Why would you ask a guy to be your gym buddy?

[TedStar]

A girl I've kinda know for 3 years randomly asked me to help her get in shape and be her gym buddy. I am BMI overweight so I know I'm not the picture of health. This girl and I have always had some chemistry but we've never hung out properly or anything and now, after not really speaking for a couple of years she wants to workout with me.

Someone help me make sense of this?

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[Goldylox]

I feel like you're over thinking this. She probably thought you would be interested in working out with her and she may think you are around the same fitness level as she is. It's nice to workout with people and helps you get to know them better. If she likes you as a friend, possibly more, she might want to spend more time with you while getting in shape. Don't over think it, just go with the flow or else you'll give yourself an aneurysm. :)

[Masana]

I would see it as competition. I asked my overweight friend to work out with me so he can train and I could and now we challenge each other he keeps me motivated and I him.

[TedStar]

Sounds good. I am looking forward to it though :D

[Masana]

Hahaha goodluck pal! :)

[Random_chick_2384]

I bet she likes u but is trying to make u look better so u can be the totally package. That's what I would do anyway.

[TedStar]

Lol no man. She's like a little sister I never had

[Random_chick_2384]

well I guess she just wants to workout with somebody and needs someone to compete with or just so y'all could get fit together. I used to go to crossfit with my cousins and my mom.

[Random_chick_2384]

Thanks for MHO!

[1GuyOpinion]

Accept her offer and see where it go.

Maybe she just looking for a reason to hang out with you, as friend or more, nobody know yet.

Don't think too much about it, act casual and keep conversation light and funny. Golden rule in any conversation with girl.

[TedStar]

Yeah, I'm playing cool. It just caught me offguard is all

[hedley326]

A couple at the gym is one of the most attractive things on the planet. Grab this opportunity with both hands and whatever you do... never ever ever let her go.

[TedStar]

Thanks. I guess...

[hedley326]

Honestly. Both of you go to the gym. Lift together. Get fit together. And form a great bond together.

[TedStar]

I hope so to. I know I need to start making more friendships and bonds that go beyond normal and actuall ad a lot of value to my life in the longterm

[hedley326]

Good luck.

[smexiliciousss]

she wants opportunities to spend time with you? suggesting that you can workout together cause you would be dateable in better shape?

[TedStar]

She said she wants to look good for her graduation, but it will be good to spend some time with her

[JohnBhoy94]

Going to the gym is boring when you go by yourself. Maybe she just wanted someone to be with?

[TedStar]

I train alone. it gets me going. Competing against myself and shit. I've already agreed. we'll see what happens on Tuesday

[Prof_Don]

Her wanting to spend unnecessary time with you... is a sign of interest! Take her up on her offer and see where things go! :)

[Levi9incher]

doesn't want to work out alone cos of creepy guys like me, and maybe she knows no one else?

[TedStar]

She's a pretty well known girl. I doubt she'll have problems finding a gym mate

[ArabianPwincess197]

Maybe she thinks you can help her

[TedStar]

I'm barely helping myself lmao, but we'll see what happens

[ArabianPwincess197]

oh ok

[Cowboy6666]

May be to workout together n to help!!!