(of course I don't mean in an insulting/harassing way)
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Some do some don't. It bothers me when guys say ALL girls get dressed just for male attention. It doesn't even have to be dressing up. Guys will say girls only wear shorts for guys to stare at their ass.
Of course some girls dress for male attention, some don't. But I think most of us girls have multiple reasons for why we dress the way we do. I personally don't get dolled up. I'm more of a t-shirt and shorts or jeans kind of person 75% of the time. I wear what's comfortable and cute, I'm not trying to get stared at.
Of course it's nice to dress up and be viewed as pretty! My husband and I go on a date night at least once a week, get dressed up, and go out and spend the night enjoying time together. I enjoy when guys view my as attractive, and my husband takes it as a compliment as well (as long as they aren't rude or disrespectful about it of course).
eh. I don't know. that kind of attention is kind of... intoxicating. but then it just makes me want to hide. i don't really think of the guys as "pervy" exactly... I don't know. honestly, it depends on the outfit.
For example? If it's revealing, like a skirt?
Everyone likes attention your telling me you wouldn't like it if girls started seeing you as eye candy?
of course I would like that
THEY LOVE IT!
I know, obviously, because I'm a girl! :)
and I thought, is it possible for a question to get 13 replies from girls and not a single one from a guy?
Now your question has been answered!
sure, I wanted to tell you sth else. Yesterday someone deleted my picture in your question. (the one with sex and guitar hero) and I wondered if they also deleted yours
Hmmmmmm, I have no idea. Maybe it was too graphic? But it didn't show anything? I'd have to check.
they told me that the reason of the removal was adult content. LOL
Haha! Well yeah I guess technically it was, buttttt no worse than some of the bikini pictures 'round here.
anyway, no worries. I just wanted to tell you in case you use it again for not being deleted again :)
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Attention at the street, no. Depending on the time of day it can even be scary..
Attention at the bar, yes.
Attention from guys who could be my father or grandfather... annoying. They tend to have no manners / social clues at all and stare the longest and don't even look away when you give them dirty looks.
But what's wrong with a guy just looking at you on the street without saying anything?
Looking and staring are two different things. Looking means I won't notice unless they say something loud or make a move. In that case I don't care because I won't notice.
I notice when people stare even if they do it behind my back, because I get that uneasy feeling to 'fight or flight' and look around and catch them (easy when they don't even bother to look away).
ok I see...
Not the men in that photo. They look like they're up to no good AND looking at her as just a body (no respect for who she is as a person). However, if I were in public wearing a red dress, and a man walked up to me and said, "I just wanted to say you look absolutely fabulous in that dress," and then walked away, I would be flattered.
don't mind the picture, I only put it because I couldn't find another street picture...
I don't think that anyone would check a woman from head to toe in the street :)
I don't like getting attention from random people in general.
I've always gotten a lot more than I care for. :/
from a guy I'm dating or crushing on, yes.
I don't mean to someone come and talk to you, but to notice them/him looking at you while walking
it depends. honestly, I cover up a lot if I have to go out anywhere alone because guys gawking at me, makes me uncomfortable.
It makes me feel great :)
I feel empowered and like a rare token.
If they are making perverted comments then... I feel disrespected.
But of course, the way men comment at you as a lot to do with your outfit.
It just really depends on the way they are checking me out and how old they are.
Do you mean that you prefer to be checked out by older or younger guys?
Just don't like guys who could be my dad checking me out like that.
hahahah LOL
Reality is girls like to be pretty. It's like a competition to look better than other girls but we also like the attention of guys not of creeps or weirdos. Not sure it's the goal to tease guys
I don't really dress up except for occasions like weddings or church, etc. So when I do, I guess it'd be ok. I don't really care about attention. I'm so introverted 😶
I'd say, this would be a compliment. Unless they were gawking with their girlfriend next to them. That ain't right. It puts everyone in an awkward position and then I'd feel terrible.
When I know that I've taken time to pick out an outfit and get all dolled up, damn straight I appreciate the attention from guys.
Well I don't usually get gawked at so I wouldn't be any help 😜 so when a guy does notice my exsistance I'll get back to you xx
if the guy is a similar age then its fine and as long as he doesn't make a rude comment about what im wearing its ok
Let's be honest. I dress up to feel sexy and for men to stare at me. I find it flattering.
it's okay if it is an innocent compliment i find it cute but if it is oddly sexual no thanks
Not when it's off guys that make me feel uncomfortable.
What do you mean?
I said in the description that I mean no creepy attention...
Creepy as this gif? stream1.gifsoup.com/.../creepy-wierdo-o.gif
I would find it flattering :)
good...
Yes unless don't put all that effort in for myself
ok, I get it
Yes I don't put all that effort in for myself is what I meant lol
Well, I don't dress up for myself.
undestood
Is there any other reason to get dressed up?
I don't know. I've heard that some women ''only do it to feel confident about themselves''.
That's true some do to feel confident or to build theirself esteem but in order to do that don't you have to have people noticing you or dishing out compliments? If that's not the case yiu couldve gotten all dressed up and looked at yourself in the mirror.
I mean if I was just dressed ordinary and guys were constantly checking me out it would get kind of annoying but obviously I got dressed up and it's nice that someone noticed whether I'm getting compliments from guys or girls... So o don't know why girls are down voting my opion when it's the honest truth it's not like I'm an attention whore we all do it.
ok, I understand
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