They see muscles and think "gym rat", "meat head", etc. They see ego, cockiness, and self absorption. It's not the look, it's the attitude that drives men to attain the look.
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So weight lifting isn't an acceptable hobby because people like you assume lifters are all egomaniacs?
Well here is my honest answer: I like looking at muscular guys with sixpack and I dont find it bad BUT I prefer guys who weigh normal , not fat but not slim too just average. I dont know I find it cuter
They are definitely attractive but I think they're more referring to a body builder type body. That is just too much. Lean muscle is nice without too much bulk. But then again each to their own :)
Honestly I'm the same as you I don't workout for women I train for myself because I want to be healthily, stronger and faster. If women like it, great if they don't who cares besides when in the gym the only thing that matters is that last rep.
I like muscles but I think overly huge roof like muscles are disgusting. Nice lean toned guys are nice
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There's nothing wrong with a nice body. Just don't look like the Incredible Hulk, cause that just looks unnatural. If you like working out, then work out. Being fat isn't a turn on for a lot of girls. Just don't go overboard with it.
Your replies make me feel like you're dying to make sure that girls think you're attractive. Look, having muscle isn't the end all be all for attractiveness, and different girls are going to like different things. So you can't win a few girls over because they don't like ridiculously muscular men, boohoo. It doesn't make them insecure, they're allowed to have different tastes just like men.
I think it depends. I don't want a body builder, but a nice body is a nice body. Personally I've always had a thing for skinny guys. It's all preference. I feel like, I could be wrong, but that you are offended that some of these girls wouldn't find you attractive.
You just said I don't work out for girls yet you asked "what is up with some girls say muscular guys are a turn off and then you get super offended by it by saying you insecure people are absolutely pathetic. You obviously do workout for girls.
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They see muscles and think "gym rat", "meat head", etc. They see ego, cockiness, and self absorption. It's not the look, it's the attitude that drives men to attain the look.
So weight lifting isn't an acceptable hobby because people like you assume lifters are all egomaniacs?
Where in any of that did I state my personal views? I stated what some women perceive when they see a man with muscles, and I'm clearly not a woman.
But your insecure response just justified the views of those women.
<3 :)
Muscular guys turn me off
Because I like skinny guys
No muscle
No fat
Just skinny
Like 5'10" and 120 lbs skinny
I can't help what I'm attracted to
"5'10" and 120 lbs"
That is crazy unhealthy lol
Ew...
I'm 5'2" and 103 lbs
I can't help what I'm attracted too
They're insane lol. Unless you're like a huge fake tan hulk guy it's hot.
Well here is my honest answer:
I like looking at muscular guys with sixpack and I dont find it bad BUT I prefer guys who weigh normal , not fat but not slim too just average. I dont know I find it cuter
They are definitely attractive but I think they're more referring to a body builder type body. That is just too much. Lean muscle is nice without too much bulk. But then again each to their own :)
Honestly I'm the same as you I don't workout for women I train for myself because I want to be healthily, stronger and faster. If women like it, great if they don't who cares besides when in the gym the only thing that matters is that last rep.
Muscular guys are not a turn off, for sure.
P. S: umm yeah sure it's so obvious that you don't work out for girls.
I like muscles but I think overly huge roof like muscles are disgusting. Nice lean toned guys are nice
There's nothing wrong with a nice body. Just don't look like the Incredible Hulk, cause that just looks unnatural. If you like working out, then work out. Being fat isn't a turn on for a lot of girls. Just don't go overboard with it.
Muscles can make a guys arms really veiny and it grosses me out. Also I dont work out very often so I wouldn't expect my SO to either.
To me it seems too self centered.
I prefer guys that have well built minds anyway.
Big bulging biceps are boring.
HHHH
Your replies make me feel like you're dying to make sure that girls think you're attractive. Look, having muscle isn't the end all be all for attractiveness, and different girls are going to like different things. So you can't win a few girls over because they don't like ridiculously muscular men, boohoo. It doesn't make them insecure, they're allowed to have different tastes just like men.
Exactly!
^this
Jumping to conclusions eh?
Getting a little butthurt eh?
You wish
I think it depends. I don't want a body builder, but a nice body is a nice body. Personally I've always had a thing for skinny guys. It's all preference. I feel like, I could be wrong, but that you are offended that some of these girls wouldn't find you attractive.
personal preference. some of us like men to look natural.
You are pathetic.
You are insecure af, that's why you work out so much and try to talk others here down.
Stay muscular. The girls on this site aren't an accurate portrayal of all women in this regard.
Yea I was confused to hear that too. I guess they don't know what they want
You just said I don't work out for girls yet you asked "what is up with some girls say muscular guys are a turn off and then you get super offended by it by saying you insecure people are absolutely pathetic. You obviously do workout for girls.
No I don't
@asker Yes. Yes, you do xD
Please go away
it's not possible for every girl to share a similar taste you know
Women have different perspectives of beauty in this world.