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i would think you had a lot of girls into you, so there's really no point.
What would u do if a really attractive guy approached asked u out?
Say no.
Oh wait, is this a random stranger or someone i know?
I meant a random stranger. msay they spoke to u for like 15 mins and u gelt like u knew them a little when they asked
really? what if he was hitting on you? still no point?
I am a very outgoing person, the type to approach a random stranger and ask them out, but another girl with a completely different personality is going to react a different type of way. Unfortunately, you can't really gauge someone's complete personality based off 2 minutes of observation, so if your approach a random girl, if she isn't as outgoing, or feels inept compared to your attractiveness, she will definitely be suspicious.
If he's really attractive, I generally assume that unless he goes out of his way to flirt with me, he's not interested and never could be. And even if he does flirt with me, I'm a little shy and skeptical, because I assume he could get someone much more attractive than me and has girls lining up to be with him, and there's always the possibility that he's only flirting with me as a joke.
Girls have a lot of insecurities even when there good-looking even when there confident they might just be intimidated
Hell yes. Many attractive guys show interest in me and I’m always paranoid that they’re just another sleazy, self-absorbed, narcissistic player. The hottest ones usually are. The sexiest guys usually have the worst value systems.
Usually if a really attractive guy flirts with me... I also kind of resist because he is just too attractive and I would rather find a guy more on my level... Just because I wouldn't want to be the beast to his beauty... It usually works the other way around
thats also wot i think :)
we are on the same page
I think thats a bad way of looking at it
Yep no point, he's got many women sure he knows he's hot and im sure he is a shallow asshole because of it, actually you sound conceded and i bet you are. You can lie to me and the world but not yourself. A very attractive man is less likely to stay loyal, less likely to not feel entitled, much more likely to be a headache he is not worth. lol yes i do avoid men like you, like the plague.
You- man whore, asking girls for numbers you just met.
not a man whore- get a girlfriend and build a relationship. If you were as good looking and worthy of a man you try to come across as, you would already have a girlfriend and would not be out chasing girls like so many man whores before you. It took me 2 min to figure you out.
In what way do I sound conceited? All I've said is that a lot of women have told me Im good looking, I dont look in the mirror and think, "oh wow, ur so amazing". Also, Im very committed, if I meet a girk that I like then I dont even notice other girls, Im really loyal. And with the whole getting the girls number thing, so u think that if I meet a girl who I think I could have a really great relationship with, u expect me to not get her number and then kick myself for weeks because Ill probably never see her again.
You clearly have serious issues urself, and if u think that you have figured me out in 2 minutes then youve got a very big ego.
dude i am the same way. i've been told my whole life that i'm good looking, and i own a mirror as well. i'm outgoing and fun and smart, but i think good looking guys have to show a bit more interest initially. think about it man, when a girl sees a good looking guy who is dressed well and outgoing, she will always assume that you're a player.
I dont make assumptions about a guy i dont know, I wait until I get to know his character before I determine if he is a player or not.
I really don't care about looks, so I wouldn't get suspicious.
Depends on the situation, if he just wants to be friends, then I'm like sure, whatever
but there was a time when an extremely attractive guy asked me out, I didn't know what to do, I panicked and said no, I thought it might be a trap
Sadly yes, since we feel it means they are getting any girl they want. But being on the attractive side of the spectrum it goes both ways. Men avoid me a lot for this reason thinking I can get any ma I want or that I am shallow. don't know.
That's so true.
If he's showing interest in me than yes. No reason for a stranger or acquaintance to go for a girl several leagues lower than him in the looks-department.
If there's a hot guy who wants me, who am I to complain?
I agree I am suspicious of extremely good looking guys. I know girls throw themselves all over them and just assume, being male, they are all about it.
If you're attractive and disciplined they see it as the biggest red flag in the world. Oh he must be a psycopath he must be a serial killer he's too charming he's too confident etc psycopathic women will challenge you but also deeply desire you
Women have been taught to watch out for men like this its also the case of watching too many movies and TV shows lol women are silly
Maybe they are shy because your good looking, or was not interested when they started talking to you, or maybe because they thought you were going to play them, who knows, you'll find the one.
Of course we are! Most really hot guys are homosexual which is highly unfortunate if your a girl who doesn't think it's hot when guys kiss. (many girls don't)
Not always. Usually I just wave at them or continue doing my business but if he keeps staring me down or following me I'm going to get really paranoid and uncomfortable.
You wave? Damn I wish everyone was confident enough to do that
It's cuz most of the time guys like that are players and most of the time us girls are afraid of being hurt.