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Basically you think with your heart instead of your brain, and never ask what's good for you.
Not so different from guys thinking with their dick instead of their brain, and never ask if the girl is good for them.
Why are women attracted to bad boys? Because they're stupid. Bad boys are also stupid. Birds of a feather, flock together.
There are many nicer guys who are know who they are and are void of insecurities which is similar to a bad boys. Self-fulfilling prophecies are not going to get you anywhere. If you think you are going to finish last, then you are going to finish last.
I must say it's refreshing to see this honesty from a woman rather than the ubiquitous denial about women and bad boys. I respect that.
Thank you!
First of all why are all the gifs of Ryan Gosling lol? Second the "nice guy" stereotype we all think of is not confident and is insecure so why would girls want this guy? The reality is that girls who claim they "just want a nice guy" don't actually want a "nice guy." They want a guy with bad boy qualities and nice guy qualities. Guys who struggle with women, I'm not saying you have to fake it but fake it till you make it.
I think its because people like to think they can change someone, or if that badboy was a player that they could be the one they don't play. Plus ave realised a lot of the badboys are really mysterious and keep a lot to themselves which is really attractive for some reason
How does one remain mysterious, without being too mysterious?
Just not talking about your past, any person you have been with or What's going on in your life. Just the small talk really
Like if a girl asks what you been doing today?
Instead not going on about everything just a simple," just went out with a few friends what about you".( Not really getting into detail but letting them know you've hung with a few friends)
Men who brag about everything there doing, places they've been the daily arguments and reasons why there past relationships didn't last ain't that attractive to me for some reason.
How about who is just his honest self around you?
As human beings we want to feel that we can have every thing, so we focus on hard on obtaining what we can't. This is the reason some of you girls leave us the loving and supporting men originally. That's also a reason for us guys making our awkward moves and acting alpha. It's only natural :3 but if you didn't do so then life would've been much more easier and simpler :D
Nice guys: our relationships with bad boys never last, so don't move on to someone else, wait for us to break up so you can have sloppy seconds.
They are better in bed? haha thats a load of bologna!
It depends how you are trying to have sex. a nice guy would probably care to be intimate where as a bad boy would probably just fuck you
I think girls like getting fucked more than making love, at least that has been my experience
I don't agree with the notion that girls like "bad boys."
Girls like rich guys, who just happen to be the "bad boys." It's not the "bad" part of them, it's the money!
I'm sure about the sex part, I'm only speculating (I've never been with a bad boy... or any other boy), but I would have thought a bad boy typoe would be selfish in bed like he is in other aspects of his life.
I guess they'd have more practice though, so that might help...
*not sure
I agree with This because it's the excitement and the chase we get.. Especially the unpredictablitity you get with them that you don't get with the nice guy. I usually fall for the nice guys but I will want to date that one mysterious guy that will get me heart pumping. Honest truth (for me)
Some people are confused about the appeal of changing a bad boy. It's pretty simple though. The reason it's appealing is because girls think it proves how much the guy loves them if he is changing who he is for them. It makes them feel like they are more special to that guy in comparison to other people.
Its her ego
Yeah, pretty much.
But wait I thought the girl was the one doing the changing. Why can't the guy just be a genuinely good person, who stands up for himself, and you'll say yes?
No. Womrn don't like " bad boys"
Psychopaths are drawn to Sociopaths. And vice versa. Bc they " challenge" each other.
@Kalinda So essentially what you're saying is that you are all psychopaths?
Actually i disagree with the common assumption that people make that bad boys break hearts..
Even though my relation with a boy (Bad Boy) is way too much complicated but i have never felt that it won't last..
@Inlove29 What about if he cheats on you?
"And finally... the sex.."
You probably could have spared yourself the time and just wrote this. I've found women go for men they are sexually attracted to (men, too). Occasionally other considerations take a back seat, including altruism.
YO, sorry but I am not at all attracted to bad "boys" they are immature as fuck and think they are the coolest and feel the need to be in the center of attention.
@NervousPie Then is someone in the gray area alright, just a guy who has confidence in his true self
If I see another MyTake on "Nice Guys" and "Bad Boys"... I probably won't do anything T-T
What about the crazy guys? Not crazy as in needing to be in a mental hospital. Just guys that are crazy, funny, and confident?
I understanding why women like the bad boy personality and behaviour.
What I don't understand is why women like bad boys who are not good-looking.
I don't get how girls can be attracted to guys who are not physically attractive.