My take on women's age
Why would I need to ask her age?
- To check her maturity level
- To check whether she's a jailbait
- To better connect with her
- To find out who that Pink Anon is
Sometimes a young person can exhibit a better mental maturity than a biddy, but you cannot deny that experience comes with age and experience brings maturity. For the sake of your own sanity, you should only tolerate mature people in your life. The reason why women feel insecure about their age is because age is instinctively and historically used as an indicator of her attractiveness, eligibility for marriage, and her ability to bear children. Despite the fact that there are countless of women in their 30s & 40s that look beautiful, asking about their age is still considered a taboo because age does affect the looks (negatively), and so does the maturity (positively).
Just because younger women look attractive, it doesn't mean you go too far and jeopardize your career and freedom for temporary pleasure. Rampant use of hormones in the food and the presence of BPA in water has feminized the Gen-Z so much that 1 out of every 3 gentlemen reading this is suffering from gynecomastia, which is also why today's women are hitting puberty much earlier than it used to.
All excuses aside, you deserve this information because it is very important detail for her identity and you cannot truly connect with someone for a long term who conceals information. There's a difference how we communicate with a child, a girl, a woman and an old lady. The knowledge of this will affect how you will bond with her. So, ask her this out...
How do I ask without being impolite?
You don't.
What you need to do is :-
1. Ask her about her hobbies. Ask her what does she love doing the most. If she didn't give a satisfactory response, you need to reassess your options and reflect upon yourself and your life choices. You deserve a person with better personality. But in case she mentioned some interesting things. Ask her or (better) figure out what she's most enthusiastic about.
2. Let's say she mentioned that she loves painting. Get her excited and ask her to show some of her best drawings and stuff. She'll show some of her favourites, or her recent stuff (because of recency bias). Compliment her and ask how long has she been doing that, what's her experience. She'll tell you that she's been drawing for 21 years.
3. Now ask her at what age she started that hobby. She'll tell you that she started painting at the age of 8.
4. Add the ages she stated in the steps 2 & 3. And now you know how old she is without even asking her about her age.
I think it's about time we ditch this social stigma and make women comfortable about their age. We're marrying at a much older age than ever before. The advancements in the science has corrected most of our fertility problems and women... You are more than just a number on your birth certificate. You are beautiful.
Game on folks, believe!
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