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I am NOT defined by my Scars "A Survivors Account" (Page 2)
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Hey I'm really sorry that happened to you :(
I have two friends who were raped, can we dm ab how i can help them? I dont know anyone personally who's recovered
Thanks, and I haven't actually recovered, been pretty messed up my whole life. Thousands of hours of therapy just try to teach me how to carry it.
There is no such thing as recovering from being raped.
Sorry 😞
Girl, I am so sorry. But I bet you hear that a lot so I am going to expand on it.
1. What you went through is something no one should ever go through.
2. You were so brave. I have experienced something similar, and I know how hard it is to speak out, but you did the right thing.
3. I love you, and I wish you peace and joy and security for the rest of your life. Your scars are what make you you, and they are what make you beautiful.
What is it about Indigenous women? Is it just growing up in poverty from being marginalized? Or is it to do with the sovereign reservations?
I really wish I knew, I wouldn't say my family was growing up in poverty, nor was my attackers family. Granted there is a lot of others that are in that situation.
Especially in Canada. Not saying it’s their fault at all. They’ve been marginalized constantly. But I’m more right brained and like to find the actual issues. Wish I knew.
I'm pretty much defined by my scars.
The experience of getting them is what taught me what most couldn't learn even while going through it.
My scars are who I am today, but I don't and won't be the girl who got attacked my whole life. Hence why I am not defined by them, they are just what made me who I am today.
Well, the point of getting scars is learning not to get the same ones over and over again.
At least not as often.
An absolutely heartbreaking story. I cannot grasp the pure evil in some people. Best of luck to you moving forward.
I can't think of anything anyone could say in regards to this.
I'm sorry some people are just horrible human beings that don't deserve to live.
ooof... talk about a nightmare. Not even sure what to say... Sorry
No one does, and that is okay.
You are very brave to share this story, I know it's awfully hard. It hit me, I couldn't stop reading. It always make me feel bad, because I would like to help and I can't. I am horribly sorry, just can't find words...
May your soul cure, girl. I will pray for this. Stay strong.
Wow! This is not an easy story too read let alone too tell.
Thats a huge trauma and it gave me chills just by reading it, i hope you are able to get over it and have best future ahead 🙂
Really sorry what happened to you...
I wish your attackers get cruelest punishment
I am so sorry to hear that hon, me too🙁❤️
hugs <3 im sorry for what happened to you
Sorry that happened to you, is there a way I can find the videos online?
That is so bad, sick people..
I am so sorry to hear that
Prayers, #metoo, Jan 2000 :(
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