Why are girls so mean and petty😒?

[Anonymous]

Girls in person, as well as on the internet, even some on this website. Act so petty, & just because they disagree with something, or they feel threatened. They lash out. There have been SO many times that girls have tried to pick fights with me, make passive aggressive comments, look at me dead in my face with their "bird of a feather flock together" friends and snicker, etc. Me personally, i dont like drama, & im NEVER the one to start stuff with people first, its just not in me. However im not afraid to stick up for myself no matter the situation... & its funny because sometimes when I do confront them, they either turn a deaf ear to what I'm saying, or start with the name calling, & picking out irrelevant factors of the conversation like how I pronounced a word or something... It just puzzles me what makes other girls act the way they do and its SO irrational at that. Is it jealousy? Is it pure hatred? Ego? Ignorance maybe? 🤔

[AncientWisdom]

Well this is interesting. Perhaps I can illuminate. Several things are going on here in modern western society that are contributing to this phenomenon. First there is a natural aspect that evolved in females. For millennia the only path a female had to any kind of power was her beauty and popularity , and their control of human sexuality. So they think differently from boys literally from birth. If you observe young girls up into mid adolescence they tend to stay in a same sex friend groups just as boys. Girls usually have a best friend with a constantly shifting friend group that enters into the girl and her best friends sphere. These shifts occur as other girls and their best friends enter and leave the friend group. Girls look for connection at a young age. They start learning about trust , loyalty and then there’s their interests. Boys compete physically in their friend groups which have a clear hierarchy. Girls tend to small intimate groups and boys tend to larger groups. So girls are constantly trying to move up the hierarchy of popularity. One of the biggest ways they do this is by downgrading others , gossiping body shaming etc. This takes social power away from their competition. Girls are always in competition to move up and many don’t care if it’s at another’s expense. Many females never grow up and stop jockeying for position. They simply don’t have to in modern times. In western society females are taught they are special from birth. Many females are taught these days that men are pigs , and will say and do anything to get in their pants. So find a good earner have some children and make him pay. They think to themselves. Divorce in the US is a 50 billion dollar a yr business that enriches the government that has incentivized divorce by biased courts and culture. Typical American marriage 1) get married 2) have a couple of kids 3) decides she deserves better then that guy. 4) divorce where she will likely win get the house , car , bank accounts basically leaving dad with nothing but his strong back that’s because they will also get 50 to 75 % of all that man’s future earnings til the children are 18 or 24 if they go to university. So if all the cards in the deck are stacked in female favor by a biased court system you may become “mean” getting rid of sexual competition by downgrading women. Getting rid of men they find unattractive or they just don’t like or who are just in there way by exercising gossip and catty comments and inflated drama meant to steal social power from their target. Modern society has made this easier. The internet has convinced average girls they are a bombshell , largely because of weak men looking for a hookup that tell them constantly what they want to hear therefore validating their behavior. They develop an inflated unrealistic view of themselves so they can afford to be mean. It’s very sad. Females were not as they are now. Modern western society has had a sustained attack on both femininity and masculinity. Hence all men are pigs and if a female doesn’t think that way and embraces true femininity she becomes a pick me. I can give you an example of modern femininities hypocrisy ; “girl don’t let them objectify you !” Then in virtually the same breathe “ of course you can have a only fans it’s your body do what makes you happy and make em pay !” Now you’ve got a plethora of young women saying I’m not an object. Same young woman has a link tree bio with her personal porn page where you can see her butthole for 8.99 a month. Hopefully this helps answer this question. It’s just the tip of the iceberg. I’m writing a book on the modern dating pool. I think someone peed or worse in it.

[Ash_Williams]

It's because you're smart and pretty.

[Kaylyne]

This is definitely something I've not encountered, but there again maybe I've just been very fortunate.

[abundantlyrich]

Its internal self hate , part of growing pains.. Theyll get over it oneday

[Gommers]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hmlPtRu1SQ

[Asker]

Amusing, yet unhelpful

[Asker]

Ur dismissed sir✌

[Asker]

Its actually quite funny honestly😂😂 congrats on showing how much time u have on ur hands

[Gommers]

I'm waiting for a flight

Anyway, it's been a constant issue since the feminist movement started. It's not something that you'll understand or change, just live with it and be better than it.

[Asker]

Understandable, its just sad how some females like to start fights when its so easy to come together

[Barrabus_the_Free]

It's their nature.