Girls, Old Girlfriend and Nude Pics?

[Anonymous]

An Ex of mine has quite a few nudes if me which she took/photographed me two years ago... I dated my Ex for about 2 years. I have been dating a new girl a couple months and we really seem to like each other. Turns out, she knows my ex (I did not know this..) and my ex showed her and other girls nudes of me she still had on her computer when a group of women were there drinking wine.

New girl is not that pleased. Would you be mad at me if you were the new girlfirend? It may sound weird but I am not embarrassed my ex showed nudes if me but more worried the new girl might be upset?

Could use some female opinions...

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Would like to hear other ladies opinions please!

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Bump... Thoughts, please!

[Anonymous]

Did your ex know that you're dating this girl? I'm just wondering about her motives to show your pictures to anyone. I may have some old nudes from old ex-boyfriends somewhere, but I would definitely never show them to anyone. Not because I'm ashamed or anything, but because it wouldn't even cross my mind to do such a thing. If your ex knew that you're dating this girl, is it possible that shit wanted to cause problems between you and the new girl?

As for the new girl being upset: I can somewhat understand it but then again she shouldn't be upset. It must be pretty weird for her to be shown nude pics of the guy she's dating when she's out to have fun night with women. But I'm sure she realises that you've had a life before her and she doesn't actually fault you. But your ex-girlfriend seems a bit strange.

[Asker]

I haven't talked with my Ex in nearly Two years. My new girlfriend has only lived in the area for a little less than a year. I had no idea they knew each other... I thin the ex was trying to make problems? I mean not just showing her, but showing her and 4 other women...

What do you think?

[Asker]

And my Ex did not know I was dating her until my new girlfriend mentioned my name. That's when she showed everyone my nudes

[Opinion Owner]

I think your ex was trying to instigate something, especially if she showed the pictures right after the girl you're dating told her that she's dating you. I'm not sure why she'd do that if you haven't seen her in two years. But she must have known that it will be more than weird to that girl to see old naked pictures of you. Maybe she got jealous or god knows what makes people do stupid things. I think she definitely wanted to cause problems or show that girl that she was there first. Maybe your ex is unhappy with her own life at the moment and did it out of spite. I don't know her so it's hard to say. She definitely did have some ulterior motives.

[Asker]

Interesting... I am going to see my girl pretty soon. Haven't really been able to digest everything. I don't want to testa lie contact with my ex and do 't exactly know how good of friends these girls are especially with my new gf only living in town for awhile. Kinda feel like I am walking a tight rope...

[coffeprince]

I think new girl is upset that others have access or had access, but those pics were shared between y and ur ex.. when u both were an item. She can't be too mad BC clearly she is with u despite that u were with her friend first... Its all in the past. If she's upset she's upset, shell get over it. Send her nudes that are... special for her haha OK no bad idea. Just reassure her that you are all hers.

[Asker]

Thankfully, she did not seem to be mad this evening.. She actually did want nudes from me now. She said if another women had nude pics of me, at the last she should too...

[coffeprince]

Yep that's good logic, that's what I'd demand as well lol. Make em tasteful! Haha

[Asker]

Lol, will do. Do you have any suggestions? I would like her to have better pics!

[Mookinsx]

no, its your ex who has them. there's nothing you can do about that apart from ask her to delete them. if you had them of her then i would be annoyed. i have nudes of a guy on my phone but for a reason which i shall not explain he has asked me to keep them till he asks for me to send them back to him.

[Asker]

I'd rather not festa lush contact with my ex. Ordinarily, I wouldn't mind if an ex had nudes of me or still looked at them, but this is different given her connection to my new girl

[kittykatbrat]

I am a serial dater.
Sexual jealousy + making a commitment doesn't exist in my life :)

I have a very jaded + dark past
I actually luuuuuuuuuurve that my dates do also... the badder, the better.

UPS to you dude :)

[Asker]

I really haven't been a cereal dater. Only dated one other girl inbetween the Ex that showed pics, and new girl. Just kinda surprised my EX openner a folder on her computer of nudes of me to show to six women. Not sure if she did it to hurt me or her 'friend'?

[kittykatbrat]

Your ex gf is proud of you dude and wanted to show other women what she once had + let your current gf know that SHE was there first.

That's my read anyway.

[Asker]

Cool. I am 6 feet, and weight 190 pounds, pretty muscular and I have better abs than most guys and a good v... . My penis is 7.5 inches.

I hope that's the case... My current gf has been at work all day and I haven't been able to talk to her today. Last night is when everything went down

[kittykatbrat]

... nice :)

I wish you much luck with your current gf.
Peace xo

[Asker]

Thanks! For your help

[Fatfox13]

Who is your new girlfriend upset with? It certainly shouldn't be you because you didn't know her at the time. You were in an intimate commuted relationship with your ex and those pictures and moments were private. Sounds like your ex was being a spiteful bitch and trying to be nasty to your new girlfriend and make her jelous.

[Asker]

Hey, thanks for your reply. She is not really mad at me anymore... She told me she was more or less shocked over what was happening when everything was happening. I think things will be okay with me and her, but things seem really shaky with her friends now. I feel bad because they are her only friends in the area