So I'm just gonna throw out a few points here because I don't have the attention span or the patience to write out a novel on here. I'm also saying right now that of course this isn't speaking for all girls. Only girls that go after bad boys. So from here on out when I say girls I am referring to girls who like bad boys. Girls like bad boys because bad boys don't stick with girls or get in relationships typically. This makes them difficult to hold down so they want to be that one special girl that he couldn't move on from. Why? Because women are constantly in competition with each other. It's a trophy they can hold over other women. Also bad boys tend to cause a lot of drama and emotional stress. Two things that girls seem to eat up hence the obsession with reality TV shows, keeping up with the Kardashians and pretty much anything that involves trashy gossip or taking a beautiful skill and turning it into a competitive, trashy pile of TV garbage. So understand that this obsession is actually less about the guy and more about them. So what can you do about this? Well you have a few options here but I highly recommend what I consider to be the best option which is, don't EVER give this kind of girl the time of day. She's just not worth it my friend. She's emotionally shallow, selfish and simply not ready for anything serious anyway. If that doesn't float your boat there is option number 2: be the bad boy. Now obviously not everybody has this kind of persona so what I actually mean by that is, be an asshole. A lot of these girls have a hard time telling the difference and it's actually pretty easy to be an asshole. It's not a guarantee but it's an option that might work. Anyways, good luck fellas. And don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
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One reason why girls may like douches is due to their instincts telling them that since these guys are aggressive they are likely more able to extract resources from other people with their aggressive methods - resources that the girl (as a female mate) can then use. Since women generally prefer men who are better off financially (doesn't matter if morally), it stands to reason that they will also prefer men who can potentially become better off.
Basically the girls who fall for shallow douches are no less shallow themselves.
Some people, both genders, just want what they can't have. Personally, I find a bad boy embarassing to be with and the whole mind game tired.