. And yes, many women do need men to feed them. Welfare recipients are 96% female.

As for women requiring more. Previously WHAT do you bring to the table of comparable value? What do you contribute to the society you take so much from? What indispensable job do you fulfill that any man could do better? Most American women have an overinflated sense of their value. Despite the fact that women who would be rated a 9 or a 10 are at most 10% of the female population, just about every womon I encounter thinks she is worthy of me (I make significantly more than 99.5% of women). Doesn't matter how fat or ugly.

[Haha456]

@U4ea0

There is an increasing number of college educated financially stable women in their 30s who are opting to become single mothers by choice. It means that a woman who has enough money to support children, does not need a husband in order to have a family.

Single women are having kids on their own. They do not need husbands or boyfriends. Women do not need men to survive.

[U4ea0]

@haha456 Very few would-be singlemothers use in-vitro or artificial insemination to get pregnant, instead they do it the old fashioned way. And 99.5% of singlemothers are not financially capable of raising a child nor will they ever be able to without welfare of childsupport.

For the women that actually want to become singlemothers, society needs to make this as difficult as possible. Single Mothers do a very poor job of raising decent children. 94% of sex offenders were raised by a single mother and over 90% of convicted felons, it doesn't matter how wealthy she was. All of the evidence shows a single mother household is far worse than single fathers.

This is how most single mothers do it:

She gets pregnant intentionally and never says anything to the father. She just disappears. Now, the father has the same rights to that child as the mother. Women do not get to make that decision alone in cases like these. By not disclosing to the father that he has a child she is infringing upon his rights and the rights of the child. She just victimized two people. And of course her incompetence will lead to another affliction when the child reaches adulthood.

[jennyPuss]

please honey. explain what MORE you fucking want from a man? if he's got a job and he's a responsible guy and not fucked up on drugs or booze and he looks decent then what the fuck else is there? if you need MORE than that then men have been right all along- women don't love men, they just love what men can do FOR them. fucking gold-digging user bitches.

[Haha456]

@jennyPuss

Haha if every womans only marriage criteria is to be with a man with a job, wouldn't every woman already be married? If it was only that simple and easy.

[Friendlybro79]

@U4ea0 share your sources on these statistics please.

[Friendlybro79]

@U4ea0 how can you prove this as fact and not your opinion?

Copying your words from a text above

"Civilization requires the traditional nuclear family. Without it, it collapses. When too many people engage in behavior that undermines that institution, we either impose restrictions on said behavior and possibly restrict the rights of people engaging in it or our society collapses. It is far easier to restrict 50% of the population rather than lose everything."

How does it require traditional nuclear family? (Does that mean they have to be married too?)
How does it undermine the institution that is built on freedom of expression? (If American) It's not freedom to express yourself as the traditional nuclear family model?

If American: How does restricting the first amendment rights of 50% get enforced?

Who are the 50% you speak of?

How are we going to lose everything from what is one woman's opinion that is definitely not the majority of opinion anyway?

[U4ea0]

@Friendlybro Well, virtually every anthropologist agrees. And we have history, which we never learn from. When the nuclear family is compromised, that society collapses.

[U4ea0]

Alright, haha456 is a troll. We can ignore this idiot.

[Haha456]

@U4ea0

There is actually an increasing number of single moms that are financially well off. Historically, single moms are typically under poverty because its the vast majority of the single mother population are in ghetto black communities. But nowadays, since modern women have become moer financially well off with decent paying careers, many of us are opting to become single mothers by choice.

And studies that have proven that children of single moms tend to succeed just as well as kids with 2 parents.

Another expert on fatherhood, sociologist Tim Biblarz of the University of Southern California-Los Angeles, says the evidence shows economics plays a significant role in the risk for negative outcomes, such as poorer grades and lower educational attainment, substance abuse or poor social adjustment.

"Those who grow up with single mothers with adequate socioeconomic resources tend to do well. The children of poor single mothers are more at risk," Biblarz says. "Many of the results that say that kids are at increased risk for negative outcomes have to do with economics."

abcnews.go.com/.../story?id=5687285

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 If you are claiming singlemothers are as good as two parents, certainly you will be laughed at, and nobody is going to take you seriously ever again.

The evidence has consistently demonstrated that singlemothers as a whole are the worst. Even worse than single fathers. The best environment is by far a traditional home with the father and mother. Then it proceeds singlefather, gay male couple, singlemothers, gay female couple. Blended homes with a stepfather and mother are generally as bad as a singlemother house. Stepmother and father home is better than singlegather but not as good as a traditional home.

You have also failed to address the fact that unless a woman gets artificial insemination, she does not get to decide on her own to be a singlemother. The biological father has the same rights to that child as the mother and in most states today will be given 50% custody. Unless she commits fraud and doesn't disclose the pregnancy to the father. There is a push to criminalize that behavior.

The fact is, less than 1% of female workers make enough money to comfortably support a child. The average salary for men is substantially higher than a woman's and it isn't shrinking. A woman who chooses to go it alone while only making $50,000 a year at most is not putting the best interests of her child first. When she realizes she screwed up, she will try to get child support from the father.

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 The two "experts" you mentioned have been thoroughly discredited and their conclusions have been thoroughly refuted. That is what happens when you cherry pick 14 year old articles.

[Haha456]

@U4ea0

[The evidence has consistently demonstrated that singlemothers as a whole are the worst. Even worse than single fathers. The best environment is by far a traditional home with the father and mother. Then it proceeds singlefather, gay male couple, singlemothers, gay female couple. Blended homes with a stepfather and mother are generally as bad as a singlemother house. Stepmother and father home is better than singlegather but not as good as a traditional home.]

single fathers make more money than single mothers. Men make more money than women. This may be why kids might have better outcomes with single dads. According to the study, it is not whether or not the kid has a single parent that determines the kid's outcome. It is the single parent's financial situation that determines whether or not the kid will succeed.

the reason why kids to 2 parents tend to do better is because :
2 working parents are more financially well off compared to 1 working parent.
A child suceeding has nothing to do with needing both a mother and father. It has all to do with how financially stable the parents are.

[You have also failed to address the fact that unless a woman gets artificial insemination, she does not get to decide on her own to be a singlemother. The biological father has the same rights to that child as the mother and in most states today will be given 50% custody. Unless she commits fraud and doesn't disclose the pregnancy to the father. There is a push to criminalize that behavior.]

there is no law that requires a woman to identify the father in order to have a child. Only women who are financialy well off can afford to have artificial inseminiation. Vials are sperm are extremely epxensive. But if a woman spend her life dedicating herself to building her career, she can very well afford artificial insemination and raise her own child. Successful women can afford to have children all on her own.

[Haha456]

@U4ea0

[The fact is, less than 1% of female workers make enough money to comfortably support a child. The average salary for men is substantially higher than a woman's and it isn't shrinking. A woman who chooses to go it alone while only making $50,000 a year at most is not putting the best interests of her child first. When she realizes she screwed up, she will try to get child support from the father.]

so what? there are plenty of men who have kids then abandon them , leaving it all to the single mother to raise. Women should not need men to raise their kids. Women should dedicate to building their careers so they do not need men to help raise their kids.

plenty of men abandon their kids after divorcing their wives. Raising children has been always a woman's job. Men don't care about their kids.

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 There is no law requiring her to do so yet. Unless she files for welfare, and this is likely. However, the biological father can file a paternity suit against the mother and get custody rights. All he has to do is swear he had sex with her during such a time and the court will order a paternity test. Happens thousands of times a day. She can cry and scream that she doesn't want him to be in her child's life, but it doesn't matter. And in most states, the court will order the child's last name be changed to the father's. Supreme Court ruled biological father has the same rights as the mother. You need to stop showing off your ignorance.

As for the reason singlemothers do poorly, those reasons are due primarily to her inability to control the behavior of her children after 12. Even wealthy singlemothers fail most of the time.

[U4ea0]

@Haha456 Hey stupid, 80% of divorces are filed by women. Of that 80%, most are for very flaky reasons. In other words, they are single due to very poor choices. There has never been a lot of husbands abandoning their families. That is a myth.

[Lionman95]

I think that will never happen to be honest because many have a natural desire to find a partner but they can´t find one. So they use the internet as their vessel to let go of these frustrations. So ignore them, because "just live life" is one of the worst recommandation you could give anyone if that´s what comes to your mind than it´s better not to say anything because it´s not helpful hence they live their life already.

What they need is help improving their situation with women or being single happily. But your myTake does none of that really good.

[Vegasrunner]

Your premise may be flawed. Trust me women still need and want men just as they always have. Guys that dont get girls have always complained throughout human history about not getting women the only difference Is that now there are more platforms for them to complain on. The other part of this equation is that you're trained to believe that the guys that are successful w/ women dont say anything so by definition you're stuck w/ only one side of the story. For example if I told you that I'm about to bang 3 different Women in the next 3 days you would spend your time disbelieving instead of asking why or how.

[jongreat46]

Damn, I know what you mean; however, let us be clear, these are incel boys who are mad that they have to compete with gasps! their own personality and it scares the shit out of them. They know they will never meet up their standards based on looks and now money and education and it scares them, and I mean scares them. Because now they are scared that the women will pick partners based on looks and dick size and that scares them the most because they know they will lose the dating game if this continues. They are scared women will treat them in the dating game the same way they treated women, like pieces of meat. I am bisexual and I am by no means a chad but I have been with 20 men and women, and some went sexual, and others did not but it is because we weren't connecting and that is ok but if sex is your only goal, then you deserve to be a lonely incel.

[Billlewis]

I realized a long time ago that my purpose in life is to serve as many beautiful women and masculine men as I possibly can, without any concern whatsoever about my own wants, needs and preferences. I'm well aware that my success, self worth and usefulness can only be measured by how my owner feels about the quality of my service, the enthusiasm and loyalty I display and my tolerance for vicious whippings, beatings and bare bottom canings.

[rtj1211]

Why do you feel a need to tell men this? It sounds to me that you really don't like men at all, you just want to use them as a whore for the night. Nothing more.

Well if that's the case, just go to Tinder and don't make hateful comments here. Loads of guys happy to fuck you for a night at Tinder...

This isn't bitter, I wouldn't want to spend 5 minutes with you or your kind.

[U4ea0]

Women benefit from affirmative action. If AA is struck down, college enrollment of women will drop by over 50%. In medical school, most of those girls in my class didn't even meet the minimum requirements while all of the guys did. Most of them will be gone.

Women are not net contributors to the tax burden of the USA due to the government paying on average $10,000 in tax credits to employers per year per female employee. If this stops, what do you think will happen?

[TrillXHippy]

Are those supposed to be reasons why women don’t need men 😂? You mentioned the word “approval” APPROVAL from who? Other women? Make their own money? Men will be the ones giving them money 😂. Women being on tinder just to have sex? With who? MEN. Just shut up 😂

[TrillXHippy]

And if you’re actually a woman pretending to be a guy Gag really needs to do something about that

[Guy13]

Women want to be lead by someone they can respect... that's the way it was then and the way it is today. They are not looking for perfect BUT respect worthy guys.

[Googlemyahoo]

When the simps pull all the fake bullshit pretending to empathize with women and be their best friend like you it will drive them to the real men.

Thanks 👍

[coverboyoutlawbrady]

OK, girls, when you're seventy-something (h**l, maybe even fifty-something) cat ladies, we boys will see how you like singleness.

[Cuminginside]

Y'all playing SOME DANGEROUS head games. Keep it up, just keep up.

[zagor]

Women going out together to have a good time doesn't mean they no longer want men in their life.

[Anonymous]

I think the more salient question here is when will women stop posting questions under blue accounts on GAG. Not bitter, just genuinely curious.

[TroyDT]

I generally only see women routinely rejecting soy boys.

[Jouth]

when will woman get used to the fact that they can't do it

[stef85]

Women don't need men for anything other then to fix things for them.

[Shamalien]

Women do want and need men goof

[Anonymous]

When they finish trolling women.