My ex boyfriend committed a suicide because of me? (Page 2)
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I'm sorry for the loss.
But NO, breaking up with people is a normal part of dating.
Not sure why that happened. He must of had more in his mind then he could handle I guess...
Please don't feel guilty. You didn't kill him, he did.
Thank you.
But if I didn't break up with him... then he wouldn't have to die. He doesn't deserve to be with me, but he doesn't deserve to die...
No, quite frankly, you didn't do shit, it was all on him. He didn't have to kill himself. Heck, his mom didn't have to tell you why either, now look at you, all upset.
Come to think of it, he really was arrogant and self-centered wasn't he? ! You were the one that was hurting and upset at his lack of compassion towards you.
I was upset that all he knows is HIM and HIS BENEFIT. He never do anything for me. I'm the one who made the sacrifice I'm the one you did everything for him... He doesn't deserve to be with me, but he doesn't deserve to die...
Yeah, I agree. It was bad for him to die. Personally I think his mom was bad as he it. It wasn't her place to tell you why he died, as if she wanted you to feel guilty as if you had something to do with his death or something.
She called me and screamed in the phone "You kill my son, you kill my sonnnnn!" which hurts me so bad... I didn't want him to die too...
MY GOD, WHAT A PIECE OF CRAP SHE IS!!! I mean she's the mom so the reason why he came out the way he did is because of her. It's more her fault than yours. In the end it's all on him.
I just feel like saying, forget about him, forget about her and forget about this whole thing, you did what you could do to fix all this and now it's the end. Just find yourself a nice guy in the future who will love you like you are a princess.
Thank you Sean. I know this is terrible, I will try to forget about all this...
His suicide had to do with his weak character not you. Do not let that hang over your head or it will eat you up. It was his choice and decision. He made it all on his own.
But if I didn't break up with him... then he wouldn't have to die. He doesn't deserve to be with me, but he doesn't deserve to die...
People break up all the time.
What he did is all on him.. Whether he deserved to die or not is not for us to decide.
He made his choice.. People don't kill themselves over one isolated incident. He was weak and predisposed.
You have to get over this guilt! Get some help. He victimized you too
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You didn't do anything wrong.. He clearly had issues while in the relationship with you. Mentally stable people handle the stress of a past relationship in more productive ways. This isn't on you.
Thank you...
You're welcome.
Lol writing it was because of you in the note proves he was a pathetic waste of skin, it's not your fault he was a weak loser.
Thank you...
Of course I would break up with him if he do those to me. Nobody like to be treated that way. His suicide is not your fault. . I would feel sad but I dont see it as the girl's fault
He did it without a warning? Don't blame yourself if he did it without a warning. In fact, killing yourself is not a normal reaction after a break-up, so it means that he was in poor mental health.
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Don't blame yourself.. He sounded like such an asshole. It isn't fair him blaming you. He might have had a lot more wrong with him and wanted to blame you. Sorry I don't have any advice for you. Stay strong my friend.
Thank you for your kind words...
No problem I hope you're ok!
He didn't do it because of you, he did it because of him. End story.
Very manipulative, selfish and not right in his mind, that is NOT your fault.
He was troubled before he even knew you. With the suicide note he still wanted to hurt and control your emotions
OMG. So he did love you after all! What was in the note exactly?
I don't know what exactly is in the note. All I know is his mom calling me and screaming at me "You kill my son, you kill my sonnnn! The note says it all omg".
If he did love me, then he wouldn't just know HIM and HIS BENEFIT. He never do anything for me. I'm the one who made the sacrifice I'm the one who did everything for him... It had been 3 years, and he never change. If he did love me he would appreciate all I did for him, but he never think about returning any favor, because in his mind it's not a favor, it's something that I supposed to do.
If he did love me, ge would have think for me, but no. All he knows is HIMSELF.
OMG this is so horrible. When did this happen and how old was he?
The call from his mom happened about 2 days ago. It hurts me so bad when she said that I didn't want him to die either...
All the bad things he done to me happens in 3 years...
He is 17 :( He doesn't deserve to be with me but he soesn't deserve to die...
OMGGG 17 that's crazy. Imagine his mother, his family. How the fuck are they going to deal with that? She must want to come and kill you right now. However I think you do have a point if it is true that hye made the relationship all about himself
Kill me? What the fuck did I did wrong? I tried everything I could to make the relationship work out, while he showed no effort.
So they think I should force myself to renain in the hell-on-earth relationship to keep him from killing himself? Breaking up is normal, and almost all normal people don't choose to end their life fron it.
Well Romeo killed himself because he couldn't live without his Juliet. Did you pull out the plug suddenly?
No, I talked to him about all my concern about a year ago. Whenever I bring up the problem and tried to work it out, he ignored me and hang up the phone. I gave him 1000 chances and he still doesn't care.
Well to be honest, provided that you are telling the truth it was his fault. Of course it is still a tragedy and he shouldn't have.
He is selfish and now he is gone.. He controlled his own demise