Girl I'm dating doesn't respond to "good night" text... or initiate conversations the next day. Is she avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

I used to send her "good night" or "good morning" texts and she'd respond when she sees. Might have text conversation later that day... Is it normal to not talk to SO everyday? or is this a sign I should be wary about?

[airbear2626]

I'm a little confused about the question. Are you asking if its normal that you don't talk to the person you're dating every day?

Answering your other question, I wouldn't be too alarmed if she doesn't always respond to goodnight texts or start conversations the next day. But it also depends on how long its been going on for. She could just be needing a little extra space or she may be busy. It could also be the fact that she's so used to you initiating the conversation that she doesn't feel the need to. But you guys are dating so you should be able to ask her questions. If you're concerned just ask her if everything's ok. I don't think there's much to worry about though :)

[Asker]

it's been about few days now...

[airbear2626]

I wouldn't worry much but I'd ask her if everything ok :)

[meganluv32]

Not saying she is, but the same thing happened to me with my ex boyfriend, I found out he was with another girl and actually he didn't talk to me for 4 days one time. I broke up with him and now we talk more. I think maybe you should try to spend more face to face time with her, try to figure out what's really going on, or send her really sweet text messages in the morning that she'll wake up too. She may also be busy or just not wanting to be in a relationship anymore that happens a lot. Just ask her what's being going on lately, anything new? That'll tell you if she's busy or not.

[Asker]

Well it started off when she got sick so I assumed it was because she was sick and didn't have the energy to talk. But the frequency of conversation dipped even after she recovered... so I'm confused

[billyboy367]

hey you looking to far in to this every buddy needs some breathing room? i don'tn think you have any thing to worry about

[Deft_maiden]

She doesn't want to appear clingy.

[Anonymous]

She won't even reply goodnight?

[Asker]

well we're in a 16 hr time difference. but yeah she didn't say anything

[Opinion Owner]

Wow I don't know then would she reply before and how long would she take?

[Asker]

Normally she'd reply with a "good afternoon" (it's morning for but afternoon for me), then we'd talk until I sleep. But lately she hasn't been doing that as much...