Lesbian mixed signals... help!! (details in post)?

[Anonymous]

I am a lesbian. There is a girl I was getting close to who is also a lesbian. We were getting close as friends, comfortable that we understood the struggles that can come with being gay. Then, out of nowhere she started to pull away. It was after she started to pull away that I realize I might like her as more than a friend...but I am not sure she would ever feel the same. I don't know if she is pulling away because she doesn't like me or if it is because she was flirting and I was ignoring it. Last night we were talking about relationships and she said "I keep finding perfect girls who are either straight or dont notice my attempts" and then today she was being super rude. The on/off friendly/rude has gone on for a few weeks and I am confused and sad. Today she said "its a good thing you aren't a guy, you would have horrible luck" I am failing to understand her, I feel like now she is just being mean. Advice? What should I do? Please help!

[Anidaemperor]

if you think.. no are sure you like her talk to her straight up you do not want to miss out on that opportunity trust me talking things out really help you may think that thing would be awkward but at the end of the day you get to know if she is just teasing you if she isn't you'll be glad you did (talk) and if she isn't at least it's off your chest

[SomeHopeLeft]

hmmm i's either a game or she is not interested, hard to tell, her ignoring you just makes you want her more, probably it's about the chase, but you shouldn't put yourself through that, you can't be upfront and ask her about it or just move on

[1987Lover]

No she wants you. Lesbians tend to jump into things and they aren't patient. Maybe tell her straight that you needed her to pull away for you to realise you want her

[pootytangg]

Ahh the baby dyke phase. She likes you but is too shy to be forward one of you need to speak up. Goodluck little one!

[CootiesInfection]

welcome to the wonderful world of dating women. there's a gun on the table if you choose to shoot yourself in retrospect