there is nothing "hypermasculine" about bad boys sis. insecurity, aggression, drama seeking, and the need for attention and validation have nothing to do with masculinity.
I think you forgot another reason which is the most obvious one and that is "because being with bad boys gives us something to brag about in life"
and of course you all want their sperms, since its their sperms that give you all easier access to child support.
There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want, and going for it. The men who get upset at this are exactly the same as the women who freak out as soon as a man says that they want a feminine girl, or that they wouldn't date a woman who's promiscuous. Just be aware that you can't speak for everyone. There will obviously be patterns as to what people are attracted to, but nothing is universal. If you're able to understand that, you have no reason to get upset.
I somewhat agree with your post but there are a lot of things that left me wondering...
Owly birdee, your post seems as if women onky wants everything from a man, such as using him for her own needs and in the end after doing all these, she only wanted his seed! 😒
What about her? What are the benefits? What does a girl gives to her man after wanting to do all such things for her?
I get that, I dont match any of these Im a soft, quiet guy with low selfesteem and i think women deserve better like the guy you described and not a loser like me. I wish i was like that but im not and im sure a lot of women can say they can't love a guy like me which is okay and i just have to accept that which is why I’ve already came to the conclusion ling time ago i will never have a woman in my life but its okay i just have to life with that
Women love bad boys because they love getting beaten black and blue. Women will always go crawling back to bad boys and get beaten some more. Usually stupid women love bad boys.
@ManHater Dude, this literally is true. Just today one of my co-workers and I were talking about another one of our co-workers who left recently and I just found out. The girl left because she had some bullshit problems with her man that she had to sort out and was affecting her job. This girl TOOK BACK an asshole who literally tried to kill her the second time around. Which is ironic to me because last year she told me how she was so done with this guy and kicked him out of her place... just for me to find out that she went running back to him a second time anyway, wanting to give him a second chance like an idiot.
Like the saying goes, "There's no such thing as making the same mistake twice. Once you do it a second time it becomes a choice."
What are you talking about, you were just flirting with some sad, tool sounding bad or supposed bad boy who was bragging on the internet. If there’s anything more try hard than bragging on the internet, I don't know what it is lol
Ahhh. Spoken just like someone, who can't handle rejection and shames men for not wanting you. I see it did hurt. Good. The truth more often than not does.
Women LOVE doing what they think they're not supposed to do. I'm currently with a woman who's in a committed relationship and I've never seen someone get so damn excited over sex in my life. The fact that it's dangerous is what makes it so exciting for her.
@jabberwocky00 there's the natural factor as well! Not to say every dude with a body count is going to be amazing in bed... some are naturally selfish as well and have no clue, just pump and dump and that's why they gotta find a new girl after a couple days or weeks.
So true... i remember this one time i got into it with a shit talking meter maid who was fucking with a lady friend of mine and i ended up taking his ticket book from him. . slapping hishat off his head and tipping over his 3 wheel cart... then tearing off on my bike.. She called me a few minutes later and just said "oh yeah"
At the end of their proverbial day, and under all their layers of their proverbial onion, (most) women want to be taken and smashed out... and I'm always happy to oblige when the opportunities *arise.
- media romanticises narcissists - dominant men are usually bad and biologically women often go for higher ranking men - some think a bigger asshole will protect you better from other assholes
When I think of guys I’ve been attracted to I wouldn’t categorize them as bad boys. Most of them were assertive and handsome in a traditionally masculine way, but not dangerous and rough.
Woman love man who are confident, aren't needy, cares more about themselves than their woman, focused on their own hobbies and life, and aren't relationship focused. The so called "bad boys give them the emotion highs that they need soo much. Woman always want a man who is more superior than them, and the guy who doesn't care about her and aren't that into her considered to be superior by them.
Maybe for short term relationships but not for a long term partner. And you don’t know what kind of childhood experience the girl had, everything affects the choices we make.
So is that why that one girl turned me down in favor of a limp dicked, fat asshole who beats women in wheelchairs so hard they get launched out of them?
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About right.. though i am not a bad boy, i had better success than i feel like i should have
Thank you sir
there is nothing "hypermasculine" about bad boys sis. insecurity, aggression, drama seeking, and the need for attention and validation have nothing to do with masculinity.
I think you forgot another reason which is the most obvious one and that is "because being with bad boys gives us something to brag about in life"
and of course you all want their sperms, since its their sperms that give you all easier access to child support.
There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want, and going for it. The men who get upset at this are exactly the same as the women who freak out as soon as a man says that they want a feminine girl, or that they wouldn't date a woman who's promiscuous.
Just be aware that you can't speak for everyone. There will obviously be patterns as to what people are attracted to, but nothing is universal. If you're able to understand that, you have no reason to get upset.
Interesting, great incel trap reading the male comments
I'm not a bad boy, I'm just a cold, unfeeling bastard who is willing to use violence when required
Love a incel trap...
Thank you for noticing
choices choices.. everyone makes choices :)
I somewhat agree with your post but there are a lot of things that left me wondering...
Owly birdee, your post seems as if women onky wants everything from a man, such as using him for her own needs and in the end after doing all these, she only wanted his seed! 😒
What about her? What are the benefits? What does a girl gives to her man after wanting to do all such things for her?
Personally i'm NOT A TOOL FOR NO ONE! 😏
I get that, I dont match any of these Im a soft, quiet guy with low selfesteem and i think women deserve better like the guy you described and not a loser like me. I wish i was like that but im not and im sure a lot of women can say they can't love a guy like me which is okay and i just have to accept that which is why I’ve already came to the conclusion ling time ago i will never have a woman in my life but its okay i just have to life with that
Live*
Women love bad boys because they love getting beaten black and blue. Women will always go crawling back to bad boys and get beaten some more. Usually stupid women love bad boys.
Yeah I agree bad boys are not for me and many others
@ManHater Dude, this literally is true. Just today one of my co-workers and I were talking about another one of our co-workers who left recently and I just found out. The girl left because she had some bullshit problems with her man that she had to sort out and was affecting her job. This girl TOOK BACK an asshole who literally tried to kill her the second time around. Which is ironic to me because last year she told me how she was so done with this guy and kicked him out of her place... just for me to find out that she went running back to him a second time anyway, wanting to give him a second chance like an idiot.
Like the saying goes, "There's no such thing as making the same mistake twice. Once you do it a second time it becomes a choice."
@ManOnFire thanks man
What are you talking about, you were just flirting with some sad, tool sounding bad or supposed bad boy who was bragging on the internet. If there’s anything more try hard than bragging on the internet, I don't know what it is lol
Nothing wrong with giving up on women.
No being gay is fine
Ahhh. Spoken just like someone, who can't handle rejection and shames men for not wanting you. I see it did hurt. Good. The truth more often than not does.
Huh?
You've got we confused
Women LOVE doing what they think they're not supposed to do. I'm currently with a woman who's in a committed relationship and I've never seen someone get so damn excited over sex in my life. The fact that it's dangerous is what makes it so exciting for her.
I feel they would fuck really good and be wild in bed.🥰
@jabberwocky00 practice makes perfect. And the more women you attract, the more practice you get. :)
It seems like a true fact but I’ve had some damn near amazing dick that did have a high body count at all.
*did not
@jabberwocky00 there's the natural factor as well! Not to say every dude with a body count is going to be amazing in bed... some are naturally selfish as well and have no clue, just pump and dump and that's why they gotta find a new girl after a couple days or weeks.
So true... i remember this one time i got into it with a shit talking meter maid who was fucking with a lady friend of mine and i ended up taking his ticket book from him. . slapping hishat off his head and tipping over his 3 wheel cart... then tearing off on my bike.. She called me a few minutes later and just said "oh yeah"
At the end of their proverbial day, and under all their layers of their proverbial onion, (most) women want to be taken and smashed out... and I'm always happy to oblige when the opportunities *arise.
*Innuendo totally intended.
Lmao I see
Am I wrong?
Where do I start:
- media romanticises narcissists
- dominant men are usually bad and biologically women often go for higher ranking men
- some think a bigger asshole will protect you better from other assholes
etcetera
and in addition often these assholes play pretend nice guy around women, and only other men see what a shithead he actually is
Nailed that last part girl
When I think of guys I’ve been attracted to I wouldn’t categorize them as bad boys. Most of them were assertive and handsome in a traditionally masculine way, but not dangerous and rough.
Woman love man who are confident, aren't needy, cares more about themselves than their woman, focused on their own hobbies and life, and aren't relationship focused. The so called "bad boys give them the emotion highs that they need soo much. Woman always want a man who is more superior than them, and the guy who doesn't care about her and aren't that into her considered to be superior by them.
Suprisingly most females view me as a psychopath rather than some "bad boy" because Im not attractive or charming
I'm very hot headed & asertive to MY selfie desires & I'm my OWN leader & get things done with no compromises
You're only viewed as a "bad boy" if you're ALSO attractive
I'm not so I'm only ever seen as a psychopath or sociopath as some have referred to me as
No one gives a shit what you are, headass
@navyrobin
I'm not the one to start flame wars as their petty & time waster
But you'd be surprised by how much negativity I can get from others just by being there
Isn't this stuff most guys already knew or suspected was true. Only thing that wasn't mentioned was the importance of physical appearance.
Maybe for short term relationships but not for a long term partner. And you don’t know what kind of childhood experience the girl had, everything affects the choices we make.
I'm a woman and I love genuinely nice guys. To each of it's own.
So is that why that one girl turned me down in favor of a limp dicked, fat asshole who beats women in wheelchairs so hard they get launched out of them?