Do girls say "i can't believe you don't have a girlfriend" out of pity?

I'm 22 and haven't been in a relationship since i 18 was nor have I really had a "serious" relationship. I would like to get a girlfriend, but ever since the girl i was dating when i was 18 broke up with me i lost a lot of confidence and haven't been able to attract anybody else since.

Many of my mates have girlfriends and they ask me why i don't have a girlfriend, or if there is anybody i'm casually sleeping with and when i tell them i have neither they begin to question me in disbelief saying things like "but you're attractive and a good guy" etc, one of them even said she would sleep with me if she wasn't dating my mate (awkward). Are girls genuine when they say this, it makes me feel pretty good but i don't understand why only girls who are taken compliment me like this.
Do girls say "i can't believe you don't have a girlfriend" out of pity?
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